Saw her several times for sex and did some coupley stuff. How to keep her interested?

[770]

I am not sure if I want anything more than FWB but I do like spending time with her perhaps into something serious. She didn't really ask for any commitment before this/what are we, and I did do couple-y things with her like park, eating out, holding hands, etc. Though she did mention she wasn't sure about continuing to go raw if I see other girls lol. Although it may be related to the fact that she is several years older than me

https://imgur.com/a/wi669YV

 

[Will_V]

I am not sure if I want anything more than FWB but I do like spending time with her perhaps into something serious. She didn't really ask for any commitment before this/what are we, and I did do couple-y things with her like park, eating out, holding hands, etc. Though she did mention she wasn't sure about continuing to go raw if I see other girls lol. Although it may be related to the fact that she is several years older than me

https://imgur.com/a/wi669YV

I usually just let her go if she wants to go.

You didn't help things though by holding hands and stuff. Once you act like a boyfriend she starts looking at things differently, you are evaluated in a different way, and you can't really go back - even trying to go back can be seen as a fail.

Sounds like you need to be more of a leader in your relationships, make sure you know what you want and that she knows what the deal is. The end result of lack of leadership is either her getting messed around or you ending up in a relationship you didn't really want, neither of which is any good for anyone.

 

[Skills]

I am not sure if I want anything more than FWB but I do like spending time with her perhaps into something serious. She didn't really ask for any commitment before this/what are we, and I did do couple-y things with her like park, eating out, holding hands, etc. Though she did mention she wasn't sure about continuing to go raw if I see other girls lol. Although it may be related to the fact that she is several years older than me

https://imgur.com/a/wi669YV

you subcommunicated you don't care, she texted you at 5:30 pm you responded a whole day later, that cause her to auto reject..... it takes literally 2 seconds to text back...

 

[770]

She responded after I said "when did I say I only wanted to hook up. It was lovely to be with you, etc..."

She loved my message and said "Idk I didn't feel a lot of effort on your end so I guess I just assumed"

What should I respond? Not sure how to respond to "not a lot of effort"... last girl said similar thing as well as my past first girlfriend

 

[Skills]

She responded after I said "when did I say I only wanted to hook up. It was lovely to be with you, etc..."

She loved my message and said "Idk I didn't feel a lot of effort on your end so I guess I just assumed"

What should I respond? Not sure how to respond to "not a lot of effort"... last girl said similar thing as well as my past first girlfriend

again she assumed that cause you took for ever to text her back, i said with gen z you got text right away, been saying that for couple of years.. I had girls blocked me if i did not text fast that is how sensitive some are...

say "yeah I am probably guilty of that cause that they i took too long to text you back cause _________________ i was working and i don't see my text at work usually by the time i got home i was dead and felt asleep... Next time we get together you will see that is not the case i really felt when we met that we had amazing chemistry, i have a GOOD FEELING ABOUT YOU"

^that in itself is kind of a soft close, if she responds good to that find out logistics and hard close....

 

[Skills]

also 770 you fucking with her head brother again goes back to how to run a date, so this does not happen (and try to bang her most 2nd meet, no several dates)... read this post for context, cause you already fucked up the whole frame(now you got sale boyfriend possibility which sucks, and then bait and switch cause you fucked up the whole frame):

Date Plans - The lover provider balance keep it ambiguous - troubleshooting

So guys i get many pms, and i see posts about lover provider a lot, people misunderstand the whole thing, this is one of the topics people don't get due to nuances. Ok the lover provider stuff has been discussed to death, and yes it is important, super important..... But as always there are...

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and read this on how to run a date...

Date Plans - The complete guide on How to date - Dating dynamics 101

Why listen to me on this, well i was never good at dating, i would either do ons or long texting (second gen/grandmaster) setting up sexual encounters or i would replicate what happened in the club a second time by doing a club date (since I am the highest value guy in the dance floor made...

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totally forgot this one:

Date Plans - Dating troubleshooting

I was going to write a how to date post 101 but i have already written about it, again you need to learn this post and this post(with a video replica on how i and student fuck 9 out of 10 women) and field test, so i am not going to work and repeat myself, a lot of you are too lazy to field test...

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