So Nervous About New Years Night!

authenticSelf

Space Monkey
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I am so nervous about going out tonight. I don't want to do it. Its like I know there will be women there and I am afraid of letting my social circle see that I get rejected. I am going to a party & dance club with a couple. My fears are that this couple will no longer see me as cool
 

Tony D

Tribal Elder
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Go to be social and have fun, not to pick up. Then at midnight, just start trying to kiss every girl you see.
 

authenticSelf

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@Tony D Went to a New Years party. Most girls were with bfs but there was one acquaintance who was available. I could have tried to isolate her after we talked. But in the moment, this did not occur to me. I get into a 'nice-asexual guy' mode around company. I have to overcome this bullshit!
 

SexNotValidation

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@ElderPrice . Going alone sucks but so does going with someone because of these thoughts

This is all in your head man.

I LOVE going out alone.

I get ANNOYED when people i know try to hang out with me in the club since i strongly prefer being alone.

i assure you that no one cares or even notices that you are alone.

I LITERALLY stand around and make it obvious that im alone and every night i go out i get A LOT of interest from girls.

My point is that, do NOT think girls will disqualify you because they see you alone.

they 100% do NOT care at all.

I've been going out alone since 2013.
 
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