FR Unfortunate block from a tall hottie

[Constantino]

Another recording number close and text convo. After those messages shown on screenshot, she blocked. Roast me mercilessly

elena pu cy 8+ elegant improv.mp3

drive.google.com

https://imgur.com/a/7c9owzS

 

[Constantino]

@gameboy since you left a ROFL emoji, can you tell where i fucked up here

 

[gameboy]

what she said. your texting is weird.

 

[Constantino]

what she said. your texting is weird.

a few texts in there are inside jokes from when i cold approached her...so what's weird in there?

 

[OldGuy]

She tells you your texting is just about you. It should be mostly about her.

 

[gameboy]

I cant be bothered to listen to an audio... I suggest you write a proper FR if you want detailed feedback. Otherwise there are numerous texting guides both here and on GC.

 

[Constantino]

She tells you your texting is just about you. It should be mostly about her.

i did ask her what is that she was doing in the UK as she briefly mentioned it in the posted recording. Do you think i was being a bit too over the top performative dancing monkey with my responses?

 

[Amadeus]

You are coming off extremely egotistical from the very beginning of your approach. It sounds as if you're not even maintaining eye contact as you speak, since your approach consists of regurgitating techniques you had learned but probably not deeply understood, as well as her commenting that you appear hyperactive. You cut her off every single time she laughed or tried commenting on something or asking a question, then continued with your weird volleyball and handball fashion talk. She was confused at first but willing to discuss it more deeply, your response to that was completely undermining the topic, briefly commenting on how she's "talking so much detail", which comes off more like an insult than a compliment, then changing the subject back to yourself. Your advice of her taking up improv was misplaced and authoritative rather than playfully suggestive. The way you invited compliance repeatedly over the course of the entire interaction was also authoritative and commanding rather than suggestive, which defeats compliance and makes it subordinance. The way you are trying to close is, again, authoritative and undermining of her. You are repeatedly cutting her off and continuing your strategy no matter what. Around the time you're exchanging phone numbers she is likely feeling bored, mildly scared and is just trying to get rid of you as soon as possible. You are coming off extremely weird and odious, constantly repeating her name and "darling", shutting her up while she's trying to get a single word out herself during the entire interaction. After interrupting her again, you halted your close to, again, make a disguised comment about yourself, then again undermined that and told her to give you her phone number. As she's, surprisingly, giving you her phone number, you are again rambling on about something weird and unimportant, to which she, irritatingly, responds by ignoring it. It's obvious at this point that the only thing she wants to do right now is to get away from you, evident by the fact she's asking you about your mom, and in doing so reminding you that you should get away from her and go on about your business. Surprisingly, at this point she's still entertaining you, to which you're again responding with shutting her up and continuing on about your strategy. Overall a very unpleasant and distasteful interaction, you're following the same patterns on Whatsapp so I'll refrain from commenting on that. Best of luck in your future approaches.

 

[Constantino]

i cant be bothered to listen to an audio. write a proper FR if you want detailed feedback. otherwise there are numerous texting guides both here and on GC.

what's GC?

 

[Constantino]

You are coming off extremely egotistical from the very beginning of your approach. It sounds as if you're not even maintaining eye contact as you speak, since your approach consists of regurgitating techniques you had learned but probably not deeply understood, as well as her commenting that you appear hyperactive. You cut her off every single time she laughed or tried commenting on something or asking a question, then continued with your weird volleyball and handball fashion talk. She was confused at first but willing to discuss it more deeply, your response to that was completely undermining the topic, briefly commenting on how she's "talking so much detail", which comes off more like an insult than a compliment, then changing the subject back to yourself. Your advice of her taking up improv was misplaced and authoritative rather than playfully suggestive. The way you invited compliance repeatedly over the course of the entire interaction was also authoritative and commanding rather than suggestive, which defeats compliance and makes it subordinance. The way you are trying to close is, again, authoritative and undermining of her. You are repeatedly cutting her off and continuing your strategy no matter what. Around the time you're exchanging phone numbers she is likely feeling bored, mildly scared and is just trying to get rid of you as soon as possible. You are coming off extremely weird and odious, constantly repeating her name and "darling", shutting her up while she's trying to get a single word out herself during the entire interaction. After interrupting her again, you halted your close to, again, make a disguised comment about yourself, then again undermined that and told her to give you her phone number. As she's, surprisingly, giving you her phone number, you are again rambling on about something weird and unimportant, to which she, irritatingly, responds by ignoring it. It's obvious at this point that the only thing she wants to do right now is to get away from you, evident by the fact she's asking you about your mom, and in doing so reminding you that you should get away from her and go on about your business. Surprisingly, at this point she's still entertaining you, to which you're again responding with shutting her up and continuing on about your strategy. Overall a very unpleasant and distasteful interaction, you're following the same patterns on Whatsapp so I'll refrain from commenting on that. Best of luck in your future approaches.

ok thanks... which one thing if i fixed would have the most impact ?

 

[Amadeus]

ok thanks... which one thing if i fixed would have the most impact ?

If I were you, I would take a step back and focus on making my interactions feel more natural and free-flowing, as well as paying attention to the girl and adapting my game according to the signals she's giving me. Blindly following a technique, like saying her name, inviting compliance and such, without understanding the way and context in which it is supposed to be used will never get you far. Seduction is an art and is supposed to adapt to the vessel like water, it's not a simple linear framework of rules and strategies to be followed.

 

[politepilot]

The good thing is you sound confident and masculine, your texts sound autistic af but your voice doesn’t sound too off to me lol. But you’re rude to her, criticizing her for trying to answer your weird volleyball question and not being witty enough? And then she changes the subject and you go back to your weird shit. But I would say she was into to you. So you could even text her again, and try to answer her questions instead of only doing improv comedy bro. Just text her saying sorry I’m on adderall and to answer your question, no I am a history major or something. And cut the Roman history crap. Ffs. At no point in the interaction was that an inside joke, in fact u don’t have an inside joke with her at all. That shit sounds so fucking nerdy to me, I mean my ex would’ve eaten that up, but that girl is not into it. If she’s an athlete try to talk about less nerdy shit. Did that even cross your mind? Nerd.

Listened to it again. Is the mom thing an artificial constraint? You come off as a liar bullshitter on drugs, weird that she asks what was your name again and you scolded her but she was right you already told her, ok so you have such a bad memory on that but you remember other weird details.

so, what is the cure for being a weirdo? Idk man.

get comfortable with boring small talk, maybe. It’s handy that you have all these quirky things to say but maybe just think normal/boring and try that vibe out. Balance it out a bit.

anyway, my conversations aren’t great either. I am gonna try to get a recording like you. You can then later transcribe it using otter.ai

 

[Constantino]

The good thing is you sound confident and masculine, your texts sound autistic af but your voice doesn’t sound too off to me lol. But you’re rude to her, criticizing her for trying to answer your weird volleyball question and not being witty enough? And then she changes the subject and you go back to your weird shit. But I would say she was into to you. So you could even text her again, and try to answer her questions instead of only doing improv comedy bro. Just text her saying sorry I’m on adderall and to answer your question, no I am a history major or something. And cut the Roman history crap. Ffs. At no point in the interaction was that an inside joke, in fact u don’t have an inside joke with her at all. That shit sounds so fucking nerdy to me, I mean my ex would’ve eaten that up, but that girl is not into it. If she’s an athlete try to talk about less nerdy shit. Did that even cross your mind? Nerd.

Listened to it again. Is the mom thing an artificial constraint? You come off as a liar bullshitter on drugs, weird that she asks what was your name again and you scolded her but she was right you already told her, ok so you have such a bad memory on that but you remember other weird details.

so, what is the cure for being a weirdo? Idk man.

get comfortable with boring small talk, maybe. It’s handy that you have all these quirky things to say but maybe just think normal/boring and try that vibe out. Balance it out a bit.

anyway, my conversations aren’t great either. I am gonna try to get a recording like you. You can then later transcribe it using otter.ai

ok man thanks too. What's your one thing in my interaction that if i fixed, would yield the biggest impact?

 

[politepilot]

ok man thanks too. What's your one thing in my interaction that if i fixed, would yield the biggest impact?

Go for the hard close

 

[Constantino]

Go for the hard close

what do you mean go for the hard close?

 

[politepilot]

what do you mean go for the hard close?

Ask for a date. Like you did soft close by saying we should hang out later but she wasn’t free and in the texts she’s asking you to state your intentions and you said something evasive. Girls chase article always be closing

 

[gameboy]

GC = girlschase.com, the "main site" belonging to this forum

 

[politepilot]

Hello, do you speak English? Hello, yes, I'm wondering why we don't know each other yet. Have to go meet my mom in two minutes to say hi,

because you have the No Come over

here, Lena, before I go forever.

My mom for dinner.

Thank you for your permission. We don't

need volleyball and handball mix.

Volleyball and handball mix. You look so volleyball mix, handball,

symmetrical. I think you're trying to say

more width in the clothes, you know, they're like, very square cut in so much detail.

Elena raised, you've actually, I've been to, I've lived in England for 12 years.

You need to do improv, because the detailed explanation every

everything is pointing towards that direction.

Yes, improve comedy, squaring your sweet, darling. I will meet later, because I really have to go and sleep. Text me later. Text me later, and we're gonna do something before you go. Elena, come here.

Said, you haven't got the bad guys I

have you look happier than you have a cyclotron. I'll do it professionally. Don't worry. I hate iPhones.

My mom is waiting

for me. Loss.

Actually, most

actually, you're

like on cocaine or something, excuse me, still not even three

o'clock.

Your iPhone, you will never text me after ring myself. You.

 

[AspiringStoic]

@Constantino

First of all props for not only approaching but posting the audio and the texts here for feedback. That takes a lot of courage and vulnerability. Congratulations on that!

In terms of feedback @Amadeus has given you some solid feedback. I agree with everything he has said. This interaction was botched during the approach. Maybe you had a slim chance of retrieving it on text and you botched that too.

But the main problem here is relatability. The girl just cant seem to relate to you, your energy, your words etc. Her commenting that you are on drugs perfectly illustrates that.

Slow down and calm down. You repeating her name that many times does not sound natural either. Also for some reason the meeting my mom thing also sounds weird for some reason. Say something like I gotta meet a friend. I dont think its a big problem but there is something about you saying it that gives off a mama's boy kind of feeling or I dont know just does not sound smooth.

Try to have a normal conversation and the number here did not mean much. Thats why I dont think you lost this one on text. Right from your opener, she was trying to get away and you were trying to pull her back in and somehow wrestled a number out of her.

So do more approaches and try to be more normal and less hyper like the girl mentioned. Speak slower. Calmer. More pauses.

 

[Constantino]

@Constantino

First of all props for not only approaching but posting the audio and the texts here for feedback. That takes a lot of courage and vulnerability. Congratulations on that!

In terms of feedback @Amadeus has given you some solid feedback. I agree with everything he has said. This interaction was botched during the approach. Maybe you had a slim chance of retrieving it on text and you botched that too.

But the main problem here is relatability. The girl just cant seem to relate to you, your energy, your words etc. Her commenting that you are on drugs perfectly illustrates that.

Slow down and calm down. You repeating her name that many times does not sound natural either. Also for some reason the meeting my mom thing also sounds weird for some reason. Say something like I gotta meet a friend. I dont think its a big problem but there is something about you saying it that gives off a mama's boy kind of feeling or I dont know just does not sound smooth.

Try to have a normal conversation and the number here did not mean much. Thats why I dont think you lost this one on text. Right from your opener, she was trying to get away and you were trying to pull her back in and somehow wrestled a number out of her.

So do more approaches and try to be more normal and less hyper like the girl mentioned. Speak slower. Calmer. More pauses.

alright man thanks