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I'm starting a journal. For me. To learn from and find patterns in my interactions to hopefully pinpoint some basic stuff I'm certain I'm overlooking.
It's not going to be anything special, I'm simply creating it to try and find patterns in my interactions and jot down some things that went good or bad with every interaction I have when I go out. One of Ricardus's old posts inspired me to do so reading that he kept a journal even when he was a pro seducer. I'm in no way better than he is so I figure since it's good enough for the pro's, I'm positive it's something I need to keep updated to reflect back on.
This is probably going to be excruciatingly boring to read so unless you just get hard on's from reading my stuff I highly doubt you're going to want to stick around long. And if you do well I'm flattered but your probably not going to learn much other than how much I get rejected on a regular basis. But it's all good rejection is the shit! I love getting my ego pummeled because then I get to put all the pieces back together with super glue and it's somehow always stronger afterwards.
-------------------------------- Key: *Things to improve on | !Things I did good
Jan. 13: Key West Florida afternoon street game.
1. Shanghai girl in FR no need to rewrite
2. Sort of getting warmed up on this one but an attractive 30 something women caught my glimpse. Scared her on the opening but she was down for a little chat after I persisted for a second. Said she had boyfriend and bid me farewell.
*Bad voice and speaking fundamentals
3. A girl from Spain with mom. We had a fun banter sesh with her and the mom but she informed me that she was getting married soon and didn't have time for debauchery and romping around.
*Immediately apologized on the opener
*Nervous laughing
*Not a complete assuredness in myself (voice tonality)... I sound quite childish and not very masculine... definitely need to change this
!Positive vibe and banter
4. Girl from Russia with nice legs. We had a good vibe and eye contact together creating decent tension between us. She ended up declining my offer to get a drink and instead went home to her angry, big, strong, Russian boyfriend.
!Opened really well. Masculine, grounded, and not in a hurry like.
!Got her to hook
!Decent voice on opener along with no stuttering and very poised in speech
*Probably shouldn't have asked about boyfriend before her
*Bad banter when she said I look like I play soccer for a living. I totally bashed down her presumable compliment "No I hate soccer".
*Voice got shitty towards the end
5. Opened girl walking with her boyfriend, though I couldn't tell at the time, and he asked "Hi can I help you" and so I asked if they were together he said yes. I gave him a compliment on his hot girlfriend, shook hands semi-awkwardly, and bidded them farewell.
6. Opened girl with mom and mom's friend. I got her to hook she was asking me a couple questions and we had a inside banter going on with the group. When it got towards the transition point/ escalation window to isolate her from her mom/friend I spoke quite hesitant/tentatively with a nervous voice and it didn't go over well as a result.
!Got her to hook and good banter
*Bad handling of escalation window
*Shitty/pussy voice fundamentals
7. Met German girl and opened with decent voice fundamentals. Turns out she had a boyfriend and was in love. I made her day though! Didn't have bouncy/nervous/tentative opening voice fundamentals so good there.
8. Met older woman walking by herself. Asked if she was single in a very non authoritative way but followed up with decent voice fundamentals. We chat and when the age things is brought up she gets a little unruly and ejects. I need to handle this like Chase outlines in the younger men older women article.
9. This girl I had decent voice fundamentals on the opening. Idk why but she thought I was drunk and when I went to explain myself I tripped a little and fucked up my speech so it sounded slurred. She wrote me off as being drunk and listening back to the recording it was pretty damn hilarious.
Overall I need to target my voice but particularly my voice fundamentals: Slow masculine speech that's consistent, Projecting my voice, being non hesitant in my voice, gaining an overall more confident speech.
It's not going to be anything special, I'm simply creating it to try and find patterns in my interactions and jot down some things that went good or bad with every interaction I have when I go out. One of Ricardus's old posts inspired me to do so reading that he kept a journal even when he was a pro seducer. I'm in no way better than he is so I figure since it's good enough for the pro's, I'm positive it's something I need to keep updated to reflect back on.
This is probably going to be excruciatingly boring to read so unless you just get hard on's from reading my stuff I highly doubt you're going to want to stick around long. And if you do well I'm flattered but your probably not going to learn much other than how much I get rejected on a regular basis. But it's all good rejection is the shit! I love getting my ego pummeled because then I get to put all the pieces back together with super glue and it's somehow always stronger afterwards.
-------------------------------- Key: *Things to improve on | !Things I did good
Jan. 13: Key West Florida afternoon street game.
1. Shanghai girl in FR no need to rewrite
2. Sort of getting warmed up on this one but an attractive 30 something women caught my glimpse. Scared her on the opening but she was down for a little chat after I persisted for a second. Said she had boyfriend and bid me farewell.
*Bad voice and speaking fundamentals
3. A girl from Spain with mom. We had a fun banter sesh with her and the mom but she informed me that she was getting married soon and didn't have time for debauchery and romping around.
*Immediately apologized on the opener
*Nervous laughing
*Not a complete assuredness in myself (voice tonality)... I sound quite childish and not very masculine... definitely need to change this
!Positive vibe and banter
4. Girl from Russia with nice legs. We had a good vibe and eye contact together creating decent tension between us. She ended up declining my offer to get a drink and instead went home to her angry, big, strong, Russian boyfriend.
!Opened really well. Masculine, grounded, and not in a hurry like.
!Got her to hook
!Decent voice on opener along with no stuttering and very poised in speech
*Probably shouldn't have asked about boyfriend before her
*Bad banter when she said I look like I play soccer for a living. I totally bashed down her presumable compliment "No I hate soccer".
*Voice got shitty towards the end
5. Opened girl walking with her boyfriend, though I couldn't tell at the time, and he asked "Hi can I help you" and so I asked if they were together he said yes. I gave him a compliment on his hot girlfriend, shook hands semi-awkwardly, and bidded them farewell.
6. Opened girl with mom and mom's friend. I got her to hook she was asking me a couple questions and we had a inside banter going on with the group. When it got towards the transition point/ escalation window to isolate her from her mom/friend I spoke quite hesitant/tentatively with a nervous voice and it didn't go over well as a result.
!Got her to hook and good banter
*Bad handling of escalation window
*Shitty/pussy voice fundamentals
7. Met German girl and opened with decent voice fundamentals. Turns out she had a boyfriend and was in love. I made her day though! Didn't have bouncy/nervous/tentative opening voice fundamentals so good there.
8. Met older woman walking by herself. Asked if she was single in a very non authoritative way but followed up with decent voice fundamentals. We chat and when the age things is brought up she gets a little unruly and ejects. I need to handle this like Chase outlines in the younger men older women article.
9. This girl I had decent voice fundamentals on the opening. Idk why but she thought I was drunk and when I went to explain myself I tripped a little and fucked up my speech so it sounded slurred. She wrote me off as being drunk and listening back to the recording it was pretty damn hilarious.
Overall I need to target my voice but particularly my voice fundamentals: Slow masculine speech that's consistent, Projecting my voice, being non hesitant in my voice, gaining an overall more confident speech.