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So lately, I have been more invested in daygame as you can tell from my journal. At times though, I do get approach anxiety from thinking that this shit is fucking weird. I don't mean it is necessarily wrong but just more abnormal and really out of the box. You really make yourself vulnerable to not just rejections but if you do it in the same area, just an unwanted audience.
But I am losing it on the fine line between respecting social norms and doing daygame, especially direct.
I literally do not see anyone but bums and aggressive minorities who obviously look low class (borderline ghetto and catcalling) doing this. All this "hi I thought you were cute" stuff, I do not see any normal person or normal dude actually doing this and cannot fathom how girls would not be freaked out. It just seems so intrusive.
I have seen too many creepy PUAs end up in jail (like that muslim dude in Scotland) that I know I have to be careful.
Not getting a reputation as "that guy" in an area.
Like I live in NYC but it is still a blue state and a "liberal" city. My issue is that I mainly cold approach in the same areas after work, usually near where I live. I just started a month ago but I wonder the risks of being seen as "that guy".
I have so far not been too direct to actually walk up to girls and approach, I approach as we are walking in the same direction or happen to be at a stoplight.
But I am losing it on the fine line between respecting social norms and doing daygame, especially direct.
I literally do not see anyone but bums and aggressive minorities who obviously look low class (borderline ghetto and catcalling) doing this. All this "hi I thought you were cute" stuff, I do not see any normal person or normal dude actually doing this and cannot fathom how girls would not be freaked out. It just seems so intrusive.
I have seen too many creepy PUAs end up in jail (like that muslim dude in Scotland) that I know I have to be careful.
Not getting a reputation as "that guy" in an area.
Like I live in NYC but it is still a blue state and a "liberal" city. My issue is that I mainly cold approach in the same areas after work, usually near where I live. I just started a month ago but I wonder the risks of being seen as "that guy".
I have so far not been too direct to actually walk up to girls and approach, I approach as we are walking in the same direction or happen to be at a stoplight.