Says she will find out if Friday works, haven't gotten back yet

[MuST0BtA1NSkR1Lla]

It doesn't make sense why she wouldn't let me know before a couple of hours before friday night, and even then, i'm unable to keep my night open for her. She could have any reason in the world why she didn't let me know until 2.5 hours before whether she was gonna be available or not, and i still shouldn't keep my Friday open to her. Thing is, i haven't been having sex with anyone except her in 2 months. I'm extremely clueless about STDs, but i'm quite sure things like that just don't evolve on my dick on its own.

I respect her time and when i tell her i will let her know whether X day works or not, i will let her know within a reasonable time frame and if i'm unable to know whether i'm gonna be available or not before that day, i'm not just gonna ghost her for 4 days, i will tell her "Friday? I'm not sure whether i'm gonna have my Friday night free until Friday, so don't bet on it" or whatever. That is the respectable thing to do.

Edit: Read up about the cystitis. "Sometimes intercourse can cause, that the bacterias come up easier in the bladder" (10/10 translation) So all i did was shove bacterias into her bladder with my monster dick.

I before Christmas had a very solid close and ended up being left sitting at the bar.

since then I’ve been double booking dates, I’ve only had one date using this method but I can already see that it will save you an amazing amount of time.

 

[Skills]

"Edit: Read up about the cystitis. "Sometimes intercourse can cause, that the bacterias come up easier in the bladder" (10/10 translation) So all i did was shove bacterias into her bladder with my monster dick."


^ i missed this, so one of the main problems with sleeping with multiple women, or women sleeping with multiple dudes, raw, is that you are going to get or they will get (if sleeping raw with more than 1 dude)...

Bacterial infection.... Based on my experience, and my amouteur sexologist, i think is because your ph and other dudes ph or other women ph is different... With me is 100000% guarantee if i go raw with 2 women 100% of the time 1 will get bacterial infection.... One solution, i found, work sometimes is put hiodroxi peroxide on your dick, when you go from 1 women to the other.... it not always works but it helps.... if she sleeping with multiple dudes going raw then, there is nothing you can do... it has nothing to do with your "monster" dick, trust me, i have taking girls bankrupt of so many bacterial type infections..

 

[dingdong]

"Edit: Read up about the cystitis. "Sometimes intercourse can cause, that the bacterias come up easier in the bladder" (10/10 translation) So all i did was shove bacterias into her bladder with my monster dick."


^ i missed this, so one of the main problems with sleeping with multiple women, or women sleeping with multiple dudes, raw, is that you are going to get or they will get (if sleeping raw with more than 1 dude)...

Bacterial infection.... Based on my experience, and my amouteur sexologist, i think is because your ph and other dudes ph or other women ph is different... With me is 100000% guarantee if i go raw with 2 women 100% of the time 1 will get bacterial infection.... One solution, i found, work sometimes is put hiodroxi peroxide on your dick, when you go from 1 women to the other.... it not always works but it helps.... if she sleeping with multiple dudes going raw then, there is nothing you can do... it has nothing to do with your "monster" dick, trust me, i have taking girls bankrupt of so many bacterial type infections..

Huh interesting. She said it is important to pee after sex which she didnt do that time and thats probably why then. Im gonna ask her if she fucks other guys raw in a non-needy way. Tell her either to make a promise of only fucking me raw and the other guys condom or she can go ahead and fuck raw with them but then im gonna have a condom on (consequence which will satisfy me less and make me less pleased with her, which will make me more inclined to seek out other women. Her body her choice amirite)

 

[topcat]

Huh interesting. She said it is important to pee after sex which she didnt do that time and thats probably why then. Im gonna ask her if she fucks other guys raw in a non-needy way. Tell her either to make a promise of only fucking me raw and the other guys condom or she can go ahead and fuck raw with them but then im gonna have a condom on (consequence which will satisfy me less and make me less pleased with her, which will make me more inclined to seek out other women. Her body her choice amirite)

Bro, I suggest you do this. And not because it's the right way to go, but because I can tell you need to learn from experience. You're going to have to learn this the hard way. You're low empathy, and that is not a negative judgement, I am too. You will only grasp these concepts tactically. Do this your way, get burnt a few times, drive a few girls away, and then return to this thread.

You have a need to control. This is not necessarily a bad thing, I happen to aswell. Only, I've learned that the single way to control a woman, at least in this day, and perhaps in all days past really, is by not controlling. This means realizing women refuse to be pinned down and not requiring it from them. Instead, you need to be harder to pin down than them.

Instead of demanding a girl wear condoms with other men, you simply don't require it from her.. strap up if you want or don't, that's your choice. She should be so concerned about you being out there fucking other hoes raw, that she asks you to wear condoms with them.

Instead of demanding concrete days of their schedule, you recognize their inherent flakiness, schedule only loosely with women, and have them try to lock you down for specific days.

Sometimes flake on women. Give them "maybes" and "let's see how the week goes". Believe me they'll start telling you "I need to know if Friday is good, my sister is coming on..blah blah blah..can you just tell me a day pleasssee?!". When you've got them like this, you'll have more control than you probably even want.

For now though, demand that they wear condoms. It'll be good for you.

 

[dingdong]

Update:
She came over Tuesday last week and we hung out and had sex. I figured it was time that i stopped being the one to text first after meeting, so i went ghost on her to give space to her so that she could start being the one to reach out and when she did reward her with an invitation to come over. So far she haven't reached out and it has been almost a week.

Should i just sit tight or do the Corey Wayne thing of just reaching out to her once a week to make the next date, unless she reaches out before that and i make the date when she reaches out to me?

 

[topcat]

I figured it was time that i stopped being the one to text first after meeting, so I went ghost on her to give space

How many weeks can you bare to wait before you declare this experiment a success or failure?

So far she haven't reached out and it has been almost a week.

6 days ?

do the Corey Wayne thing of just reaching out to her once a week to make the next date

How will you determine a successful method, if you switch it up before receiving a conclusive result?

 

[dingdong]

How many weeks can you bare to wait before you declare this experiment a success or failure?



6 days ?



How will you determine a successful method, if you switch it up before receiving a conclusive result?

Just asking if i'm on the right tracks, i haven't determined the "experiment" to be successful or not yet. Yes it has been 6 days. I can bare to wait infinite weeks. I should just keep ghosting until she reaches out? Yeah?

 

[topcat]

Who knows? She may never reach out, she might reach out tonight. But is this about her, or about you learning the most effective method to get the girls you want now and in the future? If the former, do what ever it takes to lock her down (I couldn't help you there). If the latter, run it like an experiment and figure out what works best.

Do what you want and track your results. Adjust accordingly.

Sorry dude that's all I've got.

 

[Beck Bass]

Hey sweet man, unfortunately i cannot come over today Was at the doctor today as i felt pain, was told that my pussy unfortunately has been dirtied by you (cystitis)

This hoe is playing games, for sure, but the fact that she reached out again shows she still wants that D

The tail thing is because she likes when i call her kitten and all that shit and likes cats and we talked about we should dress her up like a kitten with tail and all, like the one that goes on a plug ahaha.

Lol I have some weird fetiches as those as well, I've ordered girls before to "meow" to me and stuff and they were happy to do it lol

 

[dingdong]

@topcat it's about learning the most effective way in general. Sure i can just figure it all out on my own through trial and error. What i'm asking you guys is, what is your method when you are in a similiar situation as me and how would you proceed in my situation?

 

[Velasco]

what is your method when you are in a similiar situation as me and how would you proceed in my situation?

i can't speak for topcat, but i don't get myself into this situation in the first place. with regards to initating meetups after the second bang. from there she starts the initiating herself.

I figured it was time that i stopped being the one to text first after meeting,

6 days without texts from her is nothing (if that's an issue for you, that means u are texting way too often).

 

[dingdong]

i can't speak for topcat, but i don't get myself into this situation in the first place. with regards to initating meetups after the second bang. from there she starts the initiating herself.

6 days without texts from her is nothing (if that's an issue for you, that means u are texting way too often).

Okay i will just proceed then. She did message me first after the second bang. Should just have kept it that way and been patient,

 

[topcat]

@topcat it's about learning the most effective way in general. Sure i can just figure it all out on my own through trial and error. What i'm asking you guys is, what is your method when you are in a similiar situation as me and how would you proceed in my situation?

I'm in line with Velasco. I've found when I reach out after the first couple bangs they eventually flake. If I leave em to it, some reach out, some don't. Ones that do, hook hard. One's that don't usually never do.

But I'm of the mind diff things can work for diff folks. Which is why I push experimentation so hard..

 

[D. Gately]

Give her the gift of missing you.

If she had a good sexual experience with you she'll text. 6 days is nothing.

 

[dingdong]

Ladies and gents

HB: Would you like a visit some time soon again?

It worked