What girls say they want versus what they actually respond to is a big part of the game.
- She wants a rich man but then goes to 1 dollar beer night.
- She wants a doctor, but can't handle that he's at work all the time.
- She wanted to be a stay at home mom, but all that baby talk drives her batty.
- She wanted to be a high powered corporate exec, but she's not willing to put in the hours.
- She thinks she's not getting the promotion because she's a woman, but there are 10 other guys that didn't get the promotion.
- She dresses to attract male attention, and when she gets it, she doesn't know what to do with it.
Keep in mind, this happens to guys to.
- Date a Instagram Thot who's body can't be hidden, and she's not trying to hide it...Buying the red Ferrari and being surprised when you get pulled over.
- Guys want the model, but don't want to deal with her putting herself together for 2 hours everyday.
- Regular Bro wants a girl that shares his hobby, until she's better than him. Or she's worse than him but gets more money and attention for it.
As for Game trumping her solipsism,
it does until it doesn't.
The other thing, is that, they[women and the men examples] say they want that our of a LTR. Would they say the same thing if you asked them, what do you want out of a ONS/FWB?
The reason I quoted what you wrote from your first post in this thread, was, because I thought, the point of game was you don't, necessarily, have to be all or alot of those things, but maybe in some ways its grey area. Big reason was, if someone new came on the forums and read what you wrote literally, instead of sarcastically, they might misunderstand what you meant that's why I asked about it. They might misunderstand what game can do for you/how women work.
A man has to decide if all of that is worth it?
An LTR is far more work than a life of fucking a new 7 every few days.
I ask guys in LTRs all the time that are game aware what they're getting from their LTR versus the work they have to put in to maintain it.
Coming home from a long business trip, would you want Tomi to be in your house bitching about the garbage disposal and telling you she's thinking of going to grad school?
I have a friend in a LTR, and he wants to have kids/family one day, and he is game aware. I don't know if he has constant major frame battles though, I haven't been around both of them, although I could ask him about it.
I have another friend in a LTR who isn't into game, doesn't think.... yeah doesn't "get it" let's say. ie I'd say to him and his wife, you have to write on an online daitng profile, someint thats attractive, and have a social photo to help get good results. They would say no it needs to communicate who you are and they don't seem to understand. But as far as I can tell he is happy with her, also has a kid now.
But yeah, that's only 2examples compared to I'm sure you have many more saying .... well what do they say when you ask them about LTR vs a new 7? Or constant frame battles?
Personally, I'm not sure if I want a LTR or not.
