Thor's Journal

[Thor252]

30/04/2025

Decided to make a single journal and update it regularly instead of separate journals.

I was not in a good mood after the outgoing last night with the tiny Vietnamese girl, but decided to go to the mall to approach. Did 2 approaches, first one "where is Coles" second one I spotted this girl standing in line to order at Hungry Jacks, I asked her

Me: Does it close at 5.30?
She: I am not sure.

My mind was blank after that, so I didn't have anything to say, but after I left the mall I thought I could simply ask her what are you ordering, finished work? What is your job? etc. They simply didn't come to my mind then.

If you want to soft open (just invented this term) ask a yes/no question but have another question ready.

I saw a chick waiting to pick up her order from Salsas. I thought to go to her and ask about tacos there, but I didn't then passed that place again and though about going forward but didn't again. What I need to know is that having conversation is my right, just go for it, as soon as you feel you want to say something go and ask, it is not a big deal, it is natural, once you feel it, go and say it.

 

[Thor252]

2/5/2025

Yesterday had to drop off my car at the mechanics due to a crash I had last month. Was planning to take public transportation to home, but one of my mates called me and offered to give me lift to home.

We went to a mall and he told me "Why do you walk as if you are inspecting everything?", I guess I have been overdoing the sexy walk.

I walked to the mall today, approached 2 women, the first one had a boost logo (juice store) on her t-shirt sitting at starbucks.

I asked the “where is Coles?” question. Lesson: Ask her how is it like to work at boost?

Second one is sitting at a cafe and eating apple, I get a coffee and sit next to her.

Me: Got the apple from the cafe?
She: Pardon.
Me: Got the apple from the cafe?
She doesn’t answer.

Lesson: When she is at the cafe, ask the Coles question, problem with Coles question is that they expect you to leave once you get the direction, at a cafe you don’t need to leave, you continue the convo while having your coffee.

I headed out of the mall, I realized there is a bus stop nearby, added to my locations.

 

[Thor252]

3/5/2025

Just approached one, in a bus stop, I sat next to her, looked at her, she was in her phone, raised her head but didn't look at me, I asked.

Me: Going anywhere exciting? ( with flat energy)
She: No

And that was it. I wanted to ask going home? But she had replied in a way that I felt she signalled don’t continue the convo.
Lesson: You are paying too much attention to them, say what you want to say.

Before I got to the mall, in a quiet street, I saw a girl walking towards me, she was looking the other side as if was avoiding looking at me, I asked myself “shall I approach?” And answered myself “she is gonna freak out, this is a quiet street, no one is nearby.” We got close, she make a very strong eye contact and actually I stumbled.
Lesson: Approach mate! approach! She won’t be scared, be bold, approach.

I saw a very well dressed girl in the mall, wanted to approach but shied out. After she passed I decided to go towards her and approach, but I realized my shoelace was loose, so I stooped to tighten it and by the time she should have been very far. Also I interpreted shoelace being loose as a sign not to approach. Superstitious?

I think I was tired today, went mountain climbing in the morning. One of the mates asked if I am interested and although I wasn’t I agreed. I wanted to sleep well then go to the mall and approach and then go play Volleyball. Well while mountain climbing I secured his car for Tuesday for my 2nd date with the tiny Vietnamese girl, which is fantastic, my car is at the mechanics and probably will not be ready by Tuesday. Also I had to vote today, while in the line I heard a couple speaking Arabic, I opened them.

Me: I can hear a nice Arabic accent.
She: Hey, yes this is Iraqi accent.

The convo between me, she and her husband continued till we had to go to different lines to vote.

While talking, I thought about asking if they have a community here, but didn’t. After we parted ways I thought community question would gave me good foundation to get the man number, to go in their community.