approach anxiety

Here we go! This is going to be a long one. This is my series on everything I have learned over the past 3 years of trying, failing and finally learning to manage and overcome approach anxiety. I started my solo cold approach journey around 3 years ago (having done it with wings and gotten...

I have a problem where I just really don't want to approach groups. I can approach the lone wolves and hook them but with groups it just seems hard. Rejection when you approach a group feels very bitter compared to getting rejected by one girl because it feels like more than one girl is...

NOTICE: This is taking place in a Middle Eastern social environment. Having not made an approach for who knows how long at this point, I was out and about taking a walk while also looking for an opportunity to make a street approach today. Having walked for a mile or two, without finding so...

You cannot imagine the hell I have been through for the last 15 years. I will spare you the details as it's too dramatic and I don't want this post to be too long. Let's just say that I was popular and successful with women in my 20s but came a disease in the beginning of my 30s. Years of...

Hey guys, This is my first post on SkilledSeducer — nice to meet you all. In just 2 days (March 26) I'm flying from Ho Chi Minh City to Bangkok for a full 30-day cold approach immersion. This will be my first big dedicated trip focused purely on game. Background & why Bangkok: I'm an...

A symptom of a larger problem: I was just reminded of a case that happened to me 2 and a half years ago - a missed opportunity of sorts. Some of the details: while on a nighttime cruise from South Korea to Japan, I went to try the onboard Onsen. It was gender segregated and close to closing...

The background story is this usually to overcome my approach anxiety l drink commercial komboucha ginger drink and mouthwash which boost my energy and confidence levels without being too drowsy like alcohol does. But problem is today l got caught when l sort of cold approached a student nurse at...

This will be a journal where I will reflect, share my current issues when it comes to daygame. Here are the major sticking points: 1. Lack of motivation/energy to actually approach consistently 2. Feel insecure/inner game issues with local girls/white girls 3.Ejecting from conversations too...

Hi guys! I saw this randomly on a street photography website and thought it might help some guys here. The exercise was a recommendation for beginner street photographers to improve social skills and overcome social anxiety. The Exercise The task was to go up to people and tell them you are...

Just wanted to update you guys on an outing report. I am living in Hanoi vietnam. I have huge approach anxiety for girls that I do not know and it freaks me out, so I usually just keep to myself. I am reading a book to help me overcome approach anxiety and it seems to be working well. I had...

I've hit my 60s. I'm not new to game, in fact, I had some great experiences over a decade ago, but I foolishly stopped just when I was building up serious momentum and results. I'm closer to the end than the beginning and I'm not satisfied with the life I've led. I don't want to die...

After almost a year of approaching, I really feel I have come up with a system where I trick my brain and almost completely surpass feeling any anxiety to approach girls. Bold claim I know. 😎😄. But this is not about how I have grown to not care and how I have become a stone cold pimp. Its a...

I am starting this journal here with a lot of humility. I saw a few people doing daily approach challenges, got excited and created a challenge of my own. It was to give 3 compliments everyday. The challenge beat me already and I have realized that as a beginner, this is wayyy harder than I...

Hey there Fellas. I'm back with some questions and encounters from my Quest to Master Daygame! Before I jump into my question about how to close the Female target for personal info in Daygame groups, mainly Duo's and Threesomes (ha..ha..ha.. not there yet but soon) I mean Triplets, let me...

I joined the forums a couple months ago and started practicing doing approaches in public in order to try tackle my approach anxiety, which was going okay but I had to take my focus away from practicing seduction during the last month due to other things in life. I practiced some direct...

Boys, i have made it to a very nice country called Switzerland ( of-course, you might have your own opinion and i respect that but i really love this place ! ) I am currently working in Zurich and holy shit, i recognized that i was the problem the entire time I had my excuses in Pakistan (...

I chatted up a couple of girls the other day as I was walking by on a trail by the beach. I had seen them in the water earlier, taking pictures of each other, while I was on my phone texting a friend about plans for the weekend. We talked for probably 30-60 seconds, and in that time the one girl...

I want this post to be fresh air in this ecosystem, especially for all you incels here that even though you know some theory, have not been able to put it into practice and actually get result. This post is going to solve this for you. (and if not I would LOVE your feedback/critizism) This...

When I was working out in the gym yesterday, I saw a girl staring at me as I was taking a break. I smiled at her as she returned the smile, after which I turned to go work out. The same female looked at me again after 15 minutes, and her body language was friendly. I was going to approach her at...

Guys I'm at an intermediate level of the game. I got a bunch of approaches under my belt, won some, lost many but hey at least I'm getting laid more than I used to. Now my problem is I don't get approach anxiety at the beginning of the night, I approach (when I'm good I'm good, when I'm bad I...