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So this is a debate which I all too often have got into with @Grand Pooba in my time as well as @Franco but one I get into time and time with myself.
We all have "types", some guys want hot blondes, other want a hot Asian girls, others want brunettes, etc. The poll I put in front of you guys is not one about how but more one about which and why if given a scenario, a poll that is more philosophical than anything.
On the surface, we can all admit that initially, the trends of society dictate to some degree how easy or hard it would be to game certain demographics based on who we we are. If it came to these two choices as a guy, which would you pick and why?
1. You have certain groups of women (primarily based on looks/ethnic appearance) who seem to fall for you (eg: asian girls and tall white guys) to the point where it is even known by society that you two are meant to hook up. IOIs you get from the group are strong, you match with them a lot on dating apps, and you tend to always have a good experience with them. Not only in dating, even on a social level women from that group are nicer to you and your allies.
You might not be the most aroused by them and they might not be your "type" but your experiences with them are always good. From the get go, their attraction to you is there and you can probably get hotter girls from that group.
2. You have certain groups of women who do not like men who look like you and at best feel neutral. There is nothing special about you to them on first sight and you get no attraction boosts or anything. You rarely match with them on dating apps, social experiences are rarely that great, and men of your kind of look or whatever or not perceived in a great light by women like that (as a whole). In most cases, you might just need tighter game or to some degree, overcompensate to get them. I'll make it easier for you guys and say that you are starting off with a disadvantage when it comes to sex and game with this group than group 1, they don't initially see you as an open.
On the flip side of it all, you are really into that look. Something about their features really hits home with you and you get aroused more by them than you would the former, even though your chances are much worse.
As a man, what path do you pick and why?
We all have "types", some guys want hot blondes, other want a hot Asian girls, others want brunettes, etc. The poll I put in front of you guys is not one about how but more one about which and why if given a scenario, a poll that is more philosophical than anything.
On the surface, we can all admit that initially, the trends of society dictate to some degree how easy or hard it would be to game certain demographics based on who we we are. If it came to these two choices as a guy, which would you pick and why?
1. You have certain groups of women (primarily based on looks/ethnic appearance) who seem to fall for you (eg: asian girls and tall white guys) to the point where it is even known by society that you two are meant to hook up. IOIs you get from the group are strong, you match with them a lot on dating apps, and you tend to always have a good experience with them. Not only in dating, even on a social level women from that group are nicer to you and your allies.
You might not be the most aroused by them and they might not be your "type" but your experiences with them are always good. From the get go, their attraction to you is there and you can probably get hotter girls from that group.
2. You have certain groups of women who do not like men who look like you and at best feel neutral. There is nothing special about you to them on first sight and you get no attraction boosts or anything. You rarely match with them on dating apps, social experiences are rarely that great, and men of your kind of look or whatever or not perceived in a great light by women like that (as a whole). In most cases, you might just need tighter game or to some degree, overcompensate to get them. I'll make it easier for you guys and say that you are starting off with a disadvantage when it comes to sex and game with this group than group 1, they don't initially see you as an open.
On the flip side of it all, you are really into that look. Something about their features really hits home with you and you get aroused more by them than you would the former, even though your chances are much worse.
As a man, what path do you pick and why?
. Honestly I get where you are coming from. I know all too well. Since my type was rare for me to find in the past and something always went wrong despite being so close.
