Alright, back in the swing of things, took the day off yesterday as I had a full schedule..
Day 8 -
Girl 1:
See a gorgeous blonde approaching to my right. I appear not to notice her until she is at my shoulder and then I say excuse me. She jumpscares. So I wait a few seconds for her to calm down while I chuckle and show her I mean no harm. Then I tell her she is gorgeous. We stare into eachother's eyes and I notice that they are a striking yellow. Can't help but compliment her on those too. This girl is an absolute 10 if we're going by that scale. definitely the hottest I've approached so far. Anyway, she thanks me and we exchange names. She's super friendly and confident. She has a unique name so I mention this. Then ask her what she is up to. The conversation is weak. I'm not warmed up. So where I would usually eject, I tell her we should go for drinks. She states she has a boyfriend. I tell her that's ok and then raise my finger to my lips. Shhh he doesn't need to know. She laughs out loud and says sorry she can't. I wish her well.
Next step is to master conversation tech. I can open, I'm now closing without a problem. I just need to master conversation and then polish. Plus tighten my fundamentals.
I've also noticed that hotter girls receive me more warmly, are far friendlier and welcome conversation more. Also let you down easier. I feel with a vibe improvement, I may be able to turn some of these..
Girl 2:
See another well dressed cutie. Very pretty face, and killer outfit. She's wearing a puffer vest even though it's 24 degrees celcius out. Odd, but perfect material to banter about. Get up beside her and compliment her. She says thank you, appears shy or guarded can't put my finger on it. Then as I ask her about her bomber and the heat, she claims she only speaks French. I'm unphased and proceed to ask her what she is up to for the day. She points to the French school up ahead and says school. I let her go.
She looked mature for her age, but given it is a French High School, she was definitely underage. Woops.
Girl 3:
See a tall, slim brunette walking in the park. I let her pass and think up a compliment to give her. She has an elegant walk. I approach to her right. I put out my hand and am about to get her attention, when she jumps and yells. I laugh it off. She's extremely flighty. I calm her down as much as I can and deliver my compliment. Russian girl. She says thank you, but that she has a boyfriend. I continue to ask her about her day, but she is still so flighty and cautious so I let her go. Funny, she's near six foot tall and me a mere 5'6, I'm not that much of a threat. Strange.
I am getting alot more "I have a boyfriends" all of a sudden. I'm wondering if this is a mere artifact of volume, or if it's due to a vibe change, or something being off. I didn't hear any of these in my first few days of approaching. Thoughts guys?
Girl 4:
Cute girl, nice figure in gym attire. Walks past me and stops at the light. I walk up to the light as well, but make sure to look as though I don't notice her. As we cross, I tap her on the elbow and tell her that she is cute, she thanks me, then continues into a coffee shop.
This was a weak approach but I know what I could have done better. I should have introduced myself immediately after the compliment. I figure when a compliment is given to a woman but left at that, she feels a degree of social pressure and is waiting for the man to lead, to give some context to his opener (make his intentions known). By introducing yourself you confirm that you are interested in talking and moving things along. If not, you just create awkward tension that she breaks by getting out of there.
Girl 5:
4 approaches done, I'm on my way home when I see a slim, large-breasted blonde girl. I stop her before she passes me and compliment her. She thanks me. Then I ask her what she is up to. A rapper is running a popup shop down the road, and she is checking it out. So we get into a conversation about that. Some more chit chat, then I say we should get drinks. She agrees, I give her my phone. She puts in her number, or so I think. We talk more on what she does. She's studying illustration, so I light up at this as I also have an arts background. She also doesn't live far from myself. I tell her I'll text her and let her go.
Go to find her number in my phone, but can't remember her name. Download an app to trace recent contacts. Her number doesn't come up. So I'm guessing she didn't actually type her number in my phone. O well...
My approaches and vibe need alot of work but I know I'll figure these out with enough experience. It was the same with dates and bouncing girls home, which I figured out with enough volume and experience. Soon...