What does she like about men? Ask her.

[D. Gately]

On a first date, one of my getting-to-know-you questions is, 'What do you like about men?'

I thought this could be a fun/helpful thread. The last girl I picked up, a petite college girl, said what she noticed/liked about men was their:
1) Eyes
2) Smile
3) Hands.

I would say when I ask this Smile comes up the most, but you may be surprised at the different answers you get. If you ask a new girl, i.e. someone who doesn't know you already and may 'code' their answers to be specific to you, post the results here.

Obviously, if you are good at the attributes she mentions she's giving you a big green light [even if subconscious on her part].

If you don't have a winning smile, practice every day until you do.

 

[JasonH]

On a first date, one of my getting-to-know-you questions is, 'What do you like about men?'

I thought this could be a fun/helpful thread. The last girl I picked up, a petite college girl, said what she noticed/liked about men was their:
1) Eyes
2) Smile
3) Hands.

I would say when I ask this Smile comes up the most, but you may be surprised at the different answers you get. If you ask a new girl, i.e. someone who doesn't know you already and may 'code' their answers to be specific to you, post the results here.

Obviously, if you are good at the attributes she mentions she's giving you a big green light [even if subconscious on her part].

If you don't have a winning smile, practice every day until you do.

Great question! Yes similar responses:

1. Smile
2. Hands/forearms/arms
3. Energy/Vibe or sense of confidence, how genuine they are

 

[D. Gately]

It's amazing how many times I've asked this question and never gotten one response of 'money,' or 'huge pecs,' or 'ripped,' and almost never 'tall.'

Hands/fingers come up a surprising amount, at least to me.

 

[Will_V]

It's amazing how many times I've asked this question and never gotten one response of 'money,' or 'huge pecs,' or 'ripped,' and almost never 'tall.'

Hands/fingers come up a surprising amount, at least to me.

One time I asked a girl if she'd ever got really wet out in public. She said one time she was walking by a river and a rowing team went past, and the way they were moving messed her up.

I've heard it said that women notice your extremities first - hands, feet, etc, and then move toward the center. Those extremities are the parts of you that move and effect the world around you. And I've had women fixate on my hands, for example we might be spooning and she'll suddenly grab my hand and examine it, make some random comment about it.

All this suggests to me that a woman is mesmerized by whatever aspects of a man have immediate potential to effect his environment (including her) - his intent, his motion, the feet that move him toward the objects of his attention, and the hands that grasp and manipulate the world around him.