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5 approaches today, most off of instinct. I think another week of social terrorism should give me enough of a foundation to start dialing it back and focusing more on making the approaches hook.
Night time had an instadate that the girl came with me, quickly drank her drink, said she was going to the bathroom, and then she left without saying bye. I was surprised because she didn't seem like the type, and because I hadn't done anything I thought was uncalibrated (or if I did nothing that would do that). My current guess is that she might have been a bad apple, or maybe the social frame needed to be improved.
Meta-frame continues to be a point of improvement I need to work on. Partially will get solved when AA disappears into the background and I can add more fun into the approaches. Part needs meditation and inner work to fix, and part just needs affirmation and visualizing right before the approach.
Current struggles:
Meta-frame
Approach anxiety
Hook game
Night time had an instadate that the girl came with me, quickly drank her drink, said she was going to the bathroom, and then she left without saying bye. I was surprised because she didn't seem like the type, and because I hadn't done anything I thought was uncalibrated (or if I did nothing that would do that). My current guess is that she might have been a bad apple, or maybe the social frame needed to be improved.
Meta-frame continues to be a point of improvement I need to work on. Partially will get solved when AA disappears into the background and I can add more fun into the approaches. Part needs meditation and inner work to fix, and part just needs affirmation and visualizing right before the approach.
Current struggles:
Meta-frame
Approach anxiety
Hook game