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I kinda agree that women with no makeup that we deem as hot , are actually quite normal with no makeup on 
True Beauty is still a rare thing in the world , no matter what magazines , tv shows , etc say
This is also why women are very insecure about their looks , because they know that they have to put an effort all the time to look pretty
True Beauty is still a rare thing in the world , no matter what magazines , tv shows , etc say
This is also why women are very insecure about their looks , because they know that they have to put an effort all the time to look pretty
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There are different metrics that seem to influence 'true' attraction (or what I've called 'fascination').
One seems to be facial similarity:
www.girlschase.com
Another is MHC genes... people being more attracted to those with dissimilar immune genes, and they are apparently able to tell this via scent (but it's unconscious; you don't realize this plays a role in your attraction to someone else).
I suspect there is some sort of automatic intelligence or socioeconomic matching that happens wordlessly and instantly as well, just based on my own observations... it's extremely common for me to find a very good-looking woman I have strong natural mutual attraction to, only to find out she has an advanced education and is very smart. Which is my preference. I've never been able to tell if it's facial expressions (which is one theory I have... an intelligent/educated person wearing a different set of facial expressions from, say, a pretty-but-dumb girl) or something subconscious that gets communicated.
When you're really learning game, you need volume, so you don't have as much room to be super picky about whom you approach.
But typically you are going to find over time that certain kinds of girls attract you a lot more than others, and that the feeling is mutual.
www.girlschase.com
And eventually you will likely switch over to usually/mostly preferring girls who are of the sort you like. And take a lot of the pressure off yourself to have to excel with every type of girl, including the ones you don't have that same kind of mutual attraction with.
www.girlschase.com
It seems like this is a pretty common theme in the maturation of most seducers, once they've passed through their "high volume approaches on any and every girl within reach" stage and are seeking to refine themselves and focus only on meeting women they really enjoy being with.
You can still get with a broad and diverse array of women, as the guy in your OP post discusses, @Velasco... varied ethnicities, age ranges, personality types, looks, etc. Because typically there will be different flavors of woman that attract you and whom you attract in turn.
There's also an "acquired taste" aspect to dating, I have long suspected... women you didn't use to have strong attraction for, because they were too different from you or whatnot, you later come to really like after experiences sleeping with some of them or having a girlfriend like them, etc. And often when you really like a woman, the feeling from her is mutual (emotional transference/contagion, mirror neurons... there's even a study that shows women will mirror your flirtation back to you, regardless how they initially feel, at least for the first 10 minutes; so if you feel very into them and behave that way, they are going to tend to mirror that back to you, reinforcing the feeling).
Chase
One seems to be facial similarity:
People Usually Choose Mates with Similar Faces
You may have noticed, but a LOT of couples look really similar to each other, facially. Is there an element of attraction related to facial similarity? Send this article to anyone you know who thinks "You can't get a good-looking woman unless you're genetically blessed with natural good looks...
www.girlschase.com
Another is MHC genes... people being more attracted to those with dissimilar immune genes, and they are apparently able to tell this via scent (but it's unconscious; you don't realize this plays a role in your attraction to someone else).
I suspect there is some sort of automatic intelligence or socioeconomic matching that happens wordlessly and instantly as well, just based on my own observations... it's extremely common for me to find a very good-looking woman I have strong natural mutual attraction to, only to find out she has an advanced education and is very smart. Which is my preference. I've never been able to tell if it's facial expressions (which is one theory I have... an intelligent/educated person wearing a different set of facial expressions from, say, a pretty-but-dumb girl) or something subconscious that gets communicated.
When you're really learning game, you need volume, so you don't have as much room to be super picky about whom you approach.
But typically you are going to find over time that certain kinds of girls attract you a lot more than others, and that the feeling is mutual.
You and Your Game Attract a Certain Kind of Girl
You attract the women you’ve tailored yourself to attract. But that’s not all: the women you do well with tailor you further still. I’ve talked about this over the years in various articles. However, it’s worth giving its own proper treatment, if only to make sure everyone who reads here gets...
www.girlschase.com
And eventually you will likely switch over to usually/mostly preferring girls who are of the sort you like. And take a lot of the pressure off yourself to have to excel with every type of girl, including the ones you don't have that same kind of mutual attraction with.
The “I Have to Get Every Girl” Insecurity
Ever feel bad because random girls don’t like you? This is the “I have to get every girl insecurity” – and it can lose you dates and lays. Not so long ago, I was out with a girlfriend. I’d just left a café I was working at to meet her, waiting outside. When I got there, I greeted her, and then...
www.girlschase.com
It seems like this is a pretty common theme in the maturation of most seducers, once they've passed through their "high volume approaches on any and every girl within reach" stage and are seeking to refine themselves and focus only on meeting women they really enjoy being with.
You can still get with a broad and diverse array of women, as the guy in your OP post discusses, @Velasco... varied ethnicities, age ranges, personality types, looks, etc. Because typically there will be different flavors of woman that attract you and whom you attract in turn.
There's also an "acquired taste" aspect to dating, I have long suspected... women you didn't use to have strong attraction for, because they were too different from you or whatnot, you later come to really like after experiences sleeping with some of them or having a girlfriend like them, etc. And often when you really like a woman, the feeling from her is mutual (emotional transference/contagion, mirror neurons... there's even a study that shows women will mirror your flirtation back to you, regardless how they initially feel, at least for the first 10 minutes; so if you feel very into them and behave that way, they are going to tend to mirror that back to you, reinforcing the feeling).
Chase
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Attraction is usually in my opinion develop at a young age, there was a crush, favorite actress, you had when young that made an imprint in what you are going to like later on....
i thank god everyday that the similar face theory did not apply to me ever...
i thank god everyday that the similar face theory did not apply to me ever...
I had a big crush on Victoria Justice while young. I think it carried over because I find the three similar-looking girls below insanely hot lol. Victoria Justice is the one in the middle. The other two are supposed lookalikes.
I don't look too similar to them though. I'm pale and "Spanish-looking".