Hi guys,
this is the first field report (on the forum)after a year and a half of game for me.
I only run daygame, in particular, street stops in the city center of a 250 000 citizens town.
I have this crazy sticking point, where i can't get girls to hook. I realized after having read the article on sticking points that it is vital to understand what they are, and figured that in my case the plateau is definetly because of the hook point.Girls just don't hook.
I've been on a dry spell ( of new lays) for 3 months now, even though i went on some dates , some preliminars and have a love at first sight ''girlfriend''.
I want to attack the women and dating scenario and figure every bit of it. Last year I fucked between 12- 15 women ( can't recall the exact number) only through street stops in 90% of the cases.
So today went like this:
Go out from 6 pm to 8 30 pm.
Talked to the following women:
1 girl :I say hi, approaching from the side. Pre open her , and then complimented on her looks. She had a boyfriend, i did not like her and so no big deal. But she had not hooked even though i asked her why she was in my city , what she was doing for a living , if she liked it and said that it 's good she likes what she does because a lot of people have no clue what is they would dream to do and achieve. But she did not hook.
To be honest, fundamentals like voice , hesitation and eyes could have been stronger, and this accounts for all of the approaches i've made in the outing.
2 girl: followed her in the most touristic area of town, she was local but not from the same city. looked a bit inexperienced in my eyes. She was mad because I approached her or simply bitter probably. She tried to offend me but I said something funny and got her to stop. Complimented her, but still, no vibe.. on to the next one
3 girl: sorry I'm in a rush i have to go bye bye. Without even letting me talk.
4 girl: opened her by complienting her style. She was quite into me. She said she was russian, so i asked what she was doing here. She said studying, bla bla.. I asked her if she liked what she was studying, she said yes. I asked if she was sure , since everyone seems to study economics and marketing but almost nobody actually loves it. She said yes, I love it and start to talk.. So i moved her , walked her with me and got her 50 mt away from where we were.
Kept on deep diving but when asking for the date she said she had a boyfriend and she was not able to lie to him and she could never do that. She seemed like she meant it. I moved on.
5 girl: she looked 15 so i asked her her age, hesitating a bit, like in other approaches.. She said no I'm 24.. So i said great, so tell me what are u doing here? what's good about studying what you're studying? you know I used to study that as well but then i changed because of x. How s living here for u? the interaction last about 4 mins, and she constantly said or hint she had to go.. i nevertheless asked for the date, got her number but could feel that even though i talked to her a bit, she had not hooked and gave me her number because shedidn't have the guts to say no..
I text her later in fact and no answer.
I should have moved her but she said i'm going to meet my friends.. ( maybe it was a lie and I should have persist come to think of it, but she seemed honest on that)
6 girl: sitting down on a clothes store stair and talking to the phone. I faced her completely with open body language ( while should have put myself more on the side). Waited 30 secs that she finished her phone call, and told her she had a great sense of style.She challenged me saying '' what are u saying, I'm very normal dressed'' in a very bitchy way. I looked weak but tried to say '' cmon you're not normal at all '' in a funny tone - very weak very very weak. (should have said,'' well , than you should have been even more flattered).
She never stand up though and was barely looking at me so not ejecting yet looking cool enough was the challenge, that i did not pass. Should have put more pressure on her, which i tried to do by asking questions like ''so tell me what do u do in your life.'' in a bored tone.. still , realize it's not the best way to put social pressure.
Then I played funny but looked to weak , too fucking weak. I then ejected.
girl 7,8: did not even stop. Again, one was someone who saw me approaching many girls before so it was obvious, but the other one , I should have used a much more masculine and resonant voice, which i'm noticing in this weak plateauing period i have the tendency to loose. My eye contact is weaker, my voice high pitch and super needy and my speak speed way too fast. I always have the feeling that they are about to eject, but still, if you talk faster , that's not gonna help at all. So speak slower at least.
9: a beautiful sweden, brunette. She was walking, I stopped her and opened her with '' hey, i have to tell u this.. u ve got the most amazing eyes i ve seen all day.. I'm no limits'' she said thank you!
me: where you from?
she : sweden
me : (skeptical funny look ) are u kidding me?? - she was brunette-
she: ahaha, no.. my parents are not from there though.. (btw, that's a great baiting on her side)
me: so if I guess where they're from, i have a bonus ok?
she : ok
me: india
she : no
me : spain
she: nooo..
me: ok no bonus for me, what's the answer?
she : romania..
me: what? romanians are all light in their hair
she : no, they are dark.. they have light skin but dark hair ( lost frame)
me: plus, u don't look sweden because swedish people don't have a very bright personality on average ( which is true according to researches who show that the degree of depression triple in such cold and dark places)
her: no they're not! ( not angry but not even seduced) have u ever met one?
me: i did and plus my ex girlfriend was from oslo, and not that bright..
her : no they are quite bright...
me: ok, the ones u do not know are not that bright ahahah
so what do u do here?
she: fashiondesign...
me: really? that's cool, why did u choose such a path?
she: u know i really like to make things with my hands, that not a lot of people are able to..
me: mm.. ( probably rushing to much because again, i felt she wanted to eject because of a dinner she had to go to she had mentioned before) that's cool, when someone is into what they're doing. it's a pretty rare scenario nowaday.
she: yeah.. look i m sorry but i have to go
me: wait, cmon I stoped you, told u have great eyes, u can't go like this! plus, just one second, because i'm in a rush too actually. what do you like about fashion?
her: i wanna do haute couture...
me: cool.. i was working with a stylist who considered herself haute couture - she wasn't - but people hopefully would believe her..
her: oh..
me: yeah then she kicked me out of the startup , and I don't know fucking why!!! ( said in an exagerrated and fun sexy tone)
she :look i have to go..
me: yeah i have to go to, but wait. let's get a drink one of these nights. I'm quite busy but should be able to make it.
she: ok... ( she was not very sure at all - i could feel it)
me : ok, do u have a number?
she : yeah, ( and she showed me it on her phone in a bored way - i should have challenged her there saying, hey , u need to be a bit more convinced and enthusiastic about this, i would not want to suffer stalking accusation just because i sent u a text!)
me and instead i ) wrote down the nbr.. then : it's been cool meeting you have a great night..
Then text her, no answer ( i could feel she did not hook, but still, good to have confirmation, data and the willingness to always try to win) .
SO basically, yestrday it was similar but i got 3 numbers... The numbers are there... But they don't hook..
A number is not hard to give for a girl, if she thinks :he's not crazy, saying no it's hard for me, maybe he'll chase me which doesn't hurt , she'll give u the number.
I've fucked some pretty beautiful women, and though i still do not have absolute abundance, i went to saint tropez with one oscar hollywood actor's girlfriend , have a very cool '' girlfriend'' and another woman who did a lot for me who lives in russia and is beautiful. (though not my type).
BUT this is useless. I want to know how the fuck can i make them hook.
Hopefully, one of the great guys here will be able to help. I really hope that's the case.
Any tips???
Btw, can't wait to get your responses guys.
Never , never.. NEVER give up.
this is the first field report (on the forum)after a year and a half of game for me.
I only run daygame, in particular, street stops in the city center of a 250 000 citizens town.
I have this crazy sticking point, where i can't get girls to hook. I realized after having read the article on sticking points that it is vital to understand what they are, and figured that in my case the plateau is definetly because of the hook point.Girls just don't hook.
I've been on a dry spell ( of new lays) for 3 months now, even though i went on some dates , some preliminars and have a love at first sight ''girlfriend''.
I want to attack the women and dating scenario and figure every bit of it. Last year I fucked between 12- 15 women ( can't recall the exact number) only through street stops in 90% of the cases.
So today went like this:
Go out from 6 pm to 8 30 pm.
Talked to the following women:
1 girl :I say hi, approaching from the side. Pre open her , and then complimented on her looks. She had a boyfriend, i did not like her and so no big deal. But she had not hooked even though i asked her why she was in my city , what she was doing for a living , if she liked it and said that it 's good she likes what she does because a lot of people have no clue what is they would dream to do and achieve. But she did not hook.
To be honest, fundamentals like voice , hesitation and eyes could have been stronger, and this accounts for all of the approaches i've made in the outing.
2 girl: followed her in the most touristic area of town, she was local but not from the same city. looked a bit inexperienced in my eyes. She was mad because I approached her or simply bitter probably. She tried to offend me but I said something funny and got her to stop. Complimented her, but still, no vibe.. on to the next one
3 girl: sorry I'm in a rush i have to go bye bye. Without even letting me talk.
4 girl: opened her by complienting her style. She was quite into me. She said she was russian, so i asked what she was doing here. She said studying, bla bla.. I asked her if she liked what she was studying, she said yes. I asked if she was sure , since everyone seems to study economics and marketing but almost nobody actually loves it. She said yes, I love it and start to talk.. So i moved her , walked her with me and got her 50 mt away from where we were.
Kept on deep diving but when asking for the date she said she had a boyfriend and she was not able to lie to him and she could never do that. She seemed like she meant it. I moved on.
5 girl: she looked 15 so i asked her her age, hesitating a bit, like in other approaches.. She said no I'm 24.. So i said great, so tell me what are u doing here? what's good about studying what you're studying? you know I used to study that as well but then i changed because of x. How s living here for u? the interaction last about 4 mins, and she constantly said or hint she had to go.. i nevertheless asked for the date, got her number but could feel that even though i talked to her a bit, she had not hooked and gave me her number because shedidn't have the guts to say no..
I text her later in fact and no answer.
I should have moved her but she said i'm going to meet my friends.. ( maybe it was a lie and I should have persist come to think of it, but she seemed honest on that)
6 girl: sitting down on a clothes store stair and talking to the phone. I faced her completely with open body language ( while should have put myself more on the side). Waited 30 secs that she finished her phone call, and told her she had a great sense of style.She challenged me saying '' what are u saying, I'm very normal dressed'' in a very bitchy way. I looked weak but tried to say '' cmon you're not normal at all '' in a funny tone - very weak very very weak. (should have said,'' well , than you should have been even more flattered).
She never stand up though and was barely looking at me so not ejecting yet looking cool enough was the challenge, that i did not pass. Should have put more pressure on her, which i tried to do by asking questions like ''so tell me what do u do in your life.'' in a bored tone.. still , realize it's not the best way to put social pressure.
Then I played funny but looked to weak , too fucking weak. I then ejected.
girl 7,8: did not even stop. Again, one was someone who saw me approaching many girls before so it was obvious, but the other one , I should have used a much more masculine and resonant voice, which i'm noticing in this weak plateauing period i have the tendency to loose. My eye contact is weaker, my voice high pitch and super needy and my speak speed way too fast. I always have the feeling that they are about to eject, but still, if you talk faster , that's not gonna help at all. So speak slower at least.
9: a beautiful sweden, brunette. She was walking, I stopped her and opened her with '' hey, i have to tell u this.. u ve got the most amazing eyes i ve seen all day.. I'm no limits'' she said thank you!
me: where you from?
she : sweden
me : (skeptical funny look ) are u kidding me?? - she was brunette-
she: ahaha, no.. my parents are not from there though.. (btw, that's a great baiting on her side)
me: so if I guess where they're from, i have a bonus ok?
she : ok
me: india
she : no
me : spain
she: nooo..
me: ok no bonus for me, what's the answer?
she : romania..
me: what? romanians are all light in their hair
she : no, they are dark.. they have light skin but dark hair ( lost frame)
me: plus, u don't look sweden because swedish people don't have a very bright personality on average ( which is true according to researches who show that the degree of depression triple in such cold and dark places)
her: no they're not! ( not angry but not even seduced) have u ever met one?
me: i did and plus my ex girlfriend was from oslo, and not that bright..
her : no they are quite bright...
me: ok, the ones u do not know are not that bright ahahah
so what do u do here?
she: fashiondesign...
me: really? that's cool, why did u choose such a path?
she: u know i really like to make things with my hands, that not a lot of people are able to..
me: mm.. ( probably rushing to much because again, i felt she wanted to eject because of a dinner she had to go to she had mentioned before) that's cool, when someone is into what they're doing. it's a pretty rare scenario nowaday.
she: yeah.. look i m sorry but i have to go
me: wait, cmon I stoped you, told u have great eyes, u can't go like this! plus, just one second, because i'm in a rush too actually. what do you like about fashion?
her: i wanna do haute couture...
me: cool.. i was working with a stylist who considered herself haute couture - she wasn't - but people hopefully would believe her..
her: oh..
me: yeah then she kicked me out of the startup , and I don't know fucking why!!! ( said in an exagerrated and fun sexy tone)
she :look i have to go..
me: yeah i have to go to, but wait. let's get a drink one of these nights. I'm quite busy but should be able to make it.
she: ok... ( she was not very sure at all - i could feel it)
me : ok, do u have a number?
she : yeah, ( and she showed me it on her phone in a bored way - i should have challenged her there saying, hey , u need to be a bit more convinced and enthusiastic about this, i would not want to suffer stalking accusation just because i sent u a text!)
me
and instead i ) wrote down the nbr.. then : it's been cool meeting you have a great night.. Then text her, no answer ( i could feel she did not hook, but still, good to have confirmation, data and the willingness to always try to win) .
SO basically, yestrday it was similar but i got 3 numbers... The numbers are there... But they don't hook..
A number is not hard to give for a girl, if she thinks :he's not crazy, saying no it's hard for me, maybe he'll chase me which doesn't hurt , she'll give u the number.
I've fucked some pretty beautiful women, and though i still do not have absolute abundance, i went to saint tropez with one oscar hollywood actor's girlfriend , have a very cool '' girlfriend'' and another woman who did a lot for me who lives in russia and is beautiful. (though not my type).
BUT this is useless. I want to know how the fuck can i make them hook.
Hopefully, one of the great guys here will be able to help. I really hope that's the case.
Any tips???
Btw, can't wait to get your responses guys.
Never , never.. NEVER give up.
