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Disclaimer: The following will not be endorsed by Girls Chase. Don't try this at home - unless you really know what you are doing.
I was about to post this in my journal, but I think there is a lot to learn here from the feminine psyche, and it is worth showing in a distinct Lay Report entry for the benefit of the community. Note: this won't be much about the seduction itself but more about the aftermath of a smooth seduction. If there is any interest, I wrote the details of the actual seduction here (scroll down to "LR: Miss Y from Shenzhen, China").
Miss Y. She's a very pretty Chinese girl, 30 years old, living in China, and who was visiting her friends in my city (I am in Middle East) earlier this year. And before I write the rest, let us insist that she is overall a lovely and angelic girl, good mood, always smiling, and nice to be with in general. The only brooding asshole here is me...
The initial seduction in a nutshell
Late March 2017. We met on wechat online app, then went for a drink the same evening. It was a smooth seduction except for the fact that she had special personal circumstances back then that made things a little complicated - but nothing to worry about here. She ended half naked on my sofa the first time we ever met, had an in principle LMR, but we met again a few days later and fucked hours long. The sex was very good, she had an amazing energy.
The hard framing attempts
A few days later, she tried to frame me as a generous donator of free gifts. Brought me to a shop under the pretext that she "needs to buy a watch". Then showed me the 2000$ watch and asked me to pay it for her, in all confidence, because she "didn't have enough money". The trap was nicely set up, asking me to buy the watch with her angelic smile in front of the vendor... But that was a firm no.
A couple of weeks later, she had returned to China (where she lives) and we were discussing our plan to meet in Hong Kong next time. She then switched her mind and brought the topic of marriage - one that I had already dismissed upfront from the very beginning. Was another firm no. Following which, the meeting in HK was cancelled because supposedly her mom forbid her to go to HK and was pushing her to "follow the right path". Contact was then cut.
The Inseminator Request
Mid May 2017. She popped up out of the blue on my phone and said "hello I'm in town, I want to see you". Well I had to make her wait because I was with another girl at home, but the next day I met her and she came to settle in my home. I normally don't allow a girl to stay overnight at my home, but in this case she had come all the way from China, and well, I was happy to see her again. After the initial commotion of intense sex, she gets me into the following "talk" (notice the 180 degree shift in tone...):
* she doesn't want my money. She's an independent working girl, and she even refuses if I propose to share her plane expenses with her;
* she doesn't want a marriage, because people married have too many problems;
* but she has a Chinese girlfriend who had a baby with a white foreigner, and the baby is so cute (she shows me the picture)...
* so she wants a baby with a European foreigner... namely me
I repeat that I already have two children, and that I don't see myself endorsing fresh extra responsibilities at my age.
She says she knows, and she is not expecting me to provide child support. After all, she says, she wouldn't even be able to find me if I ever returned to France (my home country). No, she says, if she has a baby she will just cut contact, and I will not even be aware ("I don't want you to stress!") ...
"But, how are you going to support a child alone with your salary as an accountant?" I ask her.
"If I have a baby, I will find a Chinese husband to support me!" and she confirms that she is sure of being able to pull it off.
Reading this stuff on seduction websites is one thing, but hearing it spelled out for you directly from the horse's mouth is a whole other thing.
She tried to hard frame me into a gentle wallet with legs, but she broke herself on my rock solid frame. Then she pressured me for the marriage role, putting our expected meeting in the balance... But I showed her I was ready to lose her rather than breaking my frame. Well, then, next attempt was this insemination request. She would get the seed from me, then attach herself a provider for child support.
At the same time, I was not naive. You would be a fool to believe anything a girl says at face value. In her mind, what she says has no value if there is greater purpose that justifies the means. "Whatever!" She cannot have a hold on me as we live in different countries and wouldn't have legal means on me if it came to that. Alright, condoms off.
How it eventually unfolded
She returned in my city early August for another week. The timing of her visit was planned very carefully. Then she left, and I went on vacation on my own, and we only resumed contact in September, almost a month after we met. We had a video call. She was in a hospital, because she was pregnant and had a pregnancy sickness. In fact, part of me was happy to know that I was a dad again. I told her that I was fine to see her again - provided that she respects my way of living.
Then, the next part of the story was as foretold: she cut contact, blocking me on wechat (our common chat platform and social media, and usual mean of communication). In practice, I still have her normal phone, but by blocking me she clearly signified that she doesn't want us to contact - at least for now.
And I think it is much better to leave it this way. She has a lot of things to deal with. She will need to secure a provider as a social alibi for the pregnancy, very quickly before it starts to show. She will have a lot of things to explain to her mum and dad. In fact, she is most probably already onto something. Thinking about it, she maybe already had a provider in mind before we even started.
It is very instructive. In the end, we are nothing but tools to the girls greater purpose of creating and nurturing life.
Seppuku
I was about to post this in my journal, but I think there is a lot to learn here from the feminine psyche, and it is worth showing in a distinct Lay Report entry for the benefit of the community. Note: this won't be much about the seduction itself but more about the aftermath of a smooth seduction. If there is any interest, I wrote the details of the actual seduction here (scroll down to "LR: Miss Y from Shenzhen, China").
Miss Y. She's a very pretty Chinese girl, 30 years old, living in China, and who was visiting her friends in my city (I am in Middle East) earlier this year. And before I write the rest, let us insist that she is overall a lovely and angelic girl, good mood, always smiling, and nice to be with in general. The only brooding asshole here is me...
The initial seduction in a nutshell
Late March 2017. We met on wechat online app, then went for a drink the same evening. It was a smooth seduction except for the fact that she had special personal circumstances back then that made things a little complicated - but nothing to worry about here. She ended half naked on my sofa the first time we ever met, had an in principle LMR, but we met again a few days later and fucked hours long. The sex was very good, she had an amazing energy.
The hard framing attempts
A few days later, she tried to frame me as a generous donator of free gifts. Brought me to a shop under the pretext that she "needs to buy a watch". Then showed me the 2000$ watch and asked me to pay it for her, in all confidence, because she "didn't have enough money". The trap was nicely set up, asking me to buy the watch with her angelic smile in front of the vendor... But that was a firm no.
A couple of weeks later, she had returned to China (where she lives) and we were discussing our plan to meet in Hong Kong next time. She then switched her mind and brought the topic of marriage - one that I had already dismissed upfront from the very beginning. Was another firm no. Following which, the meeting in HK was cancelled because supposedly her mom forbid her to go to HK and was pushing her to "follow the right path". Contact was then cut.
The Inseminator Request
Mid May 2017. She popped up out of the blue on my phone and said "hello I'm in town, I want to see you". Well I had to make her wait because I was with another girl at home, but the next day I met her and she came to settle in my home. I normally don't allow a girl to stay overnight at my home, but in this case she had come all the way from China, and well, I was happy to see her again. After the initial commotion of intense sex, she gets me into the following "talk" (notice the 180 degree shift in tone...):
* she doesn't want my money. She's an independent working girl, and she even refuses if I propose to share her plane expenses with her;
* she doesn't want a marriage, because people married have too many problems;
* but she has a Chinese girlfriend who had a baby with a white foreigner, and the baby is so cute (she shows me the picture)...
* so she wants a baby with a European foreigner... namely me
I repeat that I already have two children, and that I don't see myself endorsing fresh extra responsibilities at my age.
She says she knows, and she is not expecting me to provide child support. After all, she says, she wouldn't even be able to find me if I ever returned to France (my home country). No, she says, if she has a baby she will just cut contact, and I will not even be aware ("I don't want you to stress!") ...
"But, how are you going to support a child alone with your salary as an accountant?" I ask her.
"If I have a baby, I will find a Chinese husband to support me!" and she confirms that she is sure of being able to pull it off.
Reading this stuff on seduction websites is one thing, but hearing it spelled out for you directly from the horse's mouth is a whole other thing.
She tried to hard frame me into a gentle wallet with legs, but she broke herself on my rock solid frame. Then she pressured me for the marriage role, putting our expected meeting in the balance... But I showed her I was ready to lose her rather than breaking my frame. Well, then, next attempt was this insemination request. She would get the seed from me, then attach herself a provider for child support.
At the same time, I was not naive. You would be a fool to believe anything a girl says at face value. In her mind, what she says has no value if there is greater purpose that justifies the means. "Whatever!" She cannot have a hold on me as we live in different countries and wouldn't have legal means on me if it came to that. Alright, condoms off.
How it eventually unfolded
She returned in my city early August for another week. The timing of her visit was planned very carefully. Then she left, and I went on vacation on my own, and we only resumed contact in September, almost a month after we met. We had a video call. She was in a hospital, because she was pregnant and had a pregnancy sickness. In fact, part of me was happy to know that I was a dad again. I told her that I was fine to see her again - provided that she respects my way of living.
Then, the next part of the story was as foretold: she cut contact, blocking me on wechat (our common chat platform and social media, and usual mean of communication). In practice, I still have her normal phone, but by blocking me she clearly signified that she doesn't want us to contact - at least for now.
And I think it is much better to leave it this way. She has a lot of things to deal with. She will need to secure a provider as a social alibi for the pregnancy, very quickly before it starts to show. She will have a lot of things to explain to her mum and dad. In fact, she is most probably already onto something. Thinking about it, she maybe already had a provider in mind before we even started.
It is very instructive. In the end, we are nothing but tools to the girls greater purpose of creating and nurturing life.
Seppuku
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