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Is there a "how and when" though? Should it be in a period of silence? There were a couple of long silences where maybe I think she expected me to do it, but I just sat without saying anything to "embrace the awkwardness" and become fully comfortable.I hadnt left my room in 10 years when i started cold approaching again around 2022. I felt like I was pretty much a kissless virgin. 10 years of no interaction with women obsessing over negativity online. Once I started going out my only goal was to get sexual interactions with as many women as possible, even ones I wasnt that attracted to (exluding obese or elderly women).
I became pretty good at knowing when and how to kiss close after just meeting someone.
Maybe, I should have gone for it then. But how to close the distance in a natural way?
Or maybe when we were already talking and facing one another, I should have leaned in and done then. Or even at a deliberately awkward moment just for a laugh which she might have found funny.
Damn, I hope I get another chance with another girl, because I think I blew it here. She probably found another guy her she who knows what to do and I missed the only opportunity I'm going to get.

