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Winter practice Day 1 and Day 2
Dec 27
I did not go to the mall today. Mom and dad were working so I stayed home.
Dec 28
Arrival: 12:04pm
Rules:
1. Must approach a girl every 30 minutes
2. 10 minute break in between each approach to right up report
3. I can't leave a store until I approach a girl (preventing the social butterfly effect, except instead of women it's stores...)
12:24 Macy's: group of 3: 2 girls: hot girl and chubby and one short, chubby guy: either shopping friend or boyfriend. I was sifting through clothes and they were popping where I was and I was walking away to test and see if they were following me... I didn't quite know how to steal glances without coming off actually checking them out. However, as I'm writing this, I need to give a little to get something back. I know that getting caught checking a girl out first is a no no here but i need to test this... There was a moment when i was in the changing room, the three walked in and the guy asked one of them to get him a different size of pants... I left a little earlier to the same area i was before to drop off my shirt, which was too big. I hear someone behind me but I don't turn around and keep my cool. Return my shirt, turn and remain aloof while using my periphs and I see that the girl returning the pants is the one I want to approach. Unfortunately I let the moment pass and she was alone...
I walk away... and here I am writing this...
op she just popped by a pair of pants by me brb...
and I said fuck it just go.
Walked straight up and...
Me: "excuse me"
Her: "Oh I don't work here..."
Me: "Oh..." I don't know what to say... so... "Are you single?"
Her: "Married."
Me: "How old are you?"
Her: "70." ignoring me and in auto pilot (which I didnt know at the time...) At that point I was like okay so I just kindly bowed out
Me: "Oh alright, have a good day." polite smile then walked away.
I had about 3 minutes before 12:30 so I am glad that I didn't fail the timer. I should have called her out on her bullshit rather than acting like a pussy.... that was not romantic at all. She had this deer in the headlights look... certainly in auto pilot. I gave up too soon. I also didn't pre-open...
Could have done something like, "Do you always talk lie when someone asks you questions?" It was pretty fucking obvious she was lying... I should have laughed or played along... fucking hell, get it together man. She is just a girl... you even saw as soon as you opened that she had makeup all up on her face... unnatural and a turnoff... each approach should be performed as if it were your last one. Success leaves clues and most guys say the last one is usually their best.
This was my one and only approach for today. For future reference, stop here if you wish to save time that could he spent somewhere else before you die. Rest of this entry will be all ORs
12:31-1:00pm Approached no one cos I was trying out clothes at banana republic. Bought a $75 sweater for $29.39, WHAT WHAT POST-CHRISTMAS SAVINGS!!!
1:01-1:55pm no one. It's been an hour. I need to follow these rules much more strictly.
2:35pm trapped in Nordstrom!!! I will say that in this period, there was a girl from high school who passed by. She was one of the popular girls you were never really attracted to but a lot of the guys in your grade were attracted to. I find that that is a special trait about yourself, you are much more attracted to the girl on the inside because you grew up in a place where people are all nice on the outside but so rude and selfish and snobby on the inside. The benefit is that when you do move from here, your experiences with people will just go upwards. You understand a cutthroat society and the importance of being a good communicator and people person. However, such a folly that could befall you is a lack of empathy in pursuit of displaying dominance. I suggest exerting a bit of vulnerability. I noticed very much so today that women are intimidated by you... it's not what you want but it is expected... don't get all hotty and prideful, I am just indicating an observation.
3:13pm nothing at the north face except beautiful athletic girls.
3:35pm complimented on my jacket by a girl who came over to tell me behind the register. the other cashier girl was cute and I could tell I made her nervous, but i didn't do anything again...
4:08 after sitting down to eat I got my head focused and am just gonna go through each step of my process. I will move practice one step until mastery, before moving on to the next one.
In addition, I was walking on the second floor along the side of the railings. This girl's mom started moving to the side so her daughter would be on a practical collision course with me and she was dressed really nice and didn't look bad. I let nerves get to me cos I was like, "WTF MOM!?! WHAT A BOSS!!!" Unfortunately, I let such a perfect moment go. If anything my confidence is soaring, but confidence doesn't make a great seducer, it's only part of the equation. GGGRRR!!! I mean really!!! She was primming her hair and looking everywhere but me! I was so happy with jus that that I began to smile to myself and looked away. Understand that that girl just felt rejection by you... everytime a girl goes out of her way to show you that she is interested you get in there and give her something to let her know that she is worth having someone to make her feel good. Don't go all white knightey on me but be a man man! Stop being that little boy who gets all excited when all these cute little girls are waving hello or hi. *Sigh* You'll always be that little kid on the inside. I love it and hate it.
that's how it's been today... I approached this girl 30 minutes upon entering the mall, but that was the only one. One more than yesterday, but still! *Sigh* blocks Eric, blocks. When you set out to build a wall, you build it brick by brick, not all in one moment. So set out to build your wall. Put down one brick at a time, as best as a brick can be laid, and one day... one day... you'll have your wall.
Tomorrow is Sunday so the mall is open for only 9 hours!
6:30am wakeup, brush teeth, quarter bottle of water, pieces of banana, trainers, stretch, lift, breakfast, shower, change, mall from 10 to 5pm. You can do it, you can do it! You can do it! Don't just say it and avoid it! Attack your goals with strength and fervor! With a spirit of fire that will never be quenched! Do something epic ahha!!! Believe it. Fake it until you make it. NLP! Most of all, have fun with it All work and no play makes Johnny a dull boy or make work play and play work.
Dec 27
I did not go to the mall today. Mom and dad were working so I stayed home.
Dec 28
Arrival: 12:04pm
Rules:
1. Must approach a girl every 30 minutes
2. 10 minute break in between each approach to right up report
3. I can't leave a store until I approach a girl (preventing the social butterfly effect, except instead of women it's stores...)
12:24 Macy's: group of 3: 2 girls: hot girl and chubby and one short, chubby guy: either shopping friend or boyfriend. I was sifting through clothes and they were popping where I was and I was walking away to test and see if they were following me... I didn't quite know how to steal glances without coming off actually checking them out. However, as I'm writing this, I need to give a little to get something back. I know that getting caught checking a girl out first is a no no here but i need to test this... There was a moment when i was in the changing room, the three walked in and the guy asked one of them to get him a different size of pants... I left a little earlier to the same area i was before to drop off my shirt, which was too big. I hear someone behind me but I don't turn around and keep my cool. Return my shirt, turn and remain aloof while using my periphs and I see that the girl returning the pants is the one I want to approach. Unfortunately I let the moment pass and she was alone...
I walk away... and here I am writing this...
op she just popped by a pair of pants by me brb...
and I said fuck it just go.
Walked straight up and...
Me: "excuse me"
Her: "Oh I don't work here..."
Me: "Oh..." I don't know what to say... so... "Are you single?"
Her: "Married."
Me: "How old are you?"
Her: "70." ignoring me and in auto pilot (which I didnt know at the time...) At that point I was like okay so I just kindly bowed out
Me: "Oh alright, have a good day." polite smile then walked away.
I had about 3 minutes before 12:30 so I am glad that I didn't fail the timer. I should have called her out on her bullshit rather than acting like a pussy.... that was not romantic at all. She had this deer in the headlights look... certainly in auto pilot. I gave up too soon. I also didn't pre-open...
Could have done something like, "Do you always talk lie when someone asks you questions?" It was pretty fucking obvious she was lying... I should have laughed or played along... fucking hell, get it together man. She is just a girl... you even saw as soon as you opened that she had makeup all up on her face... unnatural and a turnoff... each approach should be performed as if it were your last one. Success leaves clues and most guys say the last one is usually their best.
This was my one and only approach for today. For future reference, stop here if you wish to save time that could he spent somewhere else before you die. Rest of this entry will be all ORs
12:31-1:00pm Approached no one cos I was trying out clothes at banana republic. Bought a $75 sweater for $29.39, WHAT WHAT POST-CHRISTMAS SAVINGS!!!
1:01-1:55pm no one. It's been an hour. I need to follow these rules much more strictly.
2:35pm trapped in Nordstrom!!! I will say that in this period, there was a girl from high school who passed by. She was one of the popular girls you were never really attracted to but a lot of the guys in your grade were attracted to. I find that that is a special trait about yourself, you are much more attracted to the girl on the inside because you grew up in a place where people are all nice on the outside but so rude and selfish and snobby on the inside. The benefit is that when you do move from here, your experiences with people will just go upwards. You understand a cutthroat society and the importance of being a good communicator and people person. However, such a folly that could befall you is a lack of empathy in pursuit of displaying dominance. I suggest exerting a bit of vulnerability. I noticed very much so today that women are intimidated by you... it's not what you want but it is expected... don't get all hotty and prideful, I am just indicating an observation.
3:13pm nothing at the north face except beautiful athletic girls.
3:35pm complimented on my jacket by a girl who came over to tell me behind the register. the other cashier girl was cute and I could tell I made her nervous, but i didn't do anything again...
4:08 after sitting down to eat I got my head focused and am just gonna go through each step of my process. I will move practice one step until mastery, before moving on to the next one.
In addition, I was walking on the second floor along the side of the railings. This girl's mom started moving to the side so her daughter would be on a practical collision course with me and she was dressed really nice and didn't look bad. I let nerves get to me cos I was like, "WTF MOM!?! WHAT A BOSS!!!" Unfortunately, I let such a perfect moment go. If anything my confidence is soaring, but confidence doesn't make a great seducer, it's only part of the equation. GGGRRR!!! I mean really!!! She was primming her hair and looking everywhere but me! I was so happy with jus that that I began to smile to myself and looked away. Understand that that girl just felt rejection by you... everytime a girl goes out of her way to show you that she is interested you get in there and give her something to let her know that she is worth having someone to make her feel good. Don't go all white knightey on me but be a man man! Stop being that little boy who gets all excited when all these cute little girls are waving hello or hi. *Sigh* You'll always be that little kid on the inside. I love it and hate it.
that's how it's been today... I approached this girl 30 minutes upon entering the mall, but that was the only one. One more than yesterday, but still! *Sigh* blocks Eric, blocks. When you set out to build a wall, you build it brick by brick, not all in one moment. So set out to build your wall. Put down one brick at a time, as best as a brick can be laid, and one day... one day... you'll have your wall.
Tomorrow is Sunday so the mall is open for only 9 hours!
6:30am wakeup, brush teeth, quarter bottle of water, pieces of banana, trainers, stretch, lift, breakfast, shower, change, mall from 10 to 5pm. You can do it, you can do it! You can do it! Don't just say it and avoid it! Attack your goals with strength and fervor! With a spirit of fire that will never be quenched! Do something epic ahha!!! Believe it. Fake it until you make it. NLP! Most of all, have fun with it All work and no play makes Johnny a dull boy or make work play and play work.