What would you do?

[WittyJester]

What would you do if you just started with absolutely no friends, no social life social media but knew you were attractive and that females thought you were good looking. Your goal is to host your own parties and surround yourself with the best guys and girls.

 

[Fuck This]

#1 find a physical, social activity I enjoyed doing or wanted to do better. Bowling, Darts, Golf, Archery, Running, Weight lifting, sky diving, etc.
#2 work at becoming better at that activity .
#3 in the course of pursuing mastery, meet other people interested in that pursuit.
#4 Use social media to create connections with those people and plan future events
#5 join social activities that occur as part of that pursuit. ie: beers after a match, travelling to matches as a group, going to clinics etc
Meanwhile branch out in other extra curriculars:
#6 Take the next step in becoming involved in your career field. Join the trade association or professional society for your degree. Attend conferences or conventions.
#7 become active in your university alumni organization.
#8 join a philanthropic group. Lions, Rotary (Active 20-30), Kiwanis, etc. Get on a committee and follow through with an event or objective.
#9 volunteer as a youth sports coach
#10 Please notice- I never once mentioned going out to bars or clubs to meet people....

Now you have at least 4 social circles and there may be people who overlap in those. The social circles should be:

Career
Sport
Volunteer
Community

 

[Zoro]

I basically do what Fuck This does, and can vouch for its effectiveness.

being involved in some interest creates a fellowship with those also involved in it. Instant value just based on shared struggles and experiences. Combine that with being Cool, social, and an ally in your shared goals, BAM I’ve friended people many times from that.

 

[Chubadoo]

Volunteer

First girl I banged was one I met during my volunteer firefighter training.

I feel like I'm on the same page as WittyJester, I got self isolated from most of the people I knew and now I've barely got any real friends, and if they happen to be busy then I've got noone else really to go out/do something with.