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Skills

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They bring up their fake boyfriend when you approach without smiling...

Hahaha
Girls can say they have a boyfriend cause they actually have one or they are not interested or timing off ... Nothing to with smiling... I personally don't smile... For me smiling can come across as suplicating i do have an upbeat vibe... But is controlled and fractionate... The idea a girl told a dude i have a boyfriend cause he opened with out smiling... total none sense
 

Aussiedude

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How would there be a difference between England and the US? I would assume all the Anglo countries are pretty similar.
 

average_daygamer

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Why do you think that?


Don't know why you're assuming that we're all American. I'm not, nor is Will V or Skills.

How would there be a difference between England and the US? I would assume all the Anglo countries are pretty similar.
You don't understand.

England is a very unfriendly country full of lower class people.

If you approach them, they take it as an insult.
 

average_daygamer

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Girls can say they have a boyfriend cause they actually have one or they are not interested or timing off ... Nothing to with smiling... I personally don't smile... For me smiling can come across as suplicating i do have an upbeat vibe... But is controlled and fractionate... The idea a girl told a dude i have a boyfriend cause he opened with out smiling... total none sense
You are actually talking sense.

I agree, a lot of women I approach are in some kind of relationship. Most of the women whom you would bother approaching are for that reason that you would bother approaching in the first place.

I also agree that smiling won't make a heck of a difference as well. Why would it. How could it increase his close rate so dramatically.
 
the right date makes getting her back home a piece of cake

Chase

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@average_daygamer,

You are doing the stereotypical autism spectrum thing where you fight with everyone whilst spooling out a list of demands.

This behavior is aggravating, nobody likes to see it, and nearly every guy who does it ends up promptly banned.

Because we have seen this pattern so many times with men on the autistic spectrum, I went ahead and created a guide to not doing it:


Please read it and consider whether it will be possible for you to function within a community like this, or whether it will simply not be possible.

As to your request, since you seem to be looking for English day gamers, CHECK:

  • Beckster
  • Tom Torero
  • Gambler/Rich La Ruina (more of a night gamer but he has day game material)

Both of the former have in-fields.

IIRC Adam Lyons was also day gaming in London, though I'm not sure if he ever posted in-fields.

We also have a number of London-based seducers on this forum, some of them day gamers, though you're not exactly going about things in a way that is very likely to make them want to pop over and contribute to your threads (i.e., when you are rude to everyone, others feel far less inclined to take time out of their days to offer you free assistance).

Chase
 

Tryst

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Instead of being a tough guy, why don't you show us how to approach by coming here and filming an infield.
I will genuinely do you one better. I have a soft spot for losers with a bitter outlook on the world - DM me, and I'll come daygame with you to show you how it's done. As long as you promise to watch me and listen to my advice with an open mind, I'll be happy to share what I know.
 

Kvothe

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Smiling is male cleavage and I can confirm how important smiling is.

Yes smiling is that big.


@average_daygamer you did this once before already on a different thread

Post in thread 'Advanced / natural London wing(s) wanted'
https://www.skilledseducer.com/threads/advanced-natural-london-wing-s-wanted.29185/post-190619

Cut it out, please-it's annoying and makes me want to put you on my ignored list (and I will the next time I see you be insulting/obstinate).
 

ChrisXKiss

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It’s not just the smile that is important, you have to feel the smile.

If you feel bad about yourself walking around the city and try to force smiles during approaches, it will come off at best incongruent and at worst creepy.

It’s not about putting on a smile and going in, it’s about being warm so that you can disarm their stranger walls.
 

Kvothe

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It’s not just the smile that is important, you have to feel the smile.

If you feel bad about yourself walking around the city and try to force smiles during approaches, it will come off at best incongruent and at worst creepy.

It’s not about putting on a smile and going in, it’s about being warm so that you can disarm their stranger walls.
nailed it-I think this also is what skills was getting at saying he doesn't smile-bc his vibe is warm.

A pasted fake smile is not good either-people can tell it's fake.
 

alexlaguma

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Smiling is male cleavage and I can confirm how important smiling is.

Yes smiling is that big.


@average_daygamer you did this once before already on a different thread

Post in thread 'Advanced / natural London wing(s) wanted'
https://www.skilledseducer.com/threads/advanced-natural-london-wing-s-wanted.29185/post-190619

Cut it out, please-it's annoying and makes me want to put you on my ignored list (and I will the next time I see you be insulting/obstinate).

I was about to reply with some advice then I realised it was that guy :ROFLMAO:
 

Skills

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@average_daygamer,

You are doing the stereotypical autism spectrum thing where you fight with everyone whilst spooling out a list of demands.

This behavior is aggravating, nobody likes to see it, and nearly every guy who does it ends up promptly banned.

Because we have seen this pattern so many times with men on the autistic spectrum, I went ahead and created a guide to not doing it:


Please read it and consider whether it will be possible for you to function within a community like this, or whether it will simply not be possible.

As to your request, since you seem to be looking for English day gamers, CHECK:

  • Beckster
  • Tom Torero
  • Gambler/Rich La Ruina (more of a night gamer but he has day game material)

Both of the former have in-fields.

IIRC Adam Lyons was also day gaming in London, though I'm not sure if he ever posted in-fields.

We also have a number of London-based seducers on this forum, some of them day gamers, though you're not exactly going about things in a way that is very likely to make them want to pop over and contribute to your threads (i.e., when you are rude to everyone, others feel far less inclined to take time out of their days to offer you free assistance).

Chase
@DoWhatWorks and @topcat are both posters from london.....from the forum...
 

Skills

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Smiling is male cleavage and I can confirm how important smiling is.

Yes smiling is that big.


@average_daygamer you did this once before already on a different thread

Post in thread 'Advanced / natural London wing(s) wanted'
https://www.skilledseducer.com/threads/advanced-natural-london-wing-s-wanted.29185/post-190619

Cut it out, please-it's annoying and makes me want to put you on my ignored list (and I will the next time I see you be insulting/obstinate).
i read the article looks good, my point is not against smiling, if is smiling is working for most, keep doing, but if you don't smile and you make it work, does not mean the girl will tell you she has a boyfriend because you did not smile....

i don't smile ( i smirk) but i soften interactions with a bit of humor, but i can see how more of the stiff, have stick up their ass guys may get benefit by smiling and having more of a warmer approach... Specially op come across with a bit of anger vibe (i knew a poster like this that was red pilller light) and then i told him to cut the crap, and the vibe changed due to the inner "hatred" he had like red pillers....
 
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average_daygamer

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@average_daygamer,

You are doing the stereotypical autism spectrum thing where you fight with everyone whilst spooling out a list of demands.

This behavior is aggravating, nobody likes to see it, and nearly every guy who does it ends up promptly banned.

Because we have seen this pattern so many times with men on the autistic spectrum, I went ahead and created a guide to not doing it:


Please read it and consider whether it will be possible for you to function within a community like this, or whether it will simply not be possible.

As to your request, since you seem to be looking for English day gamers, CHECK:

  • Beckster
  • Tom Torero
  • Gambler/Rich La Ruina (more of a night gamer but he has day game material)

Both of the former have in-fields.

IIRC Adam Lyons was also day gaming in London, though I'm not sure if he ever posted in-fields.

We also have a number of London-based seducers on this forum, some of them day gamers, though you're not exactly going about things in a way that is very likely to make them want to pop over and contribute to your threads (i.e., when you are rude to everyone, others feel far less inclined to take time out of their days to offer you free assistance).

Chase
Damn, I think it is possible and I've gotta say, thank you for your patience, you are a humble guy to come on here like you do having built all this.

I did read the article so thanks for that.

The problem that occurs is, I have a bad daygame session or nightgame session and because I am solo out here in the field on my own, I take out my frustrations on this forum.

I find some of these claims outlandish and unbelievable. Here I am, going 0 for 10 in daygame.

Or being challenged for approaching in the club by the security in nightgame.

Seeing hot girls all night and not being able to even do an approach and take my chance like I should be allowed to do.

It gets all too much.

Having no outlet, no lays, I don't understand how any of this is possible.
 

Skills

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Damn, I think it is possible and I've gotta say, thank you for your patience, you are a humble guy to come on here like you do having built all this.

I did read the article so thanks for that.

The problem that occurs is, I have a bad daygame session or nightgame session and because I am solo out here in the field on my own, I take out my frustrations on this forum.

I find some of these claims outlandish and unbelievable. Here I am, going 0 for 10 in daygame.

Or being challenged for approaching in the club by the security in nightgame.

Seeing hot girls all night and not being able to even do an approach and take my chance like I should be allowed to do.

It gets all too much.

Having no outlet, no lays, I don't understand how any of this is possible.
Yea is ok we have all been there and we go there from time to time... This acknowledgement is super positive sign.. but yea yoy can fight back or argue back just do it from a place of dialogue vs fighting... You will be ok... Look at it this way you made chase write a good post.. that post is gold...i even learner stuff i didn't know from the post...
 
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