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Made friends with a guy (John) in the line.
We were forced into a seat in a lonely corner of the bar; I looked around as we got to know each other
OPEN AND HOOK:
I noticed two girls together (Girl A and B). They end up getting opened by two guys as they were buying drinks at the bar. I was bummed out the set was taken, but after some time I could sense there wasn’t much success going on in that set. I moved closer with my wing. I’m the defecto leader of our duo.
There was an opener involving Girl A's ethnicity I came up with immediately upon seeing her with the two other guys but I was waiting for a good opportunity. Once she looked over briefly in my direction (while John and I were chatting about music) we made eye contact and I opened. “Hey, are you part asian?” I said to Girl A. She said yes. We entered into a conversation about our ethnicities. “So, what was your thinking behind these earrings?” I asked since she had interesting earrings. I then asked her name and then talked to her friend, Girl B, who was the one I ended up trying to bang later.
The two guys kinda buzzed out of the ocnversation. They seemed friendly, not really a threat at all. I introduced the two girls to my wing.
Despite the two guys not being as active, they stayed around. They didn’t actually try to amog or anything. One guy tried with “So what was your opening line?” “I asked if she was part asian, I mean. Just look at her!” I said and they all laughed. That was it. Back to friendly convo.
I bounced between talking to Girl A and Girl B. I gradually noticed that my wing didn’t have things strong with Girl B. I started flirting with Girl B more heavily about her makeup style. I went into detail about how I hated my style and certain styles I would wear if I was a woman. This is a routine i developed all week so was happy to implement it haha. There were other stimulating questions I asked her as well. All of this got Girl B laughing and more turned towards me than previously.
The two guys we interrupted eventually said peace and left the set. It was now just us four, but things were shaky since I wasn’t sure who was trying to hook up with who. I was naturally leaning towards the easier of the two, Girl B. Girl A had a certain defensiveness about her, but not totally mean spirited or anything. Girl B was really getting into the conversations and suggestions I was setting.
VENUE CHANGE TO BAR B:
We left Bar A and decided to go somewhere else. We went to Bar B. During this transition I was thinking heavily of how I would even pull, knowing my options were to invite everyone to an afterparty. As we were waiting in line to Bar B, I told John about this idea.
Inside, as John was getting us drinks, a guy actually approached and opened Girl B. Before anything could go anywhere between random guy and Girl B, I picked up our conversation back up with “Alright, so we’re going to sit over there. Now I know you’re too fucked up so You’re going to have to drink some koolaid if that’s cool.” “No!” she said. I then went into other topics (that I can’t remember unfortunately) to keep the convo going. The guy buzzed off. We all got drinks and went to our seat.
On the way to the restroom I ran into a guy giving me good news about one of my favorite clubs coming back into operation, so that made me very happy.
At our seats, in Bar B, altogether. I sat right beside Girl B and started really just flirting with only her. At a certain point, almost abruptly, she leaned in and tried making out with me. I accepted the kiss, but then pushed away, a little baffled and also not sure if its a good idea to throw myself at this woman so quickly. For the next 10-20 minutes we did a back in forth between her trying to kiss me and me pulling back or making out a little then trying to get her to tell me more about herself. “So really, what do you do for fun?” I asked along with other questions, jokes and observations about her.
PULL TO CAR:
She verbally makes it clear at a certain point: “i am seriously very sexually attracted to you. LIke, I really want to fuck you.” She made this point several times in different ways. Through all of this I kept pushing back a little with "Yea, i understand, but you know, patience is a virtue" and shit like that (joking of course). Her arousal was very high at this point and it was clear that there was more disregard for her friend than before. “How about we get some gum from my car. You can let your friend know and well be right back,” I said. She speaks to her friend, telling her (in a girly convoluted way) that we’re going to get gum from my car. Her friend has some suspicion but doesn’t protest or anything. We leave to my car, talking casually on the way.
Arriving in my car, I debate whether to pull to the side (an alley, hidden parking lot, etc.) or go to my place. My place is only a 6-8 minute drive. Before putting the foot on the gas and leaving we madeout just a little bit more, then I began driving. I decided to go straight to my place. I felt that I had the time, she was very interested, and nothing could go wrong. I also wanted to bang her in the comfort of my own bed, not in the back of my car. It’s just not as good back there haha. This was my undoing.
We parked in my parking garage, and it was here that her friend called her. She picks up. Then after a talk, says “We have to go back and pick up my friend. I feel bad for leaving my friend.” I screamed “FUCK” inside my head. I tried escalating physically and saying “lets go upstairs I gotta go to the restroom real quick.” but she wasn’t having it. “We’re just going to get here then come back here anyway," she said. "I just feel bad for leaving her.”
EVERYONE TO MY PLACE + LAST DITCH ATTEMPTS:
So we leave my garage and go pick Girl A and John up. Then we go back to my place and go upstairs to my apartment. I handed out drinks and played some music and we joked around.
Girl A ordered food, and when she left downstairs to get the food, girl B and I started making out. But John was there watching awkwardly (not really his fault). John and Girl A were not doing anything physically with each other. I’m guessing the John didn’t escalate the interaction as he should have while I was gone and they just talked, so the relation between girl A and John was still very platonic. I thought I could take Girl B into my bedroom and have at it, but I knew Girl A would be back up and wasn’t sure how that would go down. I don’t want Girl A, whose not interested enough in John, knocking on my door mid way through foreplay and asking “Is everything alright?” (though I understand the sentiment, its a vibe killer).
Since Girl B left some of her things in my car, I told her we should go get them (while her friend was away).
Suddenly Girl A calls Girl B because she’s lost in the lobby of my apartment. So Girl B and I go down to find her to get the food, and then we went to get Girl B's stuff from my car, so my plan of getting Girl B alone in my car with Girl A and John upstairs alone was ruined.
When we come back up John is gone. He felt we had left him and was now stuck outside. Girl A, Girl B and I sat in my place, ate some food, chatted and flirted (Girl B and I were still physical to a smaller degree while we all sat together). At last the two decided to leave.
Through the course of our entire interaction, Girl B kept asking me to join her pre game party. I told her about a club that I could help her and her friends skip the line and get in sooner with not much done on my part. I just need to get in early and then they can call me and come in. As they waited for the Uber we discussed details of how we’d meet, where they ought to go tomorrow, etc. I wasn’t sure about joining a pre game party since I don’t really know who’d be there. It's a little fishy to me.
Then finally the uber arrived, I walked them outside, kiss goodbye and they left. And that was that.
Hopefully I can make something happen tonight. If Girl B is with more friends it may be easier to pluck her off from the pack. I’m going to go to my usual place. But if they take my hint in going to this awesome club I’ve been frequenting, then it’ll make things easier for me. If not, then its possible I can just run into them again somewhere else in the nightlife area. Either way, doesn’t matter. I will still sarge tonight as usual. But if I can somehow pull off meeting girl B again, that’ll be great.
FIRST THOUGHTS:
We were forced into a seat in a lonely corner of the bar; I looked around as we got to know each other
OPEN AND HOOK:
I noticed two girls together (Girl A and B). They end up getting opened by two guys as they were buying drinks at the bar. I was bummed out the set was taken, but after some time I could sense there wasn’t much success going on in that set. I moved closer with my wing. I’m the defecto leader of our duo.
There was an opener involving Girl A's ethnicity I came up with immediately upon seeing her with the two other guys but I was waiting for a good opportunity. Once she looked over briefly in my direction (while John and I were chatting about music) we made eye contact and I opened. “Hey, are you part asian?” I said to Girl A. She said yes. We entered into a conversation about our ethnicities. “So, what was your thinking behind these earrings?” I asked since she had interesting earrings. I then asked her name and then talked to her friend, Girl B, who was the one I ended up trying to bang later.
The two guys kinda buzzed out of the ocnversation. They seemed friendly, not really a threat at all. I introduced the two girls to my wing.
Despite the two guys not being as active, they stayed around. They didn’t actually try to amog or anything. One guy tried with “So what was your opening line?” “I asked if she was part asian, I mean. Just look at her!” I said and they all laughed. That was it. Back to friendly convo.
I bounced between talking to Girl A and Girl B. I gradually noticed that my wing didn’t have things strong with Girl B. I started flirting with Girl B more heavily about her makeup style. I went into detail about how I hated my style and certain styles I would wear if I was a woman. This is a routine i developed all week so was happy to implement it haha. There were other stimulating questions I asked her as well. All of this got Girl B laughing and more turned towards me than previously.
The two guys we interrupted eventually said peace and left the set. It was now just us four, but things were shaky since I wasn’t sure who was trying to hook up with who. I was naturally leaning towards the easier of the two, Girl B. Girl A had a certain defensiveness about her, but not totally mean spirited or anything. Girl B was really getting into the conversations and suggestions I was setting.
VENUE CHANGE TO BAR B:
We left Bar A and decided to go somewhere else. We went to Bar B. During this transition I was thinking heavily of how I would even pull, knowing my options were to invite everyone to an afterparty. As we were waiting in line to Bar B, I told John about this idea.
Inside, as John was getting us drinks, a guy actually approached and opened Girl B. Before anything could go anywhere between random guy and Girl B, I picked up our conversation back up with “Alright, so we’re going to sit over there. Now I know you’re too fucked up so You’re going to have to drink some koolaid if that’s cool.” “No!” she said. I then went into other topics (that I can’t remember unfortunately) to keep the convo going. The guy buzzed off. We all got drinks and went to our seat.
On the way to the restroom I ran into a guy giving me good news about one of my favorite clubs coming back into operation, so that made me very happy.
At our seats, in Bar B, altogether. I sat right beside Girl B and started really just flirting with only her. At a certain point, almost abruptly, she leaned in and tried making out with me. I accepted the kiss, but then pushed away, a little baffled and also not sure if its a good idea to throw myself at this woman so quickly. For the next 10-20 minutes we did a back in forth between her trying to kiss me and me pulling back or making out a little then trying to get her to tell me more about herself. “So really, what do you do for fun?” I asked along with other questions, jokes and observations about her.
PULL TO CAR:
She verbally makes it clear at a certain point: “i am seriously very sexually attracted to you. LIke, I really want to fuck you.” She made this point several times in different ways. Through all of this I kept pushing back a little with "Yea, i understand, but you know, patience is a virtue" and shit like that (joking of course). Her arousal was very high at this point and it was clear that there was more disregard for her friend than before. “How about we get some gum from my car. You can let your friend know and well be right back,” I said. She speaks to her friend, telling her (in a girly convoluted way) that we’re going to get gum from my car. Her friend has some suspicion but doesn’t protest or anything. We leave to my car, talking casually on the way.
Arriving in my car, I debate whether to pull to the side (an alley, hidden parking lot, etc.) or go to my place. My place is only a 6-8 minute drive. Before putting the foot on the gas and leaving we madeout just a little bit more, then I began driving. I decided to go straight to my place. I felt that I had the time, she was very interested, and nothing could go wrong. I also wanted to bang her in the comfort of my own bed, not in the back of my car. It’s just not as good back there haha. This was my undoing.
We parked in my parking garage, and it was here that her friend called her. She picks up. Then after a talk, says “We have to go back and pick up my friend. I feel bad for leaving my friend.” I screamed “FUCK” inside my head. I tried escalating physically and saying “lets go upstairs I gotta go to the restroom real quick.” but she wasn’t having it. “We’re just going to get here then come back here anyway," she said. "I just feel bad for leaving her.”
EVERYONE TO MY PLACE + LAST DITCH ATTEMPTS:
So we leave my garage and go pick Girl A and John up. Then we go back to my place and go upstairs to my apartment. I handed out drinks and played some music and we joked around.
Girl A ordered food, and when she left downstairs to get the food, girl B and I started making out. But John was there watching awkwardly (not really his fault). John and Girl A were not doing anything physically with each other. I’m guessing the John didn’t escalate the interaction as he should have while I was gone and they just talked, so the relation between girl A and John was still very platonic. I thought I could take Girl B into my bedroom and have at it, but I knew Girl A would be back up and wasn’t sure how that would go down. I don’t want Girl A, whose not interested enough in John, knocking on my door mid way through foreplay and asking “Is everything alright?” (though I understand the sentiment, its a vibe killer).
Since Girl B left some of her things in my car, I told her we should go get them (while her friend was away).
Suddenly Girl A calls Girl B because she’s lost in the lobby of my apartment. So Girl B and I go down to find her to get the food, and then we went to get Girl B's stuff from my car, so my plan of getting Girl B alone in my car with Girl A and John upstairs alone was ruined.
When we come back up John is gone. He felt we had left him and was now stuck outside. Girl A, Girl B and I sat in my place, ate some food, chatted and flirted (Girl B and I were still physical to a smaller degree while we all sat together). At last the two decided to leave.
Through the course of our entire interaction, Girl B kept asking me to join her pre game party. I told her about a club that I could help her and her friends skip the line and get in sooner with not much done on my part. I just need to get in early and then they can call me and come in. As they waited for the Uber we discussed details of how we’d meet, where they ought to go tomorrow, etc. I wasn’t sure about joining a pre game party since I don’t really know who’d be there. It's a little fishy to me.
Then finally the uber arrived, I walked them outside, kiss goodbye and they left. And that was that.
Hopefully I can make something happen tonight. If Girl B is with more friends it may be easier to pluck her off from the pack. I’m going to go to my usual place. But if they take my hint in going to this awesome club I’ve been frequenting, then it’ll make things easier for me. If not, then its possible I can just run into them again somewhere else in the nightlife area. Either way, doesn’t matter. I will still sarge tonight as usual. But if I can somehow pull off meeting girl B again, that’ll be great.
FIRST THOUGHTS:
- It's clear I should have went for the lay in the back of my car in an alley by where I parked. Her buying temperature was off the charts and there was nothing in our way at the moment we hopped in.
- I feel almost played a little. Girl B had good social intuition. On the one hand she was cool to go to my car to get gum, knowing fully what that was about. On the other hand she kept thinking her friend was getting an uber when she was really just ordering food, and even when we had an actual (though short) possibility to bang at my place, she didn't go for it, insisting on getting her friend first. It felt like it was either accidental self-sabatoge (i.e. bad luck for me) or a really complex coordinated effort. idk. Maybe I read into it too much. There was a lot going on.
