TheDom's guide to adventurous self development

MarioTheDom

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Hey Guys!
So I'm starting my log that I will updated weekly on what I'm doing and where I'm going

My goal for this year is to get in fantastic shape (not that I'm fat, I got a little bit chubbier than my standards)
Become a content machine
Travel to more countries
Host my first bootcamp and kinky event.
 

MarioTheDom

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So for this week content, I made a podcast with Pablito

Pablito is a fantastic case for me because in his mid forties, he decide it was time to get up and doing the work.

We talk about his success, the ups and downs, lessons learned and what you can do to get more success
You can listen here our conversation:

http://bit.ly/42AR9Jw

Hope you will enjoy!
 

MarioTheDom

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Flying to a mediterranean island today and interviewing Naughty Nomad tomorrow!

You guys have any questions?
 

MarioTheDom

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In general is about Mindset ( it all start and end with it) - Travel&Dating - BDSM concepts

I'm not a PUA Coach as I think that most of seduction it's principles based, once you learn those, nothing else much to do with it aside taking action
 

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In general is about Mindset ( it all start and end with it) - Travel&Dating - BDSM concepts

I'm not a PUA Coach as I think that most of seduction it's principles based, once you learn those, nothing else much to do with it aside taking action
Okay, interesting
Keep it up!
 

MarioTheDom

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Thank you buddy

just trying and learning few lessons here and there
 

MarioTheDom

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Hey Guys

Dropped a poddie and it was a Q&A with some questions I got:

"How to manage your time properly to chase multiple goals"
"How to develop and keep a killer instinct in seduction"
"how to overcome the volatile and porn influenced mind"
"How to avoid being labeled as a nice guy when approaching"
"How much a men should be in touch with his emotions"


If you are interested in hearing it, check it out: https://bit.ly/42NiKr0
 

MarioTheDom

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Episode 9 : How to develop mental toughness

https://bit.ly/3maSVRg

Mental toughness



WHY IS IMPORTANT?

Life will give you plenty of shit sandwiches and you will need to be tough to face challenges and “NO” periods.

A life dedicated to growth isn’t an easy one, if you are taking the shortcut and the easy road, you will have very little success to show for.

Learning how to deal with challenges and become better at dealing with them will give your more chances to succeed in the long run.

More famous cases are Thomas Edison and his colleagues tested thousands of materials before creating the carbon-filament lightbulb; J. K. Rowling received twelve rejections before the first Harry Potter book was published



Mental toughness will not make you quit when things become hard

What it is?

Mental toughness is a personality trait and is the capability to do your best while in the face of stress and obstacles.

Mental toughness relies on your ability to manage negative emotions like anger, fear, and sadness so they don’t control and lead you away from your results

Mental toughness isn’t something you’re born with, but a state of mind you can cultivate with patience, passion, and hard work.

To be mentally tough, you have to demonstrate courage in the face of adversity even when the outlook is poor.


The 4Cs model of mental toughness was initially proposed by Peter Clough et al (2002)

The mental toughness model comprises four components, the 4C’s:

Control: believe we can make a difference, focus on what you can control

Commitment, (take time and promise you will stick to it, discipline, doing thing when you don’t feel them)

Challenge (enter flow, growth mindset)

and Confidence (believe you can)

How to develop it?

Accepting reality and charging head on

Accept reality and not sugar coating – I might not getting results but if I keep doing the right thing, things might change, even if it’s going to take time.

Observe and adjust your patterns of thinking. Are you thinking too many negative thoughts, such as I can't do this? Are you thinking unrealistic thoughts, such as The current situations in society have no impact on me.? Think in a way that is both positive and realistic. If you notice your thought pattern is not balanced (i.e. too many negative or too many positive thoughts), work to adjust it through positive and realistic self-talk.

Have a positive yet realistic mindset. This mindset enables mentally tough people to function at their highest level. It’s rooted in the fact that they accept that: a) the world is unpredictable, b) obstacles, setbacks, and change are a natural part of life, and c) the way to make progress is by confronting these realities head on.


Deal with failure correctly:

Be resilient in the face of setbacks and failure. Mentally tough people recognize that disappointment, mistakes, and failure are natural parts of life, seeing them as opportunities to learn and grow. When you stop seeing failure as a reflection of your adequacy or worth, that’s when you perform better. Failure as an inevitable part of life and valuable feedback that you can learn from



When you make a mistake or fail, immediately acknowledge and dispute any negative thoughts that arise by telling yourself that this is a chance to learn and become better.



How to deal with failure:

First, apply the 10/10/10 test: Ask yourself whether the failure will matter 10 weeks, 10 months, or 10 years from now.


This will give you a sense of perspective, so the offending event doesn’t consume you.



Have a support network


resist the urge to hole up and isolate yourself after the failure or setback. Instead, reach out to a friend who you know will make you feel better by distracting you or making you laugh.)
 

MarioTheDom

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In today's episode I talk with my friend Luigi and his adventures in Thailand - as always - link to the podcast

If you're a man looking to explore Thailand, there are plenty of amazing destinations to check out. Whether you're seeking adventure, relaxation, or a bit of both, this country has something for every type of traveler.
One of the most popular destinations in Thailand is Bangkok, the bustling capital city. Here, you'll find an endless array of street food, nightlife, and cultural experiences to enjoy. Some must-see attractions include the Grand Palace, Wat Phra Kaew (Temple of the Emerald Buddha), and the floating markets.
For a more laid-back atmosphere, head to the southern island of Phuket. This stunning island boasts crystal-clear waters, white-sand beaches, and plenty of opportunities for water activities like snorkeling and surfing. Be sure to check out the Phi Phi Islands while you're there.
If you're looking for an adrenaline rush, head up north to Chiang Mai. This city is known for its outdoor adventures like zip-lining, white-water rafting, and elephant trekking. You can also explore ancient temples, night markets, and traditional Thai culture.
No trip to Thailand is complete without a visit to the northern city of Chiang Rai. Here, you can see the famous White Temple (Wat Rong Khun) and the stunning Black House (Baan Dam Museum). You can also explore the lush forests and trek to hill-tribe villages for a unique cultural experience.
No matter where you choose to go in Thailand, you're sure to have an unforgettable experience filled with adventure, culture, and natural beauty. So pack your bags, grab your passport, and get ready to explore this incredible country.
 

MarioTheDom

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So for today's episode I have a good one.

If you identify as a average brown male and you think you can't get laid, Mr Majestic interview is for you.

https://spotifyanchor-web.app.link/e/azCjBvmF9yb

We talk about how fitness changed his life and how he became "fuckable"
Living and dating in the Middle East.
His mistakes in learning daygame.
Chasing Russian girls and the situation in Russia now

As always - link in the signature for the last episode - if you got any value out of it - consider subscribe :)
 

MarioTheDom

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Conversation with
@NaughtyNomad
part one - https://bit.ly/41I1z9w
In today's episode I will talk about:

Mark and how he met his wife.
The illusion of RedPill and “trad guys” with the West.
ChatsexBots and the future of dating?
Red pill and the “red pill rage”
Why geomaxxing isn’t the solution to everything.
Short guys can get laid?
 

MarioTheDom

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So I've done it!

I made my first boot camp in Poland and it was a blast!

I had 8 guys signed up and it was memorable, people learning about game, bdsm and better sex.

most notable things:

2 Guys that couldn't do a cold approach before I met them, started doing so and got contacts from the girls

1 Guy came as a virgin and went back home not virgin anymore

1 Guy that I coached 6 months ago that had the worst case of "robovibe" now was able to get digits and dates


I would say overall it was amazing and I feel much gratitude for it - I plan to do it another one in the future
 

MarioTheDom

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I'm partnering up with my Greek brother Crisis Overcomer to release every monday a quick talk about self development

LISTEN HERE


In this Episode we talk about:

Become more comfortable in your skin

Chronic nice guys are the guys that have most difficulty in becoming more dominant and how it fix it

Why having a “game plan” is fundamental

Why there isn’t approach anxiety and how to deal with fear of rejection

Why what do you think about others are just projections and they don’t really matter

My two go to suggestions to become an approach machine

This sales technique that will makes your dating life easier

Touching girls in the streets - what guys should master first in their body language
 

MarioTheDom

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So "new" podcast released, it's part 2 of my chat with Mark Zolo where we go into more specifics about how I game during the day time in the streets.

It's just two lads talking about picking up girls

LISTEN HERE
 

MarioTheDom

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GENERAL
So I spent the whole week end doing a sex marathon in. a BDSM apartment - who follows me on IG might have seen the story about it, and this also gave em an interesting idea for some real estate project.

It has been a fun experience but as a result, I can't even imagine going on a date right now.
With that being said, I've been working hard with coaching and pumping out content, recording podcasts, planning visits, trip etc.

So far I would say life is good

COACHING

So I've decided to change the coaching and price structure that I offer in order to reach my goal which is to ultimately build a community of cool guys.

I'm not sure I'm allowed to post the details here because in all honesty, I don't think it's even the place, although it came to my realisation that I never went public about this and most of you might now really know about it if not reading few lines from some guys that decided to trust me.

So yeah, now it' out there

TRAVELS

I'm planning my summer travel and I'm in for a crazy adventure.

I will start July 3rd in Budapest and I will make my way down the croatian coastline, to montenegro, then Albania, Greece, going up Macedonia, Kosovo, Serbia and fly out to Paris on the 9th of september.

Wish me luck guys, it's going to be fun

MISC

So I'm planning another bdsm photoshoot when in Malta and back in Krakow for day game coaching (Ps: hit me up if interested)

I'm flying back to meet with Mark Zolo ( you might have heard of him on my podcast) but before i'm going to eat some Souvlaki and record our podcat bros episode with Crisis Overcomer


That's it folks.
Slowly moving towards my goals - fitness aside that took a tank but I will work on it
 

MarioTheDom

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Episode 21, always with Joe from Passion Unchained as my co host

Today me and my buddy Joe talk about the female gaze versus the male gaze.

AKA why guys put photos online thinking they would work and they don't generate the results they think they would.

It's common to see guys commenting on how "you need to become big bro!" "more plates more dates bro" on self development forums don't have a clue on what the females are looking for.

We discuss also another couple of things we have seen using dating apps such as "certain" spicy photos not being displayed on the profile, dudes with terrible bios and more.

if you enjoyed the podcast, consider subscribing to not miss episodes
 

MarioTheDom

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So aside from being June, the shittiest month for OLD and in general in medium sized european cities with uni exams, travels, etc.

I noticed that the game on apps is becoming harder and harder.
Making a profile as a hot 22 year old is literally making you see a different life experience...

Even normies now have stepped up their game and are "matching" the knowledge level of more savvy guys. It's crazy how competition really pushes a market forward (and makes me understand how state owned economies will never succeed)
 

MarioTheDom

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Well guys

I woke up today and seen last my episode has been performing a bit better than previously, as I wanted to write this at 1k but stilll

Thank you all 1030 times for listening to me, I will see you at 2k!
 

MarioTheDom

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I plan to spend the week end by doing a total fast (digital/food) up in the mountains and look for the next chapter of my life

One that probably doesn't involve chasing woman as hard as the last years
 
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