Gentlemen,
I haven't written a field report for ages, although my sex life during the last 3 years is soaring.
I will share this with you and then let you know why.
The previous Friday I was in a boring wedding. I was dressed sharply in a causal-posh Italian type of way and I was in the mood for new pussy, just like I have been during the last years and months. In the wedding, no target of my liking existed, so I stayed no longer. I got up and left early at about 21:00.
By 22:00, I was already in a quiet bar in my home city Thessaloniki, Greece. While in Greece this time of the year everyone goes to open-air venues, I chose against the tide and went to an indoors bar. I sat at the bar with only 2 women sitting next to me, one of them was a hot, tall, blonde with a model type of a body, long hair and green eyes.
She was all natural. I knew I had to make a move. I did everything against my usual personal textbook, but it worked fine: 1. I opened much later compared to my usual approaches, 2. I opened her indirectly while I am an avid direct game/genuine compliment fan, 3. I offered zero compliments in my overall interaction with her.
So, I opened with a simple "so, where are you from anyway?", because I heard them speaking English instead of Greek. She was a a foreign student from a neighbouring Balkan county who studied in my city. I moved through the conversation smoothly, using pregnant pauses. My fundamentals were as usual very taken care of, I was enjoying my drink and I was moving slowly. I talked in a slow, confident way and every time we talked I was piercing her with my strong eye contact. Whenever I stopped speaking, she picked the conversation up. It was on and I knew it. Her friend was also very supportive. I also used touch on her, supposedly to check her earrings and also got small amounts of commitment such as making her stand up to show me how tall she really was. I also used fake disqualifiers like telling her "it's too bad you are only 19" because it wouldn't work between us since I am 36 to which she replied by trying to prove herself to me. I took her number which she gave me with some hesitation (later she explained that another guy of my age who took her number kept stalking her with stupid texts).
What followed the next days could be easily a hot romantic summer story. I will try to make it short here.
DATE 1: I used date compression because the girl told me from the very beginning that she only had one 5-year (abusive) relationship with just one guy of her age from high school. I would be the second and I took it slightly slower with her. So, the very next day we went for coffee under broad day light which I haven't done for years and years. I touched her there more, we flirted a lot and she even lost track of time in the end. I walked her home and I tried to kiss her in the mouth but she turned her cheeks instead without being offended at all by my attempt. After the date during the same day she asked for my Instagram, which I gave. She got jealous right after that by my following another girl that day (who was another date of mine by the way which ended in a blowjob in my car). She gave me an angry text about it and I stopped texting her altogether.
DATE 2: The next day, she texted me on her own to make herself available for a drink. I accepted and went to pick her up. I took her for a drink to a nice place. She was in my arms, we touched a lot and I tried again to kiss her but she gently dodged it again. She asked me to take her home because the next day she had exam. I took her home and we kissed lightly in the car.
DATE 3: Two days later we had a third date. We had a romantic walk by the sea, we sat somewhere and started to kiss her. Now, she responded fully. Deep French kissing. She lliterally melted. She enjoyed my touch really much. I proposed to take her to my house, she refused. I then proposed a car drive by the sea to listen to music. She accepted. We kissed more, I touched her more but she was still hesitant to let me touch her pussy. I tried to open her trousers to which she replied in a very erotic way "Oh God I like you very much, please don't ruin it..."
I told her that I was not the car type of guy when it came to sex and that we should go to my place instead. She refused again.
DATE 4 (THE LAY): The next day, I asked her out again. She accepted. She said she would be with her friend (the same I met her with). I needed the extra time so it was perfect that I would go later to take her. I took my time and I delayed. She got again slightly annoyed with me. I told her to her ear that I wanted to ravage her and she said "tonight I will let you".
So, after a couple of drinks we went to my place. On the way, she got very horny. I started playing with her wet pussy while driving. I started giving her orders to take out my dick start sucking it. She did it. She was sucking me for the entire car drive as I was fingering her. She was out of control. She asked me if she could take her clothes off. I said yes but I instructed her to keep her heels on. She did exactly that. She even told me that she had never an orgasm in her life.
I missed the turn once for my home. I eventually got there. She got out of the car naked and took her upstairs. In the entire drive I was hard and ready to go. But not when we went to my apartment. I lost my erection. Everything was happening in rapid speed. It's possible that I got anxious. I took the time to finger her and lick her pussy. She wanted me to enter but I was not ready. She even got offended and asked me to take her home. I refused and told her I can't bother driving at 03:00 am. We would sleep there and I would take her home in the morning. I was a mess for that. I felt bad for my non-performance, but I wouldn't let this go like this.
I barely slept. In the morning, I got my erection and fucked her doggy style for about 10 minutes. She enjoyed it but she didn't cum. I then tell her that we should go to swim to the sea. She accepted. We had no swimming suits. We were all alone on the beach, so we got in the water almost naked. I got her home after that. Later in the afternoon, I met her again. We grabbed a bite, then coffee and then I took her to my place again (at this point I haven't slept for 30 hours in a row). I fucked her again doggy style much better and also changed positions nailing her while I made her lie completely while I was completely on her. She loved it. But again she didn't cum. The next day, she texts me herself. She tells me to come over by her place but we would have little time before her parents would come to take her back for summer vacations to her home country. I go there. She opens the door and she tells me she is on the first day of her period. I asked her if she was serious. She said yes and showed me her tampon. I said it's ok dear, I can sail your red seas. She liked it and went to take off the tampon. I nailed her rough doggy style, the condom was fully red. She was screaming and enjoying my roughness. She even liked the marks of my hands and bites on her ass. She was screaming from pleasure but again she didn't finish. I go wash myself and I say I am leaving since her parents were about to arrive. Before I leave, I proposed to her to come see me in July to accompany me in a wedding and then spend 3 days together by the sea. She said she would think about it. We kissed and I left.
TODAY: Since she was leaving back to her country for the summer, I didn't want to put pressure on her. So, today I didn't contact her. But she contacted me. I received a long text from her basically saying how much she liked me but how unprepared she is in this phase of her life to go on for something more serious with me. I replied that it's ok and I wished her well.
Why I wrote this report: because this was sort of a dream girl for me both in terms of appearance and in terms of age, so I would like to keep her for a while. She would experiment with me sexually and I would really show her a good time overall. So, I want your honest opinions, gentlemen.
The fact that she chose not to stay around is it related to her not cuming during the 3 times I had sex with her?
Is it because she was just 19 and therefore by default more inclined to experimentation rather than to stay with one specific guy?
Overall, could I have done something different as a 36-year old attractive guy to keep her around?
I am asking these questions because it's sad to see "dream girls" part ways with you, which makes me wonder if you can consistently keep them, once you found them and had sex with them.
I know many men would only dream to get their dick wet with hot women, but my concern is mostly how to keep them consistently.
I haven't written a field report for ages, although my sex life during the last 3 years is soaring.
I will share this with you and then let you know why.
The previous Friday I was in a boring wedding. I was dressed sharply in a causal-posh Italian type of way and I was in the mood for new pussy, just like I have been during the last years and months. In the wedding, no target of my liking existed, so I stayed no longer. I got up and left early at about 21:00.
By 22:00, I was already in a quiet bar in my home city Thessaloniki, Greece. While in Greece this time of the year everyone goes to open-air venues, I chose against the tide and went to an indoors bar. I sat at the bar with only 2 women sitting next to me, one of them was a hot, tall, blonde with a model type of a body, long hair and green eyes.
She was all natural. I knew I had to make a move. I did everything against my usual personal textbook, but it worked fine: 1. I opened much later compared to my usual approaches, 2. I opened her indirectly while I am an avid direct game/genuine compliment fan, 3. I offered zero compliments in my overall interaction with her.
So, I opened with a simple "so, where are you from anyway?", because I heard them speaking English instead of Greek. She was a a foreign student from a neighbouring Balkan county who studied in my city. I moved through the conversation smoothly, using pregnant pauses. My fundamentals were as usual very taken care of, I was enjoying my drink and I was moving slowly. I talked in a slow, confident way and every time we talked I was piercing her with my strong eye contact. Whenever I stopped speaking, she picked the conversation up. It was on and I knew it. Her friend was also very supportive. I also used touch on her, supposedly to check her earrings and also got small amounts of commitment such as making her stand up to show me how tall she really was. I also used fake disqualifiers like telling her "it's too bad you are only 19" because it wouldn't work between us since I am 36 to which she replied by trying to prove herself to me. I took her number which she gave me with some hesitation (later she explained that another guy of my age who took her number kept stalking her with stupid texts).
What followed the next days could be easily a hot romantic summer story. I will try to make it short here.
DATE 1: I used date compression because the girl told me from the very beginning that she only had one 5-year (abusive) relationship with just one guy of her age from high school. I would be the second and I took it slightly slower with her. So, the very next day we went for coffee under broad day light which I haven't done for years and years. I touched her there more, we flirted a lot and she even lost track of time in the end. I walked her home and I tried to kiss her in the mouth but she turned her cheeks instead without being offended at all by my attempt. After the date during the same day she asked for my Instagram, which I gave. She got jealous right after that by my following another girl that day (who was another date of mine by the way which ended in a blowjob in my car). She gave me an angry text about it and I stopped texting her altogether.
DATE 2: The next day, she texted me on her own to make herself available for a drink. I accepted and went to pick her up. I took her for a drink to a nice place. She was in my arms, we touched a lot and I tried again to kiss her but she gently dodged it again. She asked me to take her home because the next day she had exam. I took her home and we kissed lightly in the car.
DATE 3: Two days later we had a third date. We had a romantic walk by the sea, we sat somewhere and started to kiss her. Now, she responded fully. Deep French kissing. She lliterally melted. She enjoyed my touch really much. I proposed to take her to my house, she refused. I then proposed a car drive by the sea to listen to music. She accepted. We kissed more, I touched her more but she was still hesitant to let me touch her pussy. I tried to open her trousers to which she replied in a very erotic way "Oh God I like you very much, please don't ruin it..."
I told her that I was not the car type of guy when it came to sex and that we should go to my place instead. She refused again.
DATE 4 (THE LAY): The next day, I asked her out again. She accepted. She said she would be with her friend (the same I met her with). I needed the extra time so it was perfect that I would go later to take her. I took my time and I delayed. She got again slightly annoyed with me. I told her to her ear that I wanted to ravage her and she said "tonight I will let you".
So, after a couple of drinks we went to my place. On the way, she got very horny. I started playing with her wet pussy while driving. I started giving her orders to take out my dick start sucking it. She did it. She was sucking me for the entire car drive as I was fingering her. She was out of control. She asked me if she could take her clothes off. I said yes but I instructed her to keep her heels on. She did exactly that. She even told me that she had never an orgasm in her life.
I missed the turn once for my home. I eventually got there. She got out of the car naked and took her upstairs. In the entire drive I was hard and ready to go. But not when we went to my apartment. I lost my erection. Everything was happening in rapid speed. It's possible that I got anxious. I took the time to finger her and lick her pussy. She wanted me to enter but I was not ready. She even got offended and asked me to take her home. I refused and told her I can't bother driving at 03:00 am. We would sleep there and I would take her home in the morning. I was a mess for that. I felt bad for my non-performance, but I wouldn't let this go like this.
I barely slept. In the morning, I got my erection and fucked her doggy style for about 10 minutes. She enjoyed it but she didn't cum. I then tell her that we should go to swim to the sea. She accepted. We had no swimming suits. We were all alone on the beach, so we got in the water almost naked. I got her home after that. Later in the afternoon, I met her again. We grabbed a bite, then coffee and then I took her to my place again (at this point I haven't slept for 30 hours in a row). I fucked her again doggy style much better and also changed positions nailing her while I made her lie completely while I was completely on her. She loved it. But again she didn't cum. The next day, she texts me herself. She tells me to come over by her place but we would have little time before her parents would come to take her back for summer vacations to her home country. I go there. She opens the door and she tells me she is on the first day of her period. I asked her if she was serious. She said yes and showed me her tampon. I said it's ok dear, I can sail your red seas. She liked it and went to take off the tampon. I nailed her rough doggy style, the condom was fully red. She was screaming and enjoying my roughness. She even liked the marks of my hands and bites on her ass. She was screaming from pleasure but again she didn't finish. I go wash myself and I say I am leaving since her parents were about to arrive. Before I leave, I proposed to her to come see me in July to accompany me in a wedding and then spend 3 days together by the sea. She said she would think about it. We kissed and I left.
TODAY: Since she was leaving back to her country for the summer, I didn't want to put pressure on her. So, today I didn't contact her. But she contacted me. I received a long text from her basically saying how much she liked me but how unprepared she is in this phase of her life to go on for something more serious with me. I replied that it's ok and I wished her well.
Why I wrote this report: because this was sort of a dream girl for me both in terms of appearance and in terms of age, so I would like to keep her for a while. She would experiment with me sexually and I would really show her a good time overall. So, I want your honest opinions, gentlemen.
The fact that she chose not to stay around is it related to her not cuming during the 3 times I had sex with her?
Is it because she was just 19 and therefore by default more inclined to experimentation rather than to stay with one specific guy?
Overall, could I have done something different as a 36-year old attractive guy to keep her around?
I am asking these questions because it's sad to see "dream girls" part ways with you, which makes me wonder if you can consistently keep them, once you found them and had sex with them.
I know many men would only dream to get their dick wet with hot women, but my concern is mostly how to keep them consistently.