The background story is this usually to overcome my approach anxiety l drink commercial komboucha ginger drink and mouthwash which boost my energy and confidence levels without being too drowsy like alcohol does. But problem is today l got caught when l sort of cold approached a student nurse at her residence. I once saw her when l rushing late to work and she was coming back home so l managed to see where she lives. Yesterday after drinking this komboucha l got ballsy, went to her residence, apparently a lot of student nurses rent there so another chick came out when l knocked and then l described to her the person l was looking for and she called her. She was receptive to me but surprisingly before l could manage to snatch her contact info she told me come back again when l am sober and l asked how she knew l was drunk. She told me she can tell by the smell and l lied that l am asthmatic and l am on certain medication but nonetheless l will come back another time but l don't think she bought this.
Now my question is how should one handle situations like these. Should l go there tomorrow again sober and retry opening her?
And if do that what frame should l be using or should l be apologetic in a cool way?
Did l already damage my reputation with her?
Should a beginner even take supposed confidence boosters to overcome approach anxiety?
Now my question is how should one handle situations like these. Should l go there tomorrow again sober and retry opening her?
And if do that what frame should l be using or should l be apologetic in a cool way?
Did l already damage my reputation with her?
Should a beginner even take supposed confidence boosters to overcome approach anxiety?
