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Hey players (literally), this is minor more or less (I'm still having trouble telling because I'm not James Bond...) but here goes: so I met this ravishing latina girl at college in this elevator along with this other girl who is firmly in my friendzone, but she's cool nonetheless. A little bit of a rapport was built up between us 3 on the ride up to class, I'm confident I did a good job with it because the latina girl seemed to have this really girly smile on when she'd laugh. You can just sort of tell if you're pushing her dials, ya know? I continued to charm her later during class as evidenced by her reactions. Finally! I thought. A cutie of this caliber of my very own! I quickly pushed this thought aside and focused on the mission though, don't want to think I've got a victory before I even really get anywhere with her.
So class ends, we're walking out of the building and I'm about to ask her to lunch (class doesn't meet for two more weeks because of Labor Day and it's once a week anyway- figured I'd just try and pull it off because her reactions seemed good enough- which is contrary to my character, I always push it off until the last possible moment and always opt for the safe option...needless to say this usually results in attraction expiring...I'm pushing myself this year) when the third girl (remember- firmly in the friendzone) sort of trotted up. She didn't just barge in, she was getting close and then I was the one who welcomed her by mentioning how we should all (three of us) get lunch. Let me repeat: I put it in a context of all of us and not just the girl I'm actually interested in. I figured this was fine (it certainly completely demolished the anxiety which I was masking), but wondered: Did I set the wrong context for this? Because I wasn't confidently forward with my intent, did I shoot myself in the foot? What's more, if I ask her to lunch just between us or off-campus, will she "see-through" my charade and thus be less attracted? Would she even care? Obviously you can't get it down to a completely concrete science, but I was just wondering these things in a more curious fashion rather than an anxious one. My confidence is pretty much through the roof after tonight, because in the middle of getting their numbers (no reason for confidence boost because of the friend context but the latina girl seemed a little excited about it), this other blonde cutie came up and asked if I was European because of what I was wearing (she was incredibly shy about it and I saw a tension in her eyes- I thought of Chase's article about when a woman puts herself out there like that she REALLY DIGS YOU. I'll take care of her next time though- she gambled some of her social grace like nothing).
I figured because it's so early it doesn't matter and she, if interested at all, would just be excited we at least have numbers exchanged and intend to meet.
It's this nuance stuff that eludes me, thanks in advance seduction nerds.
So class ends, we're walking out of the building and I'm about to ask her to lunch (class doesn't meet for two more weeks because of Labor Day and it's once a week anyway- figured I'd just try and pull it off because her reactions seemed good enough- which is contrary to my character, I always push it off until the last possible moment and always opt for the safe option...needless to say this usually results in attraction expiring...I'm pushing myself this year) when the third girl (remember- firmly in the friendzone) sort of trotted up. She didn't just barge in, she was getting close and then I was the one who welcomed her by mentioning how we should all (three of us) get lunch. Let me repeat: I put it in a context of all of us and not just the girl I'm actually interested in. I figured this was fine (it certainly completely demolished the anxiety which I was masking), but wondered: Did I set the wrong context for this? Because I wasn't confidently forward with my intent, did I shoot myself in the foot? What's more, if I ask her to lunch just between us or off-campus, will she "see-through" my charade and thus be less attracted? Would she even care? Obviously you can't get it down to a completely concrete science, but I was just wondering these things in a more curious fashion rather than an anxious one. My confidence is pretty much through the roof after tonight, because in the middle of getting their numbers (no reason for confidence boost because of the friend context but the latina girl seemed a little excited about it), this other blonde cutie came up and asked if I was European because of what I was wearing (she was incredibly shy about it and I saw a tension in her eyes- I thought of Chase's article about when a woman puts herself out there like that she REALLY DIGS YOU. I'll take care of her next time though- she gambled some of her social grace like nothing).
I figured because it's so early it doesn't matter and she, if interested at all, would just be excited we at least have numbers exchanged and intend to meet.
It's this nuance stuff that eludes me, thanks in advance seduction nerds.
