How do you even have a ltr with a woman and tell her you have herpes and still have her be willing to date you because of it? It's permanent and there's a chance she can get it so why would she risk it when she can find a guy who doesn't have it? I know condoms don't fully protect against herpes,but what are you supposed to do then? Fucking raw is basically guaranteed herpes then.
I did not say "don't use condoms". I use condoms 95% of the time.
You know, you can get HSV positive from kissing people... or drinking from the wrong bottle?
I tell my girls that when I have an outbreak, I will not allow my contaminated areas to go near her until it is over.... once it is over, I wait a few more days to be sure.
If I have an outbreak, I stay home, and do not go in field, nor see a girl, whether it is a fuckbuddy or an LTR.
I do have valacyclovyr on prescription, which shortens my outbreaks drastically! Fantastic med.
But no, other than a feew bothersome weeks a year, herpes is really not a big deal lol.
And no, no women have ever been bothered about it. They are usually happy that I am about it, and take the right precautions to not transmit.
I have even told a girl I was HIV positive (I am not).... just to see if she would still fuck me. Her response was "as long as you are on meds and use a condom".
Why are some people making weird obsessions about herpes lol. Some of you guys should get your T-levels tested for sure.