Socializing what to do with inner ???

[theodous]

guys i want some advises about inner

what to do?

how to deal?

 

[BigPapa]

Fake it till you make it

 

[theodous]

Fake it till you make it

what do you mean?

 

[BigPapa]

look How guys that are good in what they do are and start to mimic them .

for girls , mimic a guy that is good with girls . How he moves , how he talks ,how he looks , etc

for career , mimic a guy that has a good career and to the same as above .

 

[theodous]

look How guys that are good in what they do are and start to mimic them .

for girls , mimic a guy that is good with girls . How he moves , how he talks ,how he looks , etc

for career , mimic a guy that has a good career and to the same as above .

mimic?

how?

 

[Chrance]

What aspect of your disposition do you want to change? I’m guessing you want to feel more confident, maybe less fear about certain things. What do you want to change about yourself? After all, if you don’t know what you want to physically change than you will never know if any improvements occur

 

[theodous]

What aspect of your disposition do you want to change? I’m guessing you want to feel more confident, maybe less fear about certain things. What do you want to change about yourself? After all, if you don’t know what you want to physically change than you will never know if any improvements occur

i want something new

 

[Fluxcapacitor]

@theodous I have just seen your post saying ya 32, bad inner, just starting life.

What is your bad inner? Are you angry and bitter towards girls? Are you angry and bitter towards yourself? Do you have low self esteem? All of these are bad inner issues but they need a different approach to change each.

You must learn to value yourself, but also to seek to improve. If you realise your own flaws you can work on them.

I have an inner game issue that I can't identify, maybe this resonates with you. Until you can pin point what the issue is its almost impossible to fix.

As @Chrance has stated what do you want to change?

 

[theodous]

@theodous I have just seen your post saying ya 32, bad inner, just starting life.

What is your bad inner? Are you angry and bitter towards girls? Are you angry and bitter towards yourself? Do you have low self esteem? All of these are bad inner issues but they need a different approach to change each.

You must learn to value yourself, but also to seek to improve. If you realise your own flaws you can work on them.

I have an inner game issue that I can't identify, maybe this resonates with you. Until you can pin point what the issue is its almost impossible to fix.

As @Chrance has stated what do you want to change?

every day i live for job and business and nothing for girls and bars

but i think its normal for start of business, i have new startup

 

[Fluxcapacitor]

@theodous it is normal for a new start up to dominate time, this is now a matter of priorities. If you want girls you need to make time for them. Even if its one night a week (which is usually what my schedule looks like during busy times) it will help you maintain and hopefully grow and develop.

Skills take time and theres no magic pill. You either get lucky (like a lot of guys in this world) or you have to work and make it happen.

If you notice you live for work and not for girls, but ya here because you want girls..... what do you think the answer is? You need to meet girls to improve.

If you can't get out, use online dating. It will improve your text game and atleast get you talking to girls. If ya get enough matches you might even get abundance mentality about it. Personally I haven't done online dating, its something I should possibly try myself especially during busy periods!

 

[theodous]

@theodous it is normal for a new start up to dominate time, this is now a matter of priorities. If you want girls you need to make time for them. Even if its one night a week (which is usually what my schedule looks like during busy times) it will help you maintain and hopefully grow and develop.

Skills take time and theres no magic pill. You either get lucky (like a lot of guys in this world) or you have to work and make it happen.

If you notice you live for work and not for girls, but ya here because you want girls..... what do you think the answer is? You need to meet girls to improve.

If you can't get out, use online dating. It will improve your text game and atleast get you talking to girls. If ya get enough matches you might even get abundance mentality about it. Personally I haven't done online dating, its something I should possibly try myself especially during busy periods!

have got little skills for gaming,no body language,no confidence

and i want to starting of branding myself

 

[BigPapa]

Fake it till you make it amigo !

watch hitch And you will get an idea on how things should look like

 

[theodous]

Fake it till you make it amigo !

watch hitch And you will get an idea on how things should look like

have seen hitch

 

[Fluxcapacitor]

You are your branding.... read every article you can on here and watch videos for correcting your posture - this will go a long way to fixing body language. Read up on fundamentals, fashion, how to walk and how to approach. Get out in the field and get reference points.

Confidence, you have to fake it. It helps if you feel good about yourself whether that's improving your clothes, your hair cut (not that I can talk about that) how you stand. You might not be as bad as you think you are and simply approaching could improve your confidence by simply talking to girls.

If you are in such a bad starting point as you think you are. Go out to be social. This will learn you skills in how to approach and interact with people.

Confidence comes from success, so set small goals that you can hit to build that confidence. I want to say Hi to a girl. I want to introduce myself to a girl. I want to get her name. I want to talk to her for 1 minute. They are all small and achievable goals. You might hit them all in your first interaction! But see how you will make progress immediately? Starting out saying I want to fuck a girl will be almost impossible. You won't hit that target, yet. But you will!

This in turn will become your branding. This is all marketing @ZacAdam (although he hates me for laughing at a comment on his post - read: Tired of london game and @greenleaf reply showing the differences between UK and US ZacAdam dude! I'm UK, dry sense of humour no hard feelings dude!)

 

[BigPapa]

If you saw hitch then you know what you need to do . Focus on your fundamentals , buy new clothes that will make you look slick . Get a good haircut . Start with this

 

[theodous]

 

[BigPapa]

That is you ?

 

[Fluxcapacitor]

Get a good haircut

I get a lot of compliments about my hair! :') long hair is a choice haha

 

[theodous]

its me

 

[BigPapa]

Hey mate , if you take better care of your body you are actually quite a handsome guy

go to the gym ,loose some weight,shave your head , get fancy clothes (Chelsea boots,dark jeans , white t shirt , nice leather jacket ) , maybe some sexy facial hair . And you should be fine

@ZacAdam go to another thread you are scaring the guy who opened this one