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This is something I see again, and again. A fundamental flaw in the mindset and strategy of guys both new, and intermediate to advanced.
They don’t understand this simple formula.
The more women you hit on — the more women you bang.
I just finished lecturing a student. Something I don’t usually do. Because he went out, opened one girl who said she had a boyfriend. Then he went home to “take a break”. I lectured him to get the fuck back out there and don’t go home until he got a number.
Guess who didn’t get a number. Guess who had excuses.
ALL OF YOU. ALL THE TIME.
When I learned cold approach… I worked full time, 9 hours a day. On my lunch break I ran downstairs and did daygame outside the call centre while I ate my sandwich.
After work I rushed home so I could take a 40 minute nap, then I’d wake up, study pickup theory, read, meditate, and go out. EVERY NIGHT I went out and approached in bars, cafe’s, the street, until around 11 pm on weekdays, and almost until dawn on weekends. I did that for TWO YEARS. And when I was thirty years old, I did it for another two years. And then I enjoyed a really great decade full of sex with beautiful women.
Guess what? Before that I fucking sucked. I hated a lot of it. It was scary, embarrassing, and I was bad at it. But I believed in the process.
And then after three months of getting brutally rejected over, and over… one night I pulled a sexy 18 year old. Finally. It was amazing sex. And I was addicted. It took me 90 nights straight. 90. Most of you guys can't even do 9 approaches in a month. I averaged 9 a day, at least.
Most of you IRL gamers… you just don’t hit on enough women. It's a numbers game.
How long has it been since you got laid? Three months? Six? A year? Yet you’re here, reading theory, watching videos, buying courses.
Go the fuck out. Hit on women.
She says she has a boyfriend. Guess what… I’ve banged fifty girls that told me they had boyfriends. Married? Great. Ask this: “How’s that working out for you?” That line has gotten me laid multiple times.
People are watching? Judging? Who cares? Hit on her.
You aren’t feeling happy today? HIT ON HER.
Having a bad hair day? HIT ON TEN WOMEN and tell them how bad your hair is today.
It’s simple math for most guys (excluding you hard cases). The more times you try, the sooner you get laid.
If you want a 5 from Tinder… go swipe 900 times. If you want an 8 from daygame… go hit on 100 girls.
You can hit on ten to twenty a day. “Hi, I just saw you and thought you were hot. I’m Tony”.
Direct game… it’s lazy and boring. But hey… it works good enough. Do that 100 times and you’ll have a girl.
How long will that take? When I go on a hunt, I’ll do that in a week. In bars? A weekend or two. No problem.
The number of women you hit on will always make the difference.
In sales, you make sales based on the quantity of leads. From there, you narrow down the quality. It’s called a sales funnel.
Going out once a week and approaching two women, and forgetting to close because you weren’t feeling it…
Good luck with that. You will NEVER get the girls you want. You don't BELIEVE. You have no FAITH.
You gotta take this serious if you want any results.
What does that mean? Go out every day, every night. No excuses. We used to drop out of school, quit our jobs to learn this stuff.
I feel like the old ways of the pickup artist are dying. We’re left with this “natural” dish of nice guys who have no idea what we did, or what it really takes to become a player. If you haven't done what we've done... you can't even begin to imagine.
I know there's guys on here that know what I mean. The rest of you... if you're not going to commit to at least one year of serious work... go get a different hobby. Cold approach is not for you. You might learn enough to get Cindy from the staff Christmas party. But you're not going to notch 100 girls. To do that you need to approach 1000.
When I learned this stuff… we were vulgar. We were manipulative. We knew every trick in the book and we didn’t give a shit what the mainstream thought about it. And guess what… we became amazing at picking up women.
We BELIEVED.
Men now… they don’t believe in magic. They think it’s their muscles, their money, their race.
HIT ON WOMEN!!!!!
Lots of them.
Is it good or bad? I don’t know. But trust me… the more you hit on, the sooner you will learn.
Rant over.
They don’t understand this simple formula.
The more women you hit on — the more women you bang.
I just finished lecturing a student. Something I don’t usually do. Because he went out, opened one girl who said she had a boyfriend. Then he went home to “take a break”. I lectured him to get the fuck back out there and don’t go home until he got a number.
Guess who didn’t get a number. Guess who had excuses.
ALL OF YOU. ALL THE TIME.
When I learned cold approach… I worked full time, 9 hours a day. On my lunch break I ran downstairs and did daygame outside the call centre while I ate my sandwich.
After work I rushed home so I could take a 40 minute nap, then I’d wake up, study pickup theory, read, meditate, and go out. EVERY NIGHT I went out and approached in bars, cafe’s, the street, until around 11 pm on weekdays, and almost until dawn on weekends. I did that for TWO YEARS. And when I was thirty years old, I did it for another two years. And then I enjoyed a really great decade full of sex with beautiful women.
Guess what? Before that I fucking sucked. I hated a lot of it. It was scary, embarrassing, and I was bad at it. But I believed in the process.
And then after three months of getting brutally rejected over, and over… one night I pulled a sexy 18 year old. Finally. It was amazing sex. And I was addicted. It took me 90 nights straight. 90. Most of you guys can't even do 9 approaches in a month. I averaged 9 a day, at least.
Most of you IRL gamers… you just don’t hit on enough women. It's a numbers game.
How long has it been since you got laid? Three months? Six? A year? Yet you’re here, reading theory, watching videos, buying courses.
Go the fuck out. Hit on women.
She says she has a boyfriend. Guess what… I’ve banged fifty girls that told me they had boyfriends. Married? Great. Ask this: “How’s that working out for you?” That line has gotten me laid multiple times.
People are watching? Judging? Who cares? Hit on her.
You aren’t feeling happy today? HIT ON HER.
Having a bad hair day? HIT ON TEN WOMEN and tell them how bad your hair is today.
It’s simple math for most guys (excluding you hard cases). The more times you try, the sooner you get laid.
If you want a 5 from Tinder… go swipe 900 times. If you want an 8 from daygame… go hit on 100 girls.
You can hit on ten to twenty a day. “Hi, I just saw you and thought you were hot. I’m Tony”.
Direct game… it’s lazy and boring. But hey… it works good enough. Do that 100 times and you’ll have a girl.
How long will that take? When I go on a hunt, I’ll do that in a week. In bars? A weekend or two. No problem.
The number of women you hit on will always make the difference.
In sales, you make sales based on the quantity of leads. From there, you narrow down the quality. It’s called a sales funnel.
Going out once a week and approaching two women, and forgetting to close because you weren’t feeling it…
Good luck with that. You will NEVER get the girls you want. You don't BELIEVE. You have no FAITH.
You gotta take this serious if you want any results.
What does that mean? Go out every day, every night. No excuses. We used to drop out of school, quit our jobs to learn this stuff.
I feel like the old ways of the pickup artist are dying. We’re left with this “natural” dish of nice guys who have no idea what we did, or what it really takes to become a player. If you haven't done what we've done... you can't even begin to imagine.
I know there's guys on here that know what I mean. The rest of you... if you're not going to commit to at least one year of serious work... go get a different hobby. Cold approach is not for you. You might learn enough to get Cindy from the staff Christmas party. But you're not going to notch 100 girls. To do that you need to approach 1000.
When I learned this stuff… we were vulgar. We were manipulative. We knew every trick in the book and we didn’t give a shit what the mainstream thought about it. And guess what… we became amazing at picking up women.
We BELIEVED.
Men now… they don’t believe in magic. They think it’s their muscles, their money, their race.
HIT ON WOMEN!!!!!
Lots of them.
Is it good or bad? I don’t know. But trust me… the more you hit on, the sooner you will learn.
Rant over.
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