Hoping this can help guys keep themselves out of situations like this.
NJ, this post came at a really good time for me, thanks. Spooky coincidence, just had a girl personally attack me for the first time over text today! Met her in kick-boxing today and asked her out for coffee this weekend. She's a book worm allright, a registered nurse (RN) workaholic. However, the texts came before the first date, yikes!
Me (5pm): ice breaker text
Girl (515pm): sexual text
Me: *No response b/c I'm driving*
Girl (530pm): apologizes for her sexual message
Me: *No response b/c I'm still driving*
Girl (6pm): tells me her life story and why she's shy, ect. in two big texts
Me: *No response b/c I'm curious* LOL!
Girl (730pm): Racially rips on me plus says I was probably a dumb blonde
Me: *No response* NEXT
They need to "lose" several guys by going overboard (just like WE lose tens to hundreds of women learning THIS stuff when we go overboard) before they get their heads on straight. Because if you capitulate and let them have their way when they go "crazy," they'll associate going crazy with getting what they want.
Can't believe 10 months ago I was going overboard by being the crazy one and revealing personal info over text. This really puts both sides in perspective!