Seems a common piece of advice is to be "be busy", which portrays you as high value, makes you care less if a girl flakes etc.
However, what if you are introverted/sensitive (me) and it doesn't feel good for you to be busy and socializing all the time? I have limited energy for socializing and have actually had dates go south because I did too much earlier and didn't have the energy for it.
Don't get me wrong, when someone (especially a girl) asks me what I have planned for the weekend and I don't have shit planned, I can feel that it doesn't feel high value to say "not much". So I'm wondering, is there a good approach to this for sensitive/chill/introverted guys who feel better when they aren't very busy?
However, what if you are introverted/sensitive (me) and it doesn't feel good for you to be busy and socializing all the time? I have limited energy for socializing and have actually had dates go south because I did too much earlier and didn't have the energy for it.
Don't get me wrong, when someone (especially a girl) asks me what I have planned for the weekend and I don't have shit planned, I can feel that it doesn't feel high value to say "not much". So I'm wondering, is there a good approach to this for sensitive/chill/introverted guys who feel better when they aren't very busy?