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moom

Tool-Bearing Hominid
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Hello my brothers.

Got a question for you.
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Background: Hosted a party, met a girl. Got hammered, it was Holloween, but somehow still made moves and made out with this hot chick (friend of a friend). We were both fucked up at the end of the night, she ended up in my room sprawled on my bed, but I didnt even want to get into the bed with her (because of how drunk we were). Her friend came and dragged her out because I left the door open and that was that.

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The chick: Freshly out of a relationship a few days prior to Holloween. Joined all the dating apps, is hot.

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The Followup: I messaged her on IG the next day to shoot her number to me so we can grab drinks.
No response.
A few days later she reacts to my story. The next day I say I found her wig (she was wearing a wig for her holloween costume).
No response.
I go cold. A week later, she responds saying she was sorry for the late response and shoots me her number.

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Text exchange:
ME (November 14th): Hey J :) save my # -Mo

No response.

ME: (November 17th, got this move from my barber lol): I send over a picture of 2 tickets for an exhibit in houston, and then ask her "down?"

HER (a few hours later): Hey!!! Number saved! I’d love to but I have work that day. Im going on Saturday

ME (the next morning, November 18th, was busy): oh bummer haha- enjoy on Saturday, i hear its really cool

HER (a few minutes later): I appreciate the offer though!

ME (2 hours later): no worries, heading out of town for a few weeks next week so ill catch you after

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So I didn't text her at all from this point.
She's always watching all my stories, I made sure she saw that I ended up going to the Exhibit with another girl. She also saw I had friends-giving at my place. The thing is, my out of town trip got pushed back to mid December so I still haven't left town.
Today, she DM'd me on IG: "I thought you were moving?!" Haven't responded yet. Best way to proceed?
 

Skills

Tribal Elder
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bro that girl is interested, but you are killing the threads..... Hey hb! how are you? no yet i am not moving till we ______________ (activity again)... or till i grab a drink with you, or till we meet for coffee..... flirt and soft close..read my texting series, she likes you learn how to soft close....
 

moom

Tool-Bearing Hominid
Tool-Bearing Hominid
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bro that girl is interested, but you are killing the threads..... Hey hb! how are you? no yet i am not moving till we ______________ (activity again)... or till i grab a drink with you, or till we meet for coffee..... flirt and soft close..read my texting series, she likes you learn how to soft close....
Where can I find your text series on soft closes?
 
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Tribal Elder
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moom

Tool-Bearing Hominid
Tool-Bearing Hominid
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Yo are you kidding me, this stuff is gold. Found it a little earlier- always felt my texts were missing something and this is what I believe it was
 

moom

Tool-Bearing Hominid
Tool-Bearing Hominid
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bro that girl is interested, but you are killing the threads..... Hey hb! how are you? no yet i am not moving till we ______________ (activity again)... or till i grab a drink with you, or till we meet for coffee..... flirt and soft close..read my texting series, she likes you learn how to soft close....
By the way, went with:
“Hey J! How are you? Not yet got pushed back, not moving till i grab a drink with u ;)
 
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