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Sam

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Gentlemen,

I haven't written a field report for ages, although my sex life during the last 3 years is soaring.
I will share this with you and then let you know why.

The previous Friday I was in a boring wedding. I was dressed sharply in a causal-posh Italian type of way and I was in the mood for new pussy, just like I have been during the last years and months. In the wedding, no target of my liking existed, so I stayed no longer. I got up and left early at about 21:00.

By 22:00, I was already in a quiet bar in my home city Thessaloniki, Greece. While in Greece this time of the year everyone goes to open-air venues, I chose against the tide and went to an indoors bar. I sat at the bar with only 2 women sitting next to me, one of them was a hot, tall, blonde with a model type of a body, long hair and green eyes.

She was all natural. I knew I had to make a move. I did everything against my usual personal textbook, but it worked fine: 1. I opened much later compared to my usual approaches, 2. I opened her indirectly while I am an avid direct game/genuine compliment fan, 3. I offered zero compliments in my overall interaction with her.

So, I opened with a simple "so, where are you from anyway?", because I heard them speaking English instead of Greek. She was a a foreign student from a neighbouring Balkan county who studied in my city. I moved through the conversation smoothly, using pregnant pauses. My fundamentals were as usual very taken care of, I was enjoying my drink and I was moving slowly. I talked in a slow, confident way and every time we talked I was piercing her with my strong eye contact. Whenever I stopped speaking, she picked the conversation up. It was on and I knew it. Her friend was also very supportive. I also used touch on her, supposedly to check her earrings and also got small amounts of commitment such as making her stand up to show me how tall she really was. I also used fake disqualifiers like telling her "it's too bad you are only 19" because it wouldn't work between us since I am 36 to which she replied by trying to prove herself to me. I took her number which she gave me with some hesitation (later she explained that another guy of my age who took her number kept stalking her with stupid texts).

What followed the next days could be easily a hot romantic summer story. I will try to make it short here.

DATE 1: I used date compression because the girl told me from the very beginning that she only had one 5-year (abusive) relationship with just one guy of her age from high school. I would be the second and I took it slightly slower with her. So, the very next day we went for coffee under broad day light which I haven't done for years and years. I touched her there more, we flirted a lot and she even lost track of time in the end. I walked her home and I tried to kiss her in the mouth but she turned her cheeks instead without being offended at all by my attempt. After the date during the same day she asked for my Instagram, which I gave. She got jealous right after that by my following another girl that day (who was another date of mine by the way which ended in a blowjob in my car). She gave me an angry text about it and I stopped texting her altogether.

DATE 2: The next day, she texted me on her own to make herself available for a drink. I accepted and went to pick her up. I took her for a drink to a nice place. She was in my arms, we touched a lot and I tried again to kiss her but she gently dodged it again. She asked me to take her home because the next day she had exam. I took her home and we kissed lightly in the car.

DATE 3: Two days later we had a third date. We had a romantic walk by the sea, we sat somewhere and started to kiss her. Now, she responded fully. Deep French kissing. She lliterally melted. She enjoyed my touch really much. I proposed to take her to my house, she refused. I then proposed a car drive by the sea to listen to music. She accepted. We kissed more, I touched her more but she was still hesitant to let me touch her pussy. I tried to open her trousers to which she replied in a very erotic way "Oh God I like you very much, please don't ruin it..."
I told her that I was not the car type of guy when it came to sex and that we should go to my place instead. She refused again.

DATE 4 (THE LAY): The next day, I asked her out again. She accepted. She said she would be with her friend (the same I met her with). I needed the extra time so it was perfect that I would go later to take her. I took my time and I delayed. She got again slightly annoyed with me. I told her to her ear that I wanted to ravage her and she said "tonight I will let you".

So, after a couple of drinks we went to my place. On the way, she got very horny. I started playing with her wet pussy while driving. I started giving her orders to take out my dick start sucking it. She did it. She was sucking me for the entire car drive as I was fingering her. She was out of control. She asked me if she could take her clothes off. I said yes but I instructed her to keep her heels on. She did exactly that. She even told me that she had never an orgasm in her life.

I missed the turn once for my home. I eventually got there. She got out of the car naked and took her upstairs. In the entire drive I was hard and ready to go. But not when we went to my apartment. I lost my erection. Everything was happening in rapid speed. It's possible that I got anxious. I took the time to finger her and lick her pussy. She wanted me to enter but I was not ready. She even got offended and asked me to take her home. I refused and told her I can't bother driving at 03:00 am. We would sleep there and I would take her home in the morning. I was a mess for that. I felt bad for my non-performance, but I wouldn't let this go like this.

I barely slept. In the morning, I got my erection and fucked her doggy style for about 10 minutes. She enjoyed it but she didn't cum. I then tell her that we should go to swim to the sea. She accepted. We had no swimming suits. We were all alone on the beach, so we got in the water almost naked. I got her home after that. Later in the afternoon, I met her again. We grabbed a bite, then coffee and then I took her to my place again (at this point I haven't slept for 30 hours in a row). I fucked her again doggy style much better and also changed positions nailing her while I made her lie completely while I was completely on her. She loved it. But again she didn't cum. The next day, she texts me herself. She tells me to come over by her place but we would have little time before her parents would come to take her back for summer vacations to her home country. I go there. She opens the door and she tells me she is on the first day of her period. I asked her if she was serious. She said yes and showed me her tampon. I said it's ok dear, I can sail your red seas. She liked it and went to take off the tampon. I nailed her rough doggy style, the condom was fully red. She was screaming and enjoying my roughness. She even liked the marks of my hands and bites on her ass. She was screaming from pleasure but again she didn't finish. I go wash myself and I say I am leaving since her parents were about to arrive. Before I leave, I proposed to her to come see me in July to accompany me in a wedding and then spend 3 days together by the sea. She said she would think about it. We kissed and I left.

TODAY: Since she was leaving back to her country for the summer, I didn't want to put pressure on her. So, today I didn't contact her. But she contacted me. I received a long text from her basically saying how much she liked me but how unprepared she is in this phase of her life to go on for something more serious with me. I replied that it's ok and I wished her well.

Why I wrote this report: because this was sort of a dream girl for me both in terms of appearance and in terms of age, so I would like to keep her for a while. She would experiment with me sexually and I would really show her a good time overall. So, I want your honest opinions, gentlemen.

The fact that she chose not to stay around is it related to her not cuming during the 3 times I had sex with her?
Is it because she was just 19 and therefore by default more inclined to experimentation rather than to stay with one specific guy?
Overall, could I have done something different as a 36-year old attractive guy to keep her around?
I am asking these questions because it's sad to see "dream girls" part ways with you, which makes me wonder if you can consistently keep them, once you found them and had sex with them.


I know many men would only dream to get their dick wet with hot women, but my concern is mostly how to keep them consistently.
 

Sam

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Update: After cutting her off completely, she came back by her own initiative when a lucky episode happened to me. Her friend was having a drink at a bar just next to me and she saw me texting girls photos to some friends of mine. So, her friend informed my girl about it. First, she auto-rejected. Then, she came back texting me "I want to see you". So, the quality of sex in this case was not detrimental for me after all.
 

trashKENNUT

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Sam,

Sam said:
she saw me texting girls photos to some friends of mine. So, her friend informed my girl about it. First, she auto-rejected. Then, she came back texting me "I want to see you".

Yea... cunts are like that. I mean girls are like that :)

Sam said:
So, the quality of sex in this case was not detrimental for me after all.

Becareful, this is your second opportunity. :) Try not to mess it up

Zac
 

Sam

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I have been having sex with her the entire weekend.

I made her cum multiple times and from her G-Spot in fact, making her entire body tremble, which is the most difficult type of orgasm to achieve.

She told me I am the best lover she has ever had.

Mission accomplished. I will keep seeing this girl since I like her a lot ;)
 

Sam

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Update: Gentlemen, the ups and downs with this 19-year old girl are just crazy. Within 3 weeks, I passed through a great romantic phase with her, then a goodbye phase, then she came back by herself, then a sex god phase coupled with breakfasts, sleep overs and watching movies together....and since just yesterday another goodbye from her.

The external reason was because supposedly she felt offended by a sexual joke I made last night in front of a girl friend of hers. I understood that she had me on a "secret lover" status with regard to her social circle, so my comment supposedly made her feel exposed. The deeper reason however which kept coming up very often during this 3-week fling is the fact that she will go back for the summer to her home country. Just 3 hours away from my country, the place we met, that is. She was afraid that I would fuck other girls here until her comeback in September. Was there any way to calm her fears? Was it something I could do or was it just her own insecurity?

From all the above I have some lessons to share with you and I would appreciate your feedback as well:

Lesson 1: Great sex with great orgasms for the girl is not enough to keep her around. We do so much to perfect our men's skills, we learn how to fuck them really well, we learn how to behave, but nothing is a panacea. We as men might lose girls even if we are our best possible versions. In the past, I was stressing about my sexual performance, thinking that if I get this skill down women will stick around and come back for more. Well, I have cases in my mind by friends just like this one where giving her orgasms was not enough for her to stay. This girl called me her best lover ever, she said that I was so good in fucking, that I was the first man to give her an orgasm etc. And yet for a minor misunderstanding she just bails.

Lesson 2: Autorejection can haunt really attractive men even after multiple sex sessions with great orgasms. Attainability still remains a sticking point for me even deep into a new relationship with a new girl. A sexual comment in front of her friend was enough to through down the window all the things Chase advised us to do if we wanted to keep her as girlfriend, all the things I perfectly executed, such as sleeping over at her place, taking her for breakfast, taking her to the sea, even proposing her to be my date in wedding for July.

Lesson 3: Maybe the most important one. Women between 19 and 23 are still teenagers. Lots of hormones, lots of strong but fleeting emotions, lots of drama and continuous testing even when you don't expect it. Is there a way to actually have these women in a relationship or is it a futile thing to pursue as a 36-year old man?
 

JacobPalmer

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Yeah, girls in that age range are a bit tougher as they are still growing up. so they will always be more work than a 23-30 year old.

Also, even though you're giving her orgasms, eventually ALL women are going to want commitment form you, in some form or another. Did you talk to her about her expectations at all?

The comment/joke you made.....I feel like you're leaving something out here. It's like, you made a comment/joke, she didn't like it, and then......what? What did you do then? Accept her frame that it was a bad thing to make that joke? On the other note, yes you messed with her reputation/social standing. Be the secret lover, it's way more fun. :)
 
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Space

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One thing I've learned is that under no circumstances you should ever call a girl hot. Feel free to call her nice, cute, a charming, fun person with a big heart, you name it. But hot? What on earth did she do to earn such a designation? Or think about it this way: which designation do you think she more approves of? Being called hot, or any of the other variations? I know it's only your internal dialogue but why should it be different from how you communicate with others?

Other than that, this is a messy business.
 

Fuck This

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If you did it once, you can do it again. You now have a baseline for future encounters with attractive women. Now you know if a woman does not submitto your charm that it is HER problem. this alone will give you great confidence for all future conquests.
 

Sam

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JacobPalmer said:
Yeah, girls in that age range are a bit tougher as they are still growing up. so they will always be more work than a 23-30 year old.

Also, even though you're giving her orgasms, eventually ALL women are going to want commitment form you, in some form or another. Did you talk to her about her expectations at all?

The comment/joke you made.....I feel like you're leaving something out here. It's like, you made a comment/joke, she didn't like it, and then......what? What did you do then? Accept her frame that it was a bad thing to make that joke? On the other note, yes you messed with her reputation/social standing. Be the secret lover, it's way more fun. :)


Thank you for your feedback man.
Well, I talked about her expectations. Initially, she agreed to my proposals. She even said at times that "she wanted all with me". However, she still has ties with her country and family and she is not very much independent. She is a student in my country. Her practical problem was that she could not be with me during the summer and she could not handle a relationship by distance until she comes back in September. So, out of this my conclusion is that women live in the now. Even if she wanted a commitment, as you say, the practicality of it is not helpful for her right now. And because women's emotions are always in the now, they cannot know or schedule how they will feel in a couple of months from this moment. When September comes and a new "now" arrives, then she could reappear. Of course, this is not my concern, since as men we move and just go next.
 

Sam

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Fuck This said:
If you did it once, you can do it again. You now have a baseline for future encounters with attractive women. Now you know if a woman does not submitto your charm that it is HER problem. this alone will give you great confidence for all future conquests.


Exactly like that, man.
Although I was like enough to have been with other beautiful or very beautiful women before, this experience surely reinforces my attitude.
 

Sam

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Space said:
One thing I've learned is that under no circumstances you should ever call a girl hot. Feel free to call her nice, cute, a charming, fun person with a big heart, you name it. But hot? What on earth did she do to earn such a designation? Or think about it this way: which designation do you think she more approves of? Being called hot, or any of the other variations? I know it's only your internal dialogue but why should it be different from how you communicate with others?

Other than that, this is a messy business.


Good point. I am using the term, however, more as a way to communicate with fellow men and to point out the level of her external beauty. Just to inform you that I was not talking about an average-looking girl. That's all.

In general, you are right. We should not pedestalise any woman whatsoever.
 
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