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I am kind of talking things here that is obvious.
The reason why push-pull technique exists is because We don't wanna give our power away too soon when showing interest early in set (in the attraction phase). I think we all agree with that right? The exponent in this topic is Todd Valentine and his concept of "Premise" instead of intent.
Ok, now my realization related with this topic of not giving your power away is that even if you do not give your power away at the first half of the seduction process you will still have to do it in the second half of the seduction process when you escalate the vibe, be it in the comfort phase, the date, your house but it is inevitable, Is that right or not?
Therefore if we have to give our power away in a form of SOI or Physical escalation at the house. Why not to do it at the beginning of the second half of the seduction process instead of later? I mean, as fast as possible?
I used to follow the general idea of the Mystery Method: Attraction - Comfort - Seduction. The problem with this is that when you are in set you usually tend to delay escalation because you think that the girl need comfort first and an emotional connection. The idea of Comfort before escalation was really making me lose a lot of girls. Now I can see how ridiculous is delaying escalation to build comfort first. I was basically trying for deep rapport and occasionally throwing some sexual inuendo but my main focus was comfort (wtf?). I threw Comfort out of the fucking window
Building Rapport and an emotional connection with the girl made me fail everytime. Now I throw all of that shit out of the window and I escalate as soon as she give me IOIs and when I fail I do not say is because I needed comfort and an emotional connection. I do never try for comfort anymore. I only escalate and for me the mystery method is now: Attraction - Escalation - Sex. Fuck Comfort!!
The reason why push-pull technique exists is because We don't wanna give our power away too soon when showing interest early in set (in the attraction phase). I think we all agree with that right? The exponent in this topic is Todd Valentine and his concept of "Premise" instead of intent.
Ok, now my realization related with this topic of not giving your power away is that even if you do not give your power away at the first half of the seduction process you will still have to do it in the second half of the seduction process when you escalate the vibe, be it in the comfort phase, the date, your house but it is inevitable, Is that right or not?
Therefore if we have to give our power away in a form of SOI or Physical escalation at the house. Why not to do it at the beginning of the second half of the seduction process instead of later? I mean, as fast as possible?
I used to follow the general idea of the Mystery Method: Attraction - Comfort - Seduction. The problem with this is that when you are in set you usually tend to delay escalation because you think that the girl need comfort first and an emotional connection. The idea of Comfort before escalation was really making me lose a lot of girls. Now I can see how ridiculous is delaying escalation to build comfort first. I was basically trying for deep rapport and occasionally throwing some sexual inuendo but my main focus was comfort (wtf?). I threw Comfort out of the fucking window
Building Rapport and an emotional connection with the girl made me fail everytime. Now I throw all of that shit out of the window and I escalate as soon as she give me IOIs and when I fail I do not say is because I needed comfort and an emotional connection. I do never try for comfort anymore. I only escalate and for me the mystery method is now: Attraction - Escalation - Sex. Fuck Comfort!!
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