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I hold that opinion too. I find myself coming back to it again and again because its one of those mental frameworks (alongside Three Keys and SAC) that puts it all into perspective.
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Exactly, I've found the rolled up sleeves and open buttons to work really well.
I find women staring at my chest.
I'm currently helping out at my dad's company and dress like that at the office lol perks of being the boss' son.
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This is high level stuff, I always fumble groups I'm social but not likable to the girls friends even though I know that's the way... it just feels too much for me handling seduction, compliances from her and being a cool chill guy holding conversations so it's always a hail mary that hopefully girl likes me enough to isolate (often doesn't lol)
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@James D,
Pitch perfect use of group strategy.
That handling got you the lay!
Perfectly balanced. Keeping all three girls engaged, having fun, enjoying the interaction, with just enough extra attention/flirtation to your girl of choice that everyone knew what was up.
I take it the middle girl was the leader (alpha female) of the group?
Seems pretty clear she was from you focusing on passing everything through her, and her directing the other two (telling the other girl to come with her, and announcing for both girls to hear that Becca was going to be with James).
Perfect call running it through her.
Then "shy Becca" is really just following her (alpha) friend's instructions by hanging out (and later hooking up) with you.
Sound objection handling.
No need to concoct some big plan.
"We'll reconnect with them later."
All you need.
Alpha female stamp of approval!
The patented James D "we'll be right back" line.
Everybody gets it!
But they don't come right back...
This is the only mistake in the report.
Letting her shave.
It's so much sexier with the hair still there.
You should've told her if she shaves, you're walking
Anyway man, great report. Great group handling.
Basically a one-shot-one-kill night, as far as the approaching went.
Way to shake that night game rust off!
Chase
Pitch perfect use of group strategy.
That handling got you the lay!
Me, to both chicks: Soooo, how's your night going? Asides from guarding the bar, of course.
Middle girl: yeah it's alright.
Me: just alright?
Middle girl: yeah. and you?
Me: A bit better than alright I hope
They laught a bit but seem bored. Not of me (I hope lol) but probably since they arrived in the venue.
Me (grabbing my drink from the bartender) I'm James btw (switch my drink to my left hand and extend the right one to each one of them) They give me their names and I repeat each name + wonderful to meet you before moving to the next. I start from left to right and when I reach the right chick, the one I like most, I let my handshake and eye contact linger a few more seconds.
Me: You girls play pool? (I gesture nochalantly at the pool table I was playing)
Middle girl: If you mean play as in play "well", no, but we can try to score.
Me: Well as long as you can handle a stick and a few balls, should be fine (wink)
They giggle.
Me: You girls should join me. Let's make that night better than "alright"
I said the word "alright" in the same voice as the middle said it, which gets them laughing.
They follow me to the table.
Me: Alright, so how should we do this? 2 v 2 or...?
Middle girl: nooooo you play against us 3.
Me: Aight aight, best of luck.
I high five each one of them and wink at my girl. Let's call her Becca. She's
During the next 15-20 minutes, I wreck them in pool while teasing the heck out of them.
I give them each a generous amount of my attention and add 10% more for Becca. It soon becomes apparent I favour her but it's not said. Kind of how you could tell the teacher favoured a particular kid at school by the extra attention.
When I offer to help Becca with a shot, the other two make comments like "of couuuuurse you had to help herrr!"
I pretend I don't catch on the innuendo and continue being flirting with all of them, with some extra attention to Becca.
The dynamic was like that of a high school group of friends teasing two of their friends who obviously like each other.
Perfectly balanced. Keeping all three girls engaged, having fun, enjoying the interaction, with just enough extra attention/flirtation to your girl of choice that everyone knew what was up.
I take it the middle girl was the leader (alpha female) of the group?
Seems pretty clear she was from you focusing on passing everything through her, and her directing the other two (telling the other girl to come with her, and announcing for both girls to hear that Becca was going to be with James).
Perfect call running it through her.
Then "shy Becca" is really just following her (alpha) friend's instructions by hanging out (and later hooking up) with you.
Sound objection handling.
No need to concoct some big plan.
"We'll reconnect with them later."
All you need.
Alpha female stamp of approval!
The patented James D "we'll be right back" line.
Everybody gets it!
But they don't come right back...
This is the only mistake in the report.
Letting her shave.
It's so much sexier with the hair still there.
You should've told her if she shaves, you're walking
Anyway man, great report. Great group handling.
Basically a one-shot-one-kill night, as far as the approaching went.
Way to shake that night game rust off!
Chase
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