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Hello guys, since I found this site last week I haven't read everything, but I have read a LOT. Anywho, let me describe my situation.
I met a girl, she's a bartender, she works 8PM to 5AM at a club. So that's obstacle #1, graveyard shift lol. She seems to like me, said I'm easy to talk to and I'm not fake like most of the other guys she meets. I don't know if she was being serious or just trying to be nice.
I got her number, sent her a text that night, no answer.
Sent her a text the next day, no answer.
I CALLED her 3 days later, she answered, she said she was gonna be busy till December
I texted her the next day, said I hope you had a good night, she said "thank you I did, hope you did also,"
And that was the last I've heard from her. I've texted her 3 times since then, the last was thursday morning, no answer.
I'm trying not to overdo it, but it's hard because she lives an hour away. She won't go on a date till December, 2 weeks away, I'm trying to build a rapport with her over text while trying to keep it cool, relaxed, no pressure, law of least effort etc. She said she wants to get together in december, but I'm worried that she's gonna forget what it was like when we met and that magic is gonna wear off.
I'm not stupid, I know she's getting the texts, I just don't know what to do. Should I just ignore her till december and hope she doesn't come up with some lame excuse to not see me?
I met a girl, she's a bartender, she works 8PM to 5AM at a club. So that's obstacle #1, graveyard shift lol. She seems to like me, said I'm easy to talk to and I'm not fake like most of the other guys she meets. I don't know if she was being serious or just trying to be nice.
I got her number, sent her a text that night, no answer.
Sent her a text the next day, no answer.
I CALLED her 3 days later, she answered, she said she was gonna be busy till December
I texted her the next day, said I hope you had a good night, she said "thank you I did, hope you did also,"
And that was the last I've heard from her. I've texted her 3 times since then, the last was thursday morning, no answer.
I'm trying not to overdo it, but it's hard because she lives an hour away. She won't go on a date till December, 2 weeks away, I'm trying to build a rapport with her over text while trying to keep it cool, relaxed, no pressure, law of least effort etc. She said she wants to get together in december, but I'm worried that she's gonna forget what it was like when we met and that magic is gonna wear off.
I'm not stupid, I know she's getting the texts, I just don't know what to do. Should I just ignore her till december and hope she doesn't come up with some lame excuse to not see me?
