Very Upset After Valentines Day Flake

[Troy]

The BITCH flaked on me.

Im talking about the Aurora girl from here https://www.skilledseducer.com/thre...she-agreed-to-come-straight-to-my-home.25590/

Yesterday she texted me saying she aint got no money to come visit me. And at first I said "no I aint sending no money. I am buying the food and cooking. All you gotta do is show up".

But then she said she aint gonna come. So I thought about it. I know how much this girl makes so I thought to myself, let me just treat this as if I had a luxury car and I had to spend gas money to go pick her up.

So I sent $25 USD via bank transfer this morning.

The girl texted me back saying she gonna be there.

And how she gets off work at 6:30pm and it would take her 90 minutes to get to me. So I wait, give her time to shower and get dressed. And I know women can take long to get dressed.

But then I see her on Whatsapp every couple minutes. And I sent her messages remaining cool and calm.

Yo, I went as cheaply as possible and the food alone cost me $20. I can eat it all by myself on Valentines Day. But its gonna be one sad meal. I cooked:

mashed potatoes
fried plantains

bought:

a chicken steak with rice for $4 USD
and black forest cake for another $4 USD

I decided to try something different and I spent $11 buying scented candles. Since its been a long time since I brought a girl home, I thought I would be a good idea to ensure my bedroom spelt great. Now of course my room is cleaned every week. But I just wanted to make it smell a little more seductive.

All in all, I got the food ready. I took a shower. I messaged this BITCH and she texts back:

"Won't be able to make it. Sorry"

Thats it. She came back on Whatsapp a few times later.

Since I started writing this, she has been offline. So its one of the following I suspect:

1. She found another guy who had a bigger deal and she is busy fucking him as I write this.
2. She did not plan on going out with me in the first place. She just went along with it to get my $25 USD.
3. The very fact that she only said "Sorry" and did not offer to make it up to me, she is a cold blooded piece of walking shit.

I have had girls flake on me. But not to this level. This is some NEXT LEVEL SHIT.

And to top it off, for the past couple months, I have been going through a lot of struggles to get my career going in the right direction. SEE SHIT LIKE THIS IS WHY I STOPPED DATING FOR A WHILE. WOMEN CARE ZERO FUCKS ABOUT MEN.

And I got tired of it and I invested my money into my FINANCIAL SKILLS instead of cold approaching, texting women and all that other stuff. I honestly did not see the value in dating women if they are so cold blooded.

All in all guys, it was great being here over the past couple of years.

As soon as tomorrow morning comes, I will be heading to the hardware to buy a rope and plan a way to kill myself. I am fed up of feeling like a complete loser in life. I am:

1. Not in the best of health
2. Not making anywhere the kind of money I need to live a decent life
3. Living with my parents at age 25 almost 26
4. Got no one to mentor or help me through problems in real life
5. I just dont think my family gives a shit about my future success and dreams
6. My love life sucks
7. I am constantly in depression. And the ONLY reason I am alive today is because I put women on a back burner for quite some time and spent that time working on getting MONEY.

But after all I have been through the past few months regarding finances:

1. People promising to give me jobs and not even sending a decline email
2. Treating me like I am trash when all I really want to do is provide value to others and live a decent life.

And I am not getting it. So I might as well be DEAD.

In the morning I will make my way to the hardware and start planning a way to commit the cleanest suicide possible. It was great talking to some of you guys on here. See you on the other side of the fence!

Troy

 

[mist]

The BITCH flaked on me.

Im talking about the Aurora girl from here https://www.skilledseducer.com/thre...she-agreed-to-come-straight-to-my-home.25590/

Yesterday she texted me saying she aint got no money to come visit me. And at first I said "no I aint sending no money. I am buying the food and cooking. All you gotta do is show up".

But then she said she aint gonna come. So I thought about it. I know how much this girl makes so I thought to myself, let me just treat this as if I had a luxury car and I had to spend gas money to go pick her up.

So I sent $25 USD via bank transfer this morning.

The girl texted me back saying she gonna be there.

And how she gets off work at 6:30pm and it would take her 90 minutes to get to me. So I wait, give her time to shower and get dressed. And I know women can take long to get dressed.

But then I see her on Whatsapp every couple minutes. And I sent her messages remaining cool and calm.

Yo, I went as cheaply as possible and the food alone cost me $20. I can eat it all by myself on Valentines Day. But its gonna be one sad meal. I cooked:

mashed potatoes
fried plantains

bought:

a chicken steak with rice for $4 USD
and black forest cake for another $4 USD

I decided to try something different and I spent $11 buying scented candles. Since its been a long time since I brought a girl home, I thought I would be a good idea to ensure my bedroom spelt great. Now of course my room is cleaned every week. But I just wanted to make it smell a little more seductive.

All in all, I got the food ready. I took a shower. I messaged this BITCH and she texts back:

"Won't be able to make it. Sorry"

Thats it. She came back on Whatsapp a few times later.

Since I started writing this, she has been offline. So its one of the following I suspect:

1. She found another guy who had a bigger deal and she is busy fucking him as I write this.
2. She did not plan on going out with me in the first place. She just went along with it to get my $25 USD.
3. The very fact that she only said "Sorry" and did not offer to make it up to me, she is a cold blooded piece of walking shit.

I have had girls flake on me. But not to this level. This is some NEXT LEVEL SHIT.

And to top it off, for the past couple months, I have been going through a lot of struggles to get my career going in the right direction. SEE SHIT LIKE THIS IS WHY I STOPPED DATING FOR A WHILE. WOMEN CARE ZERO FUCKS ABOUT MEN.

And I got tired of it and I invested my money into my FINANCIAL SKILLS instead of cold approaching, texting women and all that other stuff. I honestly did not see the value in dating women if they are so cold blooded.

All in all guys, it was great being here over the past couple of years.

As soon as tomorrow morning comes, I will be heading to the hardware to buy a rope and plan a way to kill myself. I am fed up of feeling like a complete loser in life. I am:

1. Not in the best of health
2. Not making anywhere the kind of money I need to live a decent life
3. Living with my parents at age 25 almost 26
4. Got no one to mentor or help me through problems in real life
5. I just dont think my family gives a shit about my future success and dreams
6. My love life sucks
7. I am constantly in depression. And the ONLY reason I am alive today is because I put women on a back burner for quite some time and spent that time working on getting MONEY.

But after all I have been through the past few months regarding finances:

1. People promising to give me jobs and not even sending a decline email
2. Treating me like I am trash when all I really want to do is provide value to others and live a decent life.

And I am not getting it. So I might as well be DEAD.

In the morning I will make my way to the hardware and start planning a way to commit the cleanest suicide possible. It was great talking to some of you guys on here. See you on the other side of the fence!

Troy

I don’t think anyone here is qualified to really help you like you need currently.

We’re learning game/self improvement. Not trained therapists and specialists.

You do need help.

Not going to say much further as this is a pretty big emotional decision you are making.

But I’m rooting that you don’t die tomorrow at age 25. You have yet to see the peaks alongside the valleys. You have yet to see, feel, hear, experience so many things.

I will refrain from saying anything more in this thread though. I’m just a kid trying to get pussy.

Good luck to you Troy. It was cool talking to you too man.

 

[Train]

Sorry to hear things are going rough for you Troy.

I know how hurtful it can be to get flaked on like that especially when you've put your best foot forward and done everything right.

And how demotivating it can be to have a string of bad occurrences especially when you've felt you've given all you can.

I'd just suggest to hold off on your decision even if by a day. Find someone who will listen to you and support you. There's hotlines and groups who are dedicated to support people whenever they feel like you're feeling currently.

I've contemplated similar thoughts years ago during a bad period of my time. I also felt there was no way I could go on. But now I'm glad I didn't go that route.

 

[Skills]

The BITCH flaked on me.

Im talking about the Aurora girl from here https://www.skilledseducer.com/thre...she-agreed-to-come-straight-to-my-home.25590/

Yesterday she texted me saying she aint got no money to come visit me. And at first I said "no I aint sending no money. I am buying the food and cooking. All you gotta do is show up".

But then she said she aint gonna come. So I thought about it. I know how much this girl makes so I thought to myself, let me just treat this as if I had a luxury car and I had to spend gas money to go pick her up.

So I sent $25 USD via bank transfer this morning.

The girl texted me back saying she gonna be there.

And how she gets off work at 6:30pm and it would take her 90 minutes to get to me. So I wait, give her time to shower and get dressed. And I know women can take long to get dressed.

But then I see her on Whatsapp every couple minutes. And I sent her messages remaining cool and calm.

Yo, I went as cheaply as possible and the food alone cost me $20. I can eat it all by myself on Valentines Day. But its gonna be one sad meal. I cooked:

mashed potatoes
fried plantains

bought:

a chicken steak with rice for $4 USD
and black forest cake for another $4 USD

I decided to try something different and I spent $11 buying scented candles. Since its been a long time since I brought a girl home, I thought I would be a good idea to ensure my bedroom spelt great. Now of course my room is cleaned every week. But I just wanted to make it smell a little more seductive.

All in all, I got the food ready. I took a shower. I messaged this BITCH and she texts back:

"Won't be able to make it. Sorry"

Thats it. She came back on Whatsapp a few times later.

Since I started writing this, she has been offline. So its one of the following I suspect:

1. She found another guy who had a bigger deal and she is busy fucking him as I write this.
2. She did not plan on going out with me in the first place. She just went along with it to get my $25 USD.
3. The very fact that she only said "Sorry" and did not offer to make it up to me, she is a cold blooded piece of walking shit.

I have had girls flake on me. But not to this level. This is some NEXT LEVEL SHIT.

And to top it off, for the past couple months, I have been going through a lot of struggles to get my career going in the right direction. SEE SHIT LIKE THIS IS WHY I STOPPED DATING FOR A WHILE. WOMEN CARE ZERO FUCKS ABOUT MEN.

And I got tired of it and I invested my money into my FINANCIAL SKILLS instead of cold approaching, texting women and all that other stuff. I honestly did not see the value in dating women if they are so cold blooded.

All in all guys, it was great being here over the past couple of years.

As soon as tomorrow morning comes, I will be heading to the hardware to buy a rope and plan a way to kill myself. I am fed up of feeling like a complete loser in life. I am:

1. Not in the best of health
2. Not making anywhere the kind of money I need to live a decent life
3. Living with my parents at age 25 almost 26
4. Got no one to mentor or help me through problems in real life
5. I just dont think my family gives a shit about my future success and dreams
6. My love life sucks
7. I am constantly in depression. And the ONLY reason I am alive today is because I put women on a back burner for quite some time and spent that time working on getting MONEY.

But after all I have been through the past few months regarding finances:

1. People promising to give me jobs and not even sending a decline email
2. Treating me like I am trash when all I really want to do is provide value to others and live a decent life.

And I am not getting it. So I might as well be DEAD.

In the morning I will make my way to the hardware and start planning a way to commit the cleanest suicide possible. It was great talking to some of you guys on here. See you on the other side of the fence!

Troy

All the 7 things, plus the girl flaking on you... Are things in your control... You have potential... But YOU made a million mistakes to cause the flake.... Specially sending her money wtf...

4.- you have dozens of guys like me mentoring you for free... wtf you talking about??

 

[Will_V]

The BITCH flaked on me.

Im talking about the Aurora girl from here https://www.skilledseducer.com/thre...she-agreed-to-come-straight-to-my-home.25590/

Yesterday she texted me saying she aint got no money to come visit me. And at first I said "no I aint sending no money. I am buying the food and cooking. All you gotta do is show up".

But then she said she aint gonna come. So I thought about it. I know how much this girl makes so I thought to myself, let me just treat this as if I had a luxury car and I had to spend gas money to go pick her up.

So I sent $25 USD via bank transfer this morning.

The girl texted me back saying she gonna be there.

And how she gets off work at 6:30pm and it would take her 90 minutes to get to me. So I wait, give her time to shower and get dressed. And I know women can take long to get dressed.

But then I see her on Whatsapp every couple minutes. And I sent her messages remaining cool and calm.

Yo, I went as cheaply as possible and the food alone cost me $20. I can eat it all by myself on Valentines Day. But its gonna be one sad meal. I cooked:

mashed potatoes
fried plantains

bought:

a chicken steak with rice for $4 USD
and black forest cake for another $4 USD

I decided to try something different and I spent $11 buying scented candles. Since its been a long time since I brought a girl home, I thought I would be a good idea to ensure my bedroom spelt great. Now of course my room is cleaned every week. But I just wanted to make it smell a little more seductive.

All in all, I got the food ready. I took a shower. I messaged this BITCH and she texts back:

"Won't be able to make it. Sorry"

Thats it. She came back on Whatsapp a few times later.

Since I started writing this, she has been offline. So its one of the following I suspect:

1. She found another guy who had a bigger deal and she is busy fucking him as I write this.
2. She did not plan on going out with me in the first place. She just went along with it to get my $25 USD.
3. The very fact that she only said "Sorry" and did not offer to make it up to me, she is a cold blooded piece of walking shit.

I have had girls flake on me. But not to this level. This is some NEXT LEVEL SHIT.

And to top it off, for the past couple months, I have been going through a lot of struggles to get my career going in the right direction. SEE SHIT LIKE THIS IS WHY I STOPPED DATING FOR A WHILE. WOMEN CARE ZERO FUCKS ABOUT MEN.

And I got tired of it and I invested my money into my FINANCIAL SKILLS instead of cold approaching, texting women and all that other stuff. I honestly did not see the value in dating women if they are so cold blooded.

All in all guys, it was great being here over the past couple of years.

As soon as tomorrow morning comes, I will be heading to the hardware to buy a rope and plan a way to kill myself. I am fed up of feeling like a complete loser in life. I am:

1. Not in the best of health
2. Not making anywhere the kind of money I need to live a decent life
3. Living with my parents at age 25 almost 26
4. Got no one to mentor or help me through problems in real life
5. I just dont think my family gives a shit about my future success and dreams
6. My love life sucks
7. I am constantly in depression. And the ONLY reason I am alive today is because I put women on a back burner for quite some time and spent that time working on getting MONEY.

But after all I have been through the past few months regarding finances:

1. People promising to give me jobs and not even sending a decline email
2. Treating me like I am trash when all I really want to do is provide value to others and live a decent life.

And I am not getting it. So I might as well be DEAD.

In the morning I will make my way to the hardware and start planning a way to commit the cleanest suicide possible. It was great talking to some of you guys on here. See you on the other side of the fence!

Troy

Go and see a therapist or talk to someone you know well, give them a chance to help you figure things out.

Dude, this is just a girl, she's a nobody, she can't invalidate all the hard work you've done on yourself getting this far in life. You've obviously made progress on your goals already, you've already shown that you can change your circumstances. This mission of improving yourself is way, way above any validation that anyone can give you.

You are still young, believe me. I just turned 33 and only recently getting my life really in order. Neglected some important things for many years. In only a couple of years, with dedication and consistency, you can end up in a place where you have self-satisfaction, success, and an iron will that no one can defeat.

It's a mistake to allow women into your life emotionally when you are at a low point. The reason is that they don't know your pain and struggles, they have the instinct to vet and test men, which is fine because they need to rely on these men to be strong when they are weak. When you are strong, these tests/challenges are easy and even satisfying to overcome. But when you are weak, it's another painful burden on what you're already carrying. So throw it off and focus on becoming strong and successful, satisfied with yourself in your own right, and then interacting with women (as well as family, friends, employers, and everyone you come across) will become much easier to do.

I've had some pretty bad moments in my life, I've been depressed and unable to live with myself. In these times I have found one thing that gives me all my strength back, and then some, and it's this: if I'm going out, I'm going out fighting. One day it's going to be all over, regardless, and in the space of time that I have left, however long that is, I'm going to express myself into the world by whatever means I have at my disposal. Opposition may overcome me, but it won't make me defeat myself. If life is finite, and one day I have to hang up my boots anyway, what else could be a more powerful validation of myself?

Give yourself the chance to reach your own potential, to reach toward the things you've aspired to, to live out your dreams. If it doesn't happen it doesn't happen, but at least you spent everything trying and never accepted defeat. That's a life worthy of living every day, whatever the outcome.

 

[Chase]

@Troy,

1. You need to be cold approaching at least 15 women a week. Not getting oneitis for a chick from work
   
   
2. You need to never send money to a woman again until your dick's been in her 3+ times
   
   
3. You need to not ever again plan a massive, hoped-for event with a woman you haven't had your dick in 3+ times
   
   
4. You need to go get a job working for a company that does what you want to learn (easy way) rather than starting your own agency as a first step (super super impossibly hard way)

There is a pattern in your life where you dramatically over-invest in the wrong things. Taking a bunch of certification classes for digital marketing instead of getting a job working for a digital marketer for instance (I know plenty of guys who started out working for marketing companies and now after years or decades of that make hundreds or thousands of dollars an hour; I don't know any who started out getting certifications... if they got any, they only got them after already developing the skillset and making gobs of money with it, just as a little extra 2% bonus to their hirability, for the handful of mega corps that care about things like that). Or over-investing in some chick.

You should never be emotionally invested in anything until that thing is yours. In the case of women, it's when your dick goes in them 3+ times. Then you can emotionally invest if you want. With work it's once you've already got the job doing it, and you are doing decently at it, and making money with it -- then you can start branding yourself with the identity of "I am an X" if you want to and thinking about yourself that way.

I'm going to change the title on this thread so it's not so wild.

When you're ready to start posting again, please very carefully read the sticky on Board Etiquette first:

STICKIED: Board Etiquette

Quick announcement, fellas -- It's come to my attention that in the past few months that I haven't been on here as much, there's been a rise in pessimism / psychic vampirism going on here. Scanning back through some of the more recent posts, I'm seeing some of this, and it does not make me...

www.skilledseducer.com

Chase

 

[Troy]

@Troy,

1. You need to be cold approaching at least 15 women a week. Not getting oneitis for a chick from work
   
   
2. You need to never send money to a woman again until your dick's been in her 3+ times
   
   
3. You need to not ever again plan a massive, hoped-for event with a woman you haven't had your dick in 3+ times
   
   
4. You need to go get a job working for a company that does what you want to learn (easy way) rather than starting your own agency as a first step (super super impossibly hard way)

There is a pattern in your life where you dramatically over-invest in the wrong things. Taking a bunch of certification classes for digital marketing instead of getting a job working for a digital marketer for instance (I know plenty of guys who started out working for marketing companies and now after years or decades of that make hundreds or thousands of dollars an hour; I don't know any who started out getting certifications... if they got any, they only got them after already developing the skillset and making gobs of money with it, just as a little extra 2% bonus to their hirability, for the handful of mega corps that care about things like that). Or over-investing in some chick.

You should never be emotionally invested in anything until that thing is yours. In the case of women, it's when your dick goes in them 3+ times. Then you can emotionally invest if you want. With work it's once you've already got the job doing it, and you are doing decently at it, and making money with it -- then you can start branding yourself with the identity of "I am an X" if you want to and thinking about yourself that way.

I'm going to change the title on this thread so it's not so wild.

When you're ready to start posting again, please very carefully read the sticky on Board Etiquette first:

STICKIED: Board Etiquette

Quick announcement, fellas -- It's come to my attention that in the past few months that I haven't been on here as much, there's been a rise in pessimism / psychic vampirism going on here. Scanning back through some of the more recent posts, I'm seeing some of this, and it does not make me...

www.skilledseducer.com

Chase

Yeah well its easy to say that. In the past 3 years, I have sent out anywhere from 200 - 600 resumes to:

marketing agencies
sales jobs
hardwares
car dealerships
content creators
copywriters
etc.

Heck, even my own boss. I will go there. My full time job is in dental insurance. And even my own fucking boss sees that I got certified in sales, and I am making an effort.

And even my boss who I have been with the same company for 3 years wont give me an opportunity to sell insurance. They want me to stay in the same department.

Last time you replied to my conversation Chase, you recommend I go work for these insurance companies. Well right now I do customer service for them. And even they wont move me to the sales department so I can make serious money.

So right now, I am through with this. I am through with life. All I want is an opportunity.

You know what hurts even more? Sitting down to write 200 + resumes. I even hired a resume personnel. And they recommended I get additional education. Everything I try, I get rejected.

And you know what makes it worse, these fucking HR managers decline my application and dont even give me feedback as to why. So I never end up learning anything.

And over the years I just got fed up of putting in the effort. I sat through interviews taking 4 hour exams and skill quizzes. Only to be IGNORED when I call the company. Every HR personnel smiles in my face (if I do manage to get an interview. I can tell when people are not being honest. They just start ignoring me.

So what am I supposed to do? I dont make enough to date. I feel stuck because no one will even acknowledge the fact that "this guy is qualitifed. Chase you may know people who started out working at these companies with no experience.

But what I face is different.

Its the chicken or the egg first.

No one will hire me so I can get the experience. And because I dont have the experience, I dont fit the criteria to even pass the screening in the first place"..

Fuck life at this point. I am going to the hardware to get those ropes tomorrow and end this.

 

[Starboy]

Yeah well its easy to say that. 3 years ago, I sent out close to 200 resumes to:

marketing agencies
sales jobs
hardwares
car dealerships

Heck, even my own boss. I will go there. My full time job is in dental insurance. And even my own fucking boss sees that I got certified in sales, and I am making an effort.

And even my boss who I have been with the same company for 3 years wont give me an opportunity to sell insurance. They want me to stay in the same department.

Last time you replied to my conversation Chase, you recommend I go work for these insurance companies. Well right now I do customer service for them. And even they wont move me to the sales department so I can make serious money.

So right now, I am through with this. I am through with life. All I want is an opportunity.

You know what hurts even more? Sitting down to write 200 + resumes. I even hired a resume personnel. And they recommended I get additional education. Everything I try, I get rejected.

And you know what makes it worse, these fucking HR managers decline my application and dont even give me feedback as to why. So I never end up learning anything.

And over the years I just got fed up of putting in the effort. I sat through interviews taking 4 hour exams and skill quizzes. Only to be IGNORED when I call the company. Every HR personnel smiles in my face (if I do manage to get an interview. I can tell when people are not being honest. They just start ignoring me.

So what am I supposed to do? I dont make enough to date. I feel stuck because no one will even acknowledge the fact that "this guy is qualitifed. Chase you may know people who started out working at these companies with no experience.

But what I face is different.

Its the chicken or the egg first.

No one will hire me so I can get the experience. And because I dont have the experience, I dont fit the criteria to even pass the screening in the first place"..

Fuck life at this point. I am going to the hardware to get those ropes tomorrow and end this.

So you wanna end your life cuz your struggling to get a job in the career you want? Dude i've gotten my applications declined so many times for the positions i've wanted even though I have a degree and solid experience. My friend got a degree in marketing,but for years he worked in the same retail job as me because he couldn't get a job in that field. He told me it's really difficult to get in is because what he learned from a mentor is that minority groups are rarely hired to do marketing our city so it's a difficult barrier to overcome.

What finally changed it for him is joining this online mentorship where they'd host zoom meetings 3 to 4 days out the week for he and others pursuing a career in marketing. had meetings/training or something the details are kinda fuzzy. Eventually he got a break and got a interview with a hiring recruiter and he interviewed 4 people in total and finally got the job! It was a lot of frustration for him and they out him through the ringer for him to get the position.Your field is a difficult one it's not totally your fault. Try it out look for a online group that can mentor you in marketing and help give you opportunities to link up with recruiters so u don't have to rely on having ur resume win the lotto out of hundreds to thousands.

Fuck the noose bro life has so many rewards available even if you think they're impossible they aren't. Do not give up on a career and improved dating life.

 

[Troy]

What is the process to delete my account? I have been to therapy before and they could not help me. I have literally tried everything to the point I am debt trying to get help.

I was in the hospital in 2020 for suicide. But now I am deadass serious. Im a loser. Thats really what it is. This time I am doing it for sure. A moderator, please give me the instructions on how to delete my account. I wont need it after I am gone.

 

[Rakehell]

Eat some good food, call a good friend, watch a great movie, order some dessert, hit the gym, drink some water, go for a walk, take in some air. In 3 days you’ll feel dumb for even writing all of this nonsense.

One girl you’ve never even fucked is hardly the straw that broke the camel’s back. We realize you’re upset but you’ve gotta stop feeling sorry for yourself long enough to absorb what everyone is telling you. Read the responses really thoroughly before you respond.

 

[trashKENNUT]

I only ask one thing.

 

[climbingup]

What is the process to delete my account? I have been to therapy before and they could not help me. I have literally tried everything to the point I am debt trying to get help.

I was in the hospital in 2020 for suicide. But now I am deadass serious. Im a loser. Thats really what it is. This time I am doing it for sure. A moderator, please give me the instructions on how to delete my account. I wont need it after I am gone.

Please friend don't do it

You are 26, you have your while life ahead of you. Just take things one step at a time, you'll see life will change for the better.

Your life can improve!

 

[Chase]

@Troy,

No one will hire me so I can get the experience. And because I dont have the experience, I dont fit the criteria to even pass the screening in the first place"..

I understand the “no one will give me a chance and a chance is the one thing I need” mentality; I repeated that mantra plenty of times when I was struggling with the same thing. It’s frustrating.

That said — 600 online applications? Why? You realize NOBODY gets hired through those things, right?

I was on unemployment for a while and desired to stay on it while I learned entrepreneurship. The one requirement for it was that you had to apply for 10 jobs a week and list everywhere you had. I thought “Great! I can do that for two years and I’ll never get hired — I’ll get the full two years of unemployment!” So every week I sent my résumé out to 10 jobs I was 100% qualified for, based on my four years of professional experience and 10 total years of working. 10 applications a week x 104 weeks = 1040 jobs applied to. I NEVER got invited to an interview.

I was qualified for every single one of those jobs I applied to. As an experiment sometimes I even tailored the applications to the job and did all the keyword stuffing and whatnot you’re supposed to do. Never heard back from any of them.

This is what I’m talking about, you throwing tons of hard work and energy into all the wrong places.

Read The Millionaire Fastlane, man. It’s all about this, living life in the slow lane.

Applying to jobs online is the slow lane.

Pinning all your hopes on a girl from work is the slow lane.

And even my boss who I have been with the same company for 3 years wont give me an opportunity to sell insurance. They want me to stay in the same department.

Last time you replied to my conversation Chase, you recommend I go work for these insurance companies. Well right now I do customer service for them. And even they wont move me to the sales department so I can make serious money.

Why do you want to be a salesman? How did this get into your head?

I’ve never heard of a salesman who cannot sell himself. Further of one who is content to sit around for three years hoping for an opportunity. These are the opposite traits of a salesman.

I’m not knocking you. I’m saying it sounds like you are barking up the wrong tree.

If you really want to do sales, you need to behave LIKE a salesman and SELL yourself.

• A salesman doesn’t stay at the same dead-end job for three years.
• A salesman doesn’t take “no” for an answer.
• A salesman will FIND an opportunity to get what he wants.

Why aren’t you knocking on the door of every small mom and pop shop in town and seeing if they need help at the front desk? Then once you have experience there moving into commissioned sales in a retail sales environment? If you can sell watches or jewelry or appliances or tires or used cars you’ll be able to get hired into any insurance sales division in your country. I guarantee you ONE of those places is hiring.

Every bit of activity you are expending is in the wrong direction. Of course you’re not getting results.

Cold approach women.

Knock on doors for jobs.

Stop sending out applications. Stop waiting around forever in a job that won’t move you up. Stop taking certification courses. Stop pining for a single random girl you have no guarantee to get.

Chase

 

[Troy]

Update!

I just got back from the police station. I spoke with a female police officer and showed her all the messages and calls I made to Aurora. The police officer then called 2 male police officers who also analyzed the situation.

The result is a win. This BITCH will be charged for the following crimes:

1. Defamation of Trickery

In my country, to take money from another person, even personal and not deliver on that promise, there can be a criminal charge. This will go down in the books. I made sure to tell the female police officer to go to the full extent of the law.

HOLD THEM BITCHES ACCOUNTABLE!!!

Takeaway from my visit to the police station, yes gentlemen, you may be able to file criminal charges against women who flake on you. Just check your local laws on the specifics.

2. Defamation of Character

If Aurora attempts to slander my name in anyway. Or tell other females to avoid me. Or spread rumors, she will also be charged for defamation of character which is a very expensive crime.

I AM TAKING THIS SHIT TO THE FULLEST EXTENT OF THE LAW!!!

Just imagine, this chick be even laughing over it. The female officer called her and Aurora had the nerve to say

"lol it is just $25. What kind of man is this. It is not a lot of money".

Basically 3 police officers listened to the phone call and all of them agreed that she took this for a joke. On top of that, she lied to the officer that she did not block me on Whatsapp or my phone calls.

And even the police officers could see it was pure CAP! BIG CAP!

This is a win for me. I am getting my money back. I ate all the food last night. And I gave Aurora a verbal warning via Whatsapp as she unblocked me under the pressure.

Also the police officer took her full name, address, phone number, bank details and other info. So if she tries anything, she will face either monetary charges or time in jail.

HOLD THEM ACCOUNTABLE WHEN THEY CHEAT AND YOUR LOCAL LAWS SAYS YOU CAN PRESS CHARGES.

The next time she is thinking to run game on another man, she will think twice.

 

[trashKENNUT]

I don't blame you at all.

If it makes you feel better, because mentally you don't have options, that's what you have to do.

z@c+

 

[Skills]

Update!

I just got back from the police station. I spoke with a female police officer and showed her all the messages and calls I made to Aurora. The police officer then called 2 male police officers who also analyzed the situation.

The result is a win. This BITCH will be charged for the following crimes:

1. Defamation of Trickery

In my country, to take money from another person, even personal and not deliver on that promise, there can be a criminal charge. This will go down in the books. I made sure to tell the female police officer to go to the full extent of the law.

HOLD THEM BITCHES ACCOUNTABLE!!!

Takeaway from my visit to the police station, yes gentlemen, you may be able to file criminal charges against women who flake on you. Just check your local laws on the specifics.

2. Defamation of Character

If Aurora attempts to slander my name in anyway. Or tell other females to avoid me. Or spread rumors, she will also be charged for defamation of character which is a very expensive crime.

I AM TAKING THIS SHIT TO THE FULLEST EXTENT OF THE LAW!!!

Just imagine, this chick be even laughing over it. The female officer called her and Aurora had the nerve to say

"lol it is just $25. What kind of man is this. It is not a lot of money".

Basically 3 police officers listened to the phone call and all of them agreed that she took this for a joke. On top of that, she lied to the officer that she did not block me on Whatsapp or my phone calls.

And even the police officers could see it was pure CAP! BIG CAP!

This is a win for me. I am getting my money back. I ate all the food last night. And I gave Aurora a verbal warning via Whatsapp as she unblocked me under the pressure.

Also the police officer took her full name, address, phone number, bank details and other info. So if she tries anything, she will face either monetary charges or time in jail.

HOLD THEM ACCOUNTABLE WHEN THEY CHEAT AND YOUR LOCAL LAWS SAYS YOU CAN PRESS CHARGES.

The next time she is thinking to run game on another man, she will think twice.

embarrassing! i would have giving you the $25 in order not to rid this pathetic block of text....... Next time just ask me i will give you the money

 

[Troy]

embarrassing! i would have giving you the $25 in order not to rid this pathetic block of text....... Next time just ask me i will give you the money

Pathetic? Dude females have too much leway that they get to treat men anyway they feel like. This is why women on social media can get 10k likes from random dudes and think they better than other people.

If you keep this mindset, the game will only get worse. This girl did not even have the courtesy to share why she could not make it. And she was on Whatsapp talking to other people. She even ignored my calls.

Do you know how much effort it took for me to cook and set up the place? Come on man!

By the way $25 is not the problem. A low lack of respect that women have for men is the problem! Thats why I reported it.

 

[Teevster]

Damn the police in your country doesn't have much to do I can tell.

 

[topcat]

Damn the police in your country doesn't have much to do I can tell.

lol if you knew what country it was, you know they have their hands very full!

I am surprised they followed through with it though

 

[Will_V]

Update!

I just got back from the police station. I spoke with a female police officer and showed her all the messages and calls I made to Aurora. The police officer then called 2 male police officers who also analyzed the situation.

The result is a win. This BITCH will be charged for the following crimes:

1. Defamation of Trickery

In my country, to take money from another person, even personal and not deliver on that promise, there can be a criminal charge. This will go down in the books. I made sure to tell the female police officer to go to the full extent of the law.

HOLD THEM BITCHES ACCOUNTABLE!!!

Takeaway from my visit to the police station, yes gentlemen, you may be able to file criminal charges against women who flake on you. Just check your local laws on the specifics.

2. Defamation of Character

If Aurora attempts to slander my name in anyway. Or tell other females to avoid me. Or spread rumors, she will also be charged for defamation of character which is a very expensive crime.

I AM TAKING THIS SHIT TO THE FULLEST EXTENT OF THE LAW!!!

Just imagine, this chick be even laughing over it. The female officer called her and Aurora had the nerve to say

"lol it is just $25. What kind of man is this. It is not a lot of money".

Basically 3 police officers listened to the phone call and all of them agreed that she took this for a joke. On top of that, she lied to the officer that she did not block me on Whatsapp or my phone calls.

And even the police officers could see it was pure CAP! BIG CAP!

This is a win for me. I am getting my money back. I ate all the food last night. And I gave Aurora a verbal warning via Whatsapp as she unblocked me under the pressure.

Also the police officer took her full name, address, phone number, bank details and other info. So if she tries anything, she will face either monetary charges or time in jail.

HOLD THEM ACCOUNTABLE WHEN THEY CHEAT AND YOUR LOCAL LAWS SAYS YOU CAN PRESS CHARGES.

The next time she is thinking to run game on another man, she will think twice.

Seriously dude, if $25 is enough to cause you this much misery, it's time to reassess your priorities. That's half an hour of work you could have done instead.

If you didn't have that to spare, why would you send it to a girl to get her to come over?

Fact is, you're not angry about the money, you're angry because she made you do stuff you knew was dumb and desperate, and then bailed on you. And going after women for pocket money won't help you fix those problems and put yourself in a good mindset going forward.