Get my belt off, get off the bed and approach her from the side, telling her to suck this dick. She isn't really good, no suction, no tongue, still tell her she does a good job. Move her up, lay down and get her to suck my dick. Come over her face. Get her a tissue, we cuddle for like 1,5 hours.
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. I earnestly ask her why, which she kinda lights up at and compliments me how I have finally asked why.
THIS is where you almost unlocked the key to everything.
Lust wasn't your issue at all. It was a lack of a connection (love) and a lack of trust, because you have been building yourself up as this player and she believed it, because you're being as aggressive as any player.
You pretty much just beat your head against the wall and you got pretty far (got your dick sucked), but were completely missing any connection with her and trust (she trusts you actually care about her, even if it's just going to be sex).
she's inexperienced but HOW inexperienced. Is she a virgin? maybe I missed where you said if she is or not.
But yeah, there's very little connection building here and you just went full arousal/lust. That's fine, but you gotta be good at it.
You're also not giving her much time to build comfort that's why she's hesitant to fully give in.
This sounds like me when I was fully lust and just retardedly persistent with girls without pausing to create a connection in between my persistence. It doesn't need to be some deep conversation. A woman can gain trust from you just because you pause and calm yourself down. She can get a connection to you just by seeing you asking "WHY."
Objections from women should be treated like a philosophical dialogue.
Each time she gives a reason, you ask "why is that?" But you don't just retardedly say "why" over and over again. You need to get SPECIFIC and show that you're actually CONTEMPLATING what she's saying.
Objections = something that she isn't sure about...YET
So you need to fill the missing piece in her objections.
Push her a bit, she tells me she doesn't really know it, I finish her sentence how her bedroom is a safe space for her, which she feels comfortable in. She agrees, has concerns that she doesn't really know me.
Bam. It's a connection. She feels comfortable and turned on. You're very close, but also very far.
"You know what? You're right. How about we get to know each other tonight? I'm going to keep trying to fuck you, because you're so sexy and turn me on so much I can't help but touch you and kiss you - but let's get to know each other. I want to know everything about you and make you feel seen. I know you're leaving in a few months but let's enjoy the time we have together now, even if it's only tonight or for a little while longer."
While you talk to her you can hug her, lay on her lap, kiss her on the cheek, or just hold her hand.
You're forgetting the seduction in seduction. You're just tryna fuck. Which is fine, but you gotta run that game better.
Focus on building connections. It's good you're going for it and just being a dog. Every man needs that part, but you're not a dog - you're a man.
Build a connection by taking to girls and REALLY listening to them and wanting to get to know them.
Until you do that, you'll never be a seducer, just a guy who wants to fuck.
Hector