The summer is here, guys (found VOLUME in my approaching city)

[Chase]

The problem that occurs is, I have a bad daygame session or nightgame session and because I am solo out here in the field on my own, I take out my frustrations on this forum.

I did that a few times when I was new.

You soon realize other people on forums don't have much patience for it, and it's not the right attitude for a forum.

There is a "collective energy" around a forum. People contribute to it if the energy is positive and can-do, focused on practical questions, reports, etc. When people start using forums to vent, nobody likes reading that; it brings the whole mood down, and discourages others from visiting the forum to not feel bad.

I find some of these claims outlandish and unbelievable. Here I am, going 0 for 10 in daygame.

Or being challenged for approaching in the club by the security in nightgame.

Seeing hot girls all night and not being able to even do an approach and take my chance like I should be allowed to do.

It gets all too much.

Having no outlet, no lays, I don't understand how any of this is possible.

In seduction parlance, this is called it being "outside your reality."

You need to try your best not to worry about what higher level guys are doing. If you hear about it, you won't be able to believe it; if you see it, your mind will try to come up with excuses for it ("He must've known that girl already" "He just lucked upon a really horny girl" etc.).

Your focus for now should not be "I need to get laid from cold approach" (presently outside your reality) but rather on achieving smaller breakthrough goals so you are building up positive reference experiences.

See this article:

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Cheers,
Chase