24.6.21
Location: City Saturday 19.6.21
Outfit: v i n t a g e light blue worker jacket, with line texturing on the jacket with a collar. Black turtle neck and black cargo pants in addition to top it off with a beat up white sneaker. Also we still have to wear masks which is annoying.
weather: partly cloudy/sunny 9-15 degrees Celsius/ 48-56 F
total approaches: 6-7, 1 of these approaches ill consider some what socially calibrated on my end. 1 amusing blow out.
yesterday's main goal was: AA Desensitization and if possible socially acceptable approaches( avoid directs if possible)
I have done my TRE session before I went out and found my self much more relaxed and my body didn't sense any fatigueless . My ioi's were much more vibrant.
I decided I 'would do some exploring today and the day after to find more possible hunting grounds.
while on the train to the designated hunting ground I noticed a killer blonde with high ioi's which has stared at me multiple times.. Unfortunately I would have loved to approach her on the train and I even made the effort to get close enough for a opener.. I just couldn't bite the bullet. Frustrating as I repeated the same AA pattern on my previous post.
Getting off, I did a quick cubby 2 set with a direction opener to pick up my state up.
#park 1 Accidently arriving at the wrong park, I decided to wonder about for a bit longer. It was more of a footpath park, the grass is always greener on the other side they say. I was quite disappointed on the discovery of this park, it had one straight foot path in between of two ovals. I left this park with a sigh after skipping out on a 2 sets and 1 sexy tall brunet walking the dog. If I think about it, I could possibly game there for girls who are walking their dogs.. and there is a bench on the footpath. for girls to walk their dog here.. its a reasonable assumption they live relatively close in the city but idk lol ¯\_(ツ)_/¯.
#park 2 The other park was a bigger disappointment lol, one massive park with trees, foot paths that stretch over like hills.. a stadium planted next to it despite that it was almost like a ghost town. Luckily a train station was next to it so it wouldn't be much of a hassle to arrive in the city.
On the way to the train station while still in the park, I was distracted with a elders playing fetch with their ball thrower( a long stick with a cup on its end)
Then in the distance I spotted a cute brunet with a bowl cut with a beanie walking beside a dog, adding on she was receptive. When we got closer, as per fate we were going to pass each other and she was visually nervous. I responded to her with a warm smile and she smiled back. I gave it a second thought to approach and I pivoted around to see her facing in the direction of the elderlies.
I wussied out thinking: shit, my social frame would be probably destroyed if I approached her 1. she is with 'them' and she is probably a relative to them 2. she is so far away and I would have to speed walk which the elderlies would be watching. some retarded backward rationalization I made up to not approach.
I picked up my state to neutral with self amusement, while on the train towards the city.
Getting off, I did a quick cubby 2 set with a direction opener to pick up my state up.
#park 1 Accidently arriving at the wrong park, I decided to wonder about for a bit longer. It was more of a footpath park, the grass is always greener on the other side they say. I was quite disappointed on the discovery of this park, it had one straight foot path in between of two ovals. I left this park with a sigh after skipping out on a 2 sets and 1 sexy tall brunet walking the dog. If I think about it, I could possibly game there for girls who are walking their dogs.. and there is a bench on the footpath. for girls to walk their dog here.. its a reasonable assumption they live relatively close in the city but idk lol ¯\_(ツ)_/¯.
#park 2 The other park was a bigger disappointment lol, one massive park with trees, foot paths that stretch over like hills.. a stadium planted next to it despite that it was almost like a ghost town. Luckily a train station was next to it so it wouldn't be much of a hassle to arrive in the city.
On the way to the train station while still in the park, I was distracted with a elders playing fetch with their ball thrower( a long stick with a cup on its end)
Then in the distance I spotted a cute brunet with a bowl cut with a beanie walking beside a dog, adding on she was receptive. When we got closer, as per fate we were going to pass each other and she was visually nervous. I responded to her with a warm smile and she smiled back. I gave it a second thought to approach and I pivoted around to see her facing in the direction of the elderlies.
I wussied out thinking: shit, my social frame would be probably destroyed if I approached her 1. she is with 'them' and she is probably a relative to them 2. she is so far away and I would have to speed walk which the elderlies would be watching. some retarded backward rationalization I made up to not approach.
I picked up my state to neutral with self amusement, while on the train towards the city.
Entering the land of almost endless possibilities, climbing the busy stairs of the station and out of the terminal. Under the historical train station stationary sets littered nearby patiently waiting for a man of their fantasy to be swept away.
I walked around the station, to discover any viable sets that is enough for me to handle. Skipped two sets which would have been great to approach however I made sure I'll approach this set at all cost, even it had to be direct to kick start my adventure.
I stroll by a short european girl with a brown fur jacket, fully zipped, light blue jeans with a blue face mask with dark blonde hair and airpods with a face mask covering her face. Standing against the wall staring on her phone.
I plant my self in front of her so she could view my pose. She catches wind and starts reciprocating ioi. Uneventfully im struck with the same AA pattern as she starts to walk away... then she stops to come back at the original spot while glancing towards me.
I walk my stride towards her after she glanced at me and looked away as I hovered my eyes slowly in her direction. Good she set the chase frames in her mind already.
I went direct here, not ideal but for the efforts of removing AA, it'll do for now.
''Hey I just noticed.. your kinda cute so I said Hi'' I smile
She looks up, intrigued and responds ''Sorry I couldn't hear you''
I start to crack ''you didn't hear me!?'' I laugh ( the mask is really annoying, messes with my tonality )
Her *giggles*: No, I didn't.
we exchange names and cold read her on waiting for her friends.
Me: ''Let me guess ur waiting for your friends as well''
Social Frame+ Us vs them frames, relatively weak on its on, a usual conversation pattern I notice I would naturally follow up after an opener.
Her: ''Oh yeah, im just waiting''
Me: its like, for once in your life time you show up early and they come late isn't it
could possibly add on more reality immersion here: Its like.. for once you show up early.. your friends somehow comes late.. your mind opens all the possible opportunities.. to keep your self distracted from boredom. It almost.. opens you like an envelope, to start looking for an adventure.
her *giggles*: yeah its funny.
I can't recall well, a voice recorder would be so handy here I swear.. we exchange names first then somewhere along the lines we took off our masks.. she has a reasonable cute face with a bit of foundation with a fascial structure of heart shape. European girls man.. damn they are something I swear, I thought she was Italian lol
go into age and nationality. very boring need some work from the flow of the conversation. Turns out she was greek and around my age
Me: So what kind of unique hobbies do you have?
Her: ummm
Me: my greek friends.. have unique hobbies like, sculpturing.. drawing.. or even reading
Her: Oh yeah! I read books
reality pace: ''my greek lady friends told me their experience, I wonder if its the same for you.. when you read.. your minds just absorbs.. the text and blocks.. out all of the other distractions.. and you start imagining the words into sceneries.
her *giggles* : omg yeah its so true
Attempt of a qualification: Its nice that you read.. not many of my greek lady friends read anymore, they pick it up and drop it off.
Her: yeah, I have been reading since I was young.
Me: what was the favorite book
Her *thinks*
Me: you actually have to think? shits and giggles vibes
Her *giggles* haha no, I don't have a favorite book
Me: how about a book you read when you were younger
Her: im a bit embarrassed but it was when I was 6 and read xyz
Me: aww its cute, what got you into reading?
Her: xyz reason.. *responding to a text from snapchat*
Me: everything alright?
Her: yeah its just my friend, who said was coming in about 5 minutes
Joke if its a date or not, ect. the events unfolds and its a guy, tease her 'aww you two are going on a date'
Around mid way through of the interaction my memory becomes hazy, and she received a text from him and his walking up the stairs.
I rushed the close, while she was responding to the cockblock on the phone
Me: Hey you seem like a fun and interesting person we should exchange socials''
her: yeah sure! *typing on her phone*
her: also, I don't use social medias. I preferably use numbers if you know what I mean
Her: thats ok.( Looks up*
Me: lets grab some coffee
her: i don't drink coffee
me: oh right ur 14 i forgot
me: How about bubble tea, you surely drink bubble tea
her: yeah sure.
Me: ok i'll put my number in
her: wait no *smiles, wide eyes again*
Me: are you sure?
her: *smiles again* yep
me: alright
we bid farewell and left.
What I did well:
-setting us vs them frames early on
-persisted despite her throwing a curveball for turning me down
-emotional stimulation and social frame was decent
Needs work:
-Seed the date before closing
-naturally exchanging phone numbers
-persist even more for the close
Analysis:
It was a bit strange on how she decided to turn me down.. she was smiling too. I think I should put my number anyway, seemed like a token resistance. Social frame? or its just resistance I was meant to overcome for her to not come off easy. Anyhow Next
I plant my self in front of her so she could view my pose. She catches wind and starts reciprocating ioi. Uneventfully im struck with the same AA pattern as she starts to walk away... then she stops to come back at the original spot while glancing towards me.
I walk my stride towards her after she glanced at me and looked away as I hovered my eyes slowly in her direction. Good she set the chase frames in her mind already.
I went direct here, not ideal but for the efforts of removing AA, it'll do for now.
''Hey I just noticed.. your kinda cute so I said Hi'' I smile
She looks up, intrigued and responds ''Sorry I couldn't hear you''
I start to crack ''you didn't hear me!?'' I laugh ( the mask is really annoying, messes with my tonality )
Her *giggles*: No, I didn't.
we exchange names and cold read her on waiting for her friends.
Me: ''Let me guess ur waiting for your friends as well''
Social Frame+ Us vs them frames, relatively weak on its on, a usual conversation pattern I notice I would naturally follow up after an opener.
Her: ''Oh yeah, im just waiting''
Me: its like, for once in your life time you show up early and they come late isn't it
could possibly add on more reality immersion here: Its like.. for once you show up early.. your friends somehow comes late.. your mind opens all the possible opportunities.. to keep your self distracted from boredom. It almost.. opens you like an envelope, to start looking for an adventure.
her *giggles*: yeah its funny.
I can't recall well, a voice recorder would be so handy here I swear.. we exchange names first then somewhere along the lines we took off our masks.. she has a reasonable cute face with a bit of foundation with a fascial structure of heart shape. European girls man.. damn they are something I swear, I thought she was Italian lol
go into age and nationality. very boring need some work from the flow of the conversation. Turns out she was greek and around my age
Me: So what kind of unique hobbies do you have?
Her: ummm
Me: my greek friends.. have unique hobbies like, sculpturing.. drawing.. or even reading
Her: Oh yeah! I read books
reality pace: ''my greek lady friends told me their experience, I wonder if its the same for you.. when you read.. your minds just absorbs.. the text and blocks.. out all of the other distractions.. and you start imagining the words into sceneries.
her *giggles* : omg yeah its so true
Attempt of a qualification: Its nice that you read.. not many of my greek lady friends read anymore, they pick it up and drop it off.
Her: yeah, I have been reading since I was young.
Me: what was the favorite book
Her *thinks*
Me: you actually have to think? shits and giggles vibes
Her *giggles* haha no, I don't have a favorite book
Me: how about a book you read when you were younger
Her: im a bit embarrassed but it was when I was 6 and read xyz
Me: aww its cute, what got you into reading?
Her: xyz reason.. *responding to a text from snapchat*
Me: everything alright?
Her: yeah its just my friend, who said was coming in about 5 minutes
Joke if its a date or not, ect. the events unfolds and its a guy, tease her 'aww you two are going on a date'
Around mid way through of the interaction my memory becomes hazy, and she received a text from him and his walking up the stairs.
I rushed the close, while she was responding to the cockblock on the phone
Me: Hey you seem like a fun and interesting person we should exchange socials''
her: yeah sure! *typing on her phone*
her: also, I don't use social medias. I preferably use numbers if you know what I mean
Her: thats ok.( Looks up*
Me: lets grab some coffee
her: i don't drink coffee
me: oh right ur 14 i forgot
me: How about bubble tea, you surely drink bubble tea
her: yeah sure.
Me: ok i'll put my number in
her: wait no *smiles, wide eyes again*
Me: are you sure?
her: *smiles again* yep
me: alright
we bid farewell and left.
What I did well:
-setting us vs them frames early on
-persisted despite her throwing a curveball for turning me down
-emotional stimulation and social frame was decent
Needs work:
-Seed the date before closing
-naturally exchanging phone numbers
-persist even more for the close
Analysis:
It was a bit strange on how she decided to turn me down.. she was smiling too. I think I should put my number anyway, seemed like a token resistance. Social frame? or its just resistance I was meant to overcome for her to not come off easy. Anyhow Next
I carry on and continue the hunt. Took the tram and entered the local mall in the city to game. Not everything is back to normal, the seats and some areas are tapped off.
Ditched a few sets along the way, mainly walking sets and sets that i didn't 'felt' it was wouldn't come off socially calibrated enough. To describe this awkward feeling its like, she have shown you ioi's and you just stand there and doing nothing.. the longer this goes on in your head it gets awkward. ''wtf am I doing, she likes me.. but It's been so long, it becomes kinda awkward''
Despite that I broken this pattern of thoughts:
I sat down beside her, to test the waters when i wasn't so sure as I walked passed her 10 minutes ago. Wasn't completely sure she indicated interests.
Possibly spanish with her accent, silky burnet/ coppair hair and a black blazer, crossed legged facing towards me
The sitting positions are wack, we were sitting on a 'S' kinda of seat, its difficult to describe it but her torso wasn't facing towards me and had her back towards me while I faced 45 degrees adjacent away from her.
I waited for a few minutes or so to observe and contemplated on approaching. She snuck a few hard stares while I looked off in the distance, I wanted to approach her as she was already looking at me to capitalize the social frame of her chasing me however when I hover slowly hover my eyes towards her she darted away.
A body language I deciphered was with her legs crossing, and when she moves the toes in a fidgety sign its usually a good sign if others overlap each other.
anyway I approached:
smiled and tapped her on the shoulder while she was on the phone: ''Hey.. have we met before?''
she instantly lights up: ''Noo.. I don't think so" all giggly with a smile
Me: Oh.. I see hows your day going?
Girl: Its good!
Me: You sure.. we haven't met before?
Girl: noo. why?
Me: oh thats good.. because u really look like my ex
Girl: really!? *all giggly*
Me: Yeah!
she holds strong eye contact, and her body is turned over to face me. For some reason my brain go blank and I I stall it awkwardly, she slowly turns away expecting me to continue the convo,
Me: you know what, have a great day
Girl: Yeah you too!
Me: im just really glad ur not my ex
Girl: *laughs* yeah
she turns away, and goes on to her phone again. she still sneakly looks at me but I leave at that point.
What I did well:
-Approached
What I need work on:
-opener, +5 social frame, -5 immersion. Need more firepower with immersion for girls who are less receptive
Analysis:
I was surprised my self as I went completely blank, she was receptive and was slowly turning away, my gut told me she wanted me to continue interacting with her.
Possibly spanish with her accent, silky burnet/ coppair hair and a black blazer, crossed legged facing towards me
The sitting positions are wack, we were sitting on a 'S' kinda of seat, its difficult to describe it but her torso wasn't facing towards me and had her back towards me while I faced 45 degrees adjacent away from her.
I waited for a few minutes or so to observe and contemplated on approaching. She snuck a few hard stares while I looked off in the distance, I wanted to approach her as she was already looking at me to capitalize the social frame of her chasing me however when I hover slowly hover my eyes towards her she darted away.
A body language I deciphered was with her legs crossing, and when she moves the toes in a fidgety sign its usually a good sign if others overlap each other.
anyway I approached:
smiled and tapped her on the shoulder while she was on the phone: ''Hey.. have we met before?''
she instantly lights up: ''Noo.. I don't think so" all giggly with a smile
Me: Oh.. I see hows your day going?
Girl: Its good!
Me: You sure.. we haven't met before?
Girl: noo. why?
Me: oh thats good.. because u really look like my ex
Girl: really!? *all giggly*
Me: Yeah!
she holds strong eye contact, and her body is turned over to face me. For some reason my brain go blank and I I stall it awkwardly, she slowly turns away expecting me to continue the convo,
Me: you know what, have a great day
Girl: Yeah you too!
Me: im just really glad ur not my ex
Girl: *laughs* yeah
she turns away, and goes on to her phone again. she still sneakly looks at me but I leave at that point.
What I did well:
-Approached
What I need work on:
-opener, +5 social frame, -5 immersion. Need more firepower with immersion for girls who are less receptive
Analysis:
I was surprised my self as I went completely blank, she was receptive and was slowly turning away, my gut told me she wanted me to continue interacting with her.
I carried on, searched around for another set.
I mustered the courage to approach a walking set, I lost a big booty asian girl with incredibly slim waist with high ioi' she was my type and I didn't approach her. Shame of me but that fueled my motivation for walking sets.
I walked around and at the crossing light I found this cute blondee holding a star bucks drink.
we were walking side by side and I opened:
Me: Hey.. you! *smile*
she turns her head and her eyes lit up:
Girl: yesss? little puppy eyes
a family with a trolly comes by and we move for a bit.
me: where did you get that drink?
I ended the convo after she told me the drink and she wanted me to continue the convo again. Again I went blank
What I did well:
-approached
What I need work on:
- sustain the interaction
Analysis:
being out of the game, dropped my ability to keep the interaction it seems. Shaking off the rust is a nuisances
I walked around and at the crossing light I found this cute blondee holding a star bucks drink.
we were walking side by side and I opened:
Me: Hey.. you! *smile*
she turns her head and her eyes lit up:
Girl: yesss? little puppy eyes
a family with a trolly comes by and we move for a bit.
me: where did you get that drink?
I ended the convo after she told me the drink and she wanted me to continue the convo again. Again I went blank
What I did well:
-approached
What I need work on:
- sustain the interaction
Analysis:
being out of the game, dropped my ability to keep the interaction it seems. Shaking off the rust is a nuisances
relatively good interaction, really should of closed when her objection was 'I need to go to the US in 2 weeks'.
In the second floor the mall, I casually walk and his tall Bulgarian looking girl, 6 feet and a hourglass figure has a phone in my direction.. I was confused but I continued walking.. my gut told me she that she likes me. I stop again and that phone is facing towards me as if she is taking a selfie but the phone is directed to me.
A unique A.I it seems, I hovered closer and sure enough she started to glance at me. Bingo
she wasn't facing towards me, she was shy and turned her body away from me as I got closer to her when I hovered.
I tap her on the elbow to pre-open
It felt as if someone finally noticed her signals when she excitedly turned her body to see who it was haha!
Me: '' Hey..Have I met you before?'' I smiled
Her: *giggles* No,
Me: oh we didn't? anyway I said hi
her: *giggles*
Me: whats your name
we introduce each other, I lean onto the fence that was beside her,
Me: lets talk her, its much more comfortable
Me: I notice your accent.. where are you from?
Her: what do you think*giggles*
me: i actually don't know
Her: im actually french
Me:I couldn't have guessed, you seem more Greek
Her:*giggles*
Me: Let me guess your also waiting for a friend?
Her: *giggles* yeah
Me: yeah.. its as if for once you come early.. everyone else decides to come late. *something along the line*
Her: *laughs* yeah I know!
Me: who are you waiting for?
Her: Oh I was actually waiting for my mum, she gone to the toilet *giggles*
Me: your not crazy are you? it sounds like she just abandoned you
Her: *giggles*
Me: are you always this crazy? ( she was really bubbly lol)
Her: im always like this!
Me: What kind of crazy are you? the good kind or bad kind?
Her: I think the bad one, idk! *giggles
She gets a sudden call,
her: gimme a sec
I lean on the rail, looking immensely bored, wasn't much things to look at beside a cute group of girls in front of me while I was distracted she took a few sneaky glances at me I took it with good will. Took her a bout a minute or two.
Me: is everthing ok?
girl: yeah it was just my mum, she said she is coming back
Me: come a bit closer, ( i walked up to her, and now im on the rail looking relaxed as much as possible while she is standing, to seem she is engaging me)
Me: oh ok, tell me what do you love to do? (my brain is ticking away when to to exchange the numbers smoothly)
girl: I like cosplaying!
Me: really? what kind
girl: Like loki *giggles*
Me: like Marvel, thor, loki!? ( that shit is cool when girls cosplay )
girl: yeah! ill show you! follow me on ig *she giggles*
Me: we'll see first, let me be the judge.
I get a closer to her, and she hands me the phone, I was kinda lost with her ig page, it was just pictures of her self in regular clothes lol
Me: uhh.. where exactly
girl: here ill show you *giggles* (shows me a random cosplay of her, I don't quite remember it)
me: wow thats really cool
girl: thank you!
me: what's your favorite cosplay
girl: its the loki one, ill show you
I was actually kinda impressed. It was pretty slick with all the effort she put into it.
Me: wow how much effort you put into it?
girl: ALOT, that wand took me 2 weeks to make
me: im actually impressed
girl: *giggles*
me: what got you into cosplaying?
*she gets another call just as I say that*
I lean back on the rails, and browse through my phone lmao, its so annoying.
me: all goods?
her: yeah its just my friend is coming
me: oh is it a guy?
her: yeah
me: its a date isn't it
her:*giggles* no its not!
me: I don't believe you
her: its not I swear
me: pinky promise
her: ok i'll pinky promise
me: so where were we again?
her: uhh I think it was about cosplays and stuff
me: oh yeah, what got you into it?
her: it was xyz ( i can't remember)
me: oh I see, ( i wasn't honestly paying attention)
Somewhere along here she gets a text, and she is texting back #cockblock friend.
her: I'll have to go soon... *she crosses her arms*
me: yeah, ill have to get going as well
me: you know what, you sound like an interesting person we should meet again
her: yeah but.. I have to go in two weeks.
me: where too?
her: The united states. Im actually american.
Me: oh I see, well it was nice meeting you!
her: you too!
What I did well:
-approached
-decent approach
-calibrated opener( still needs more tweaking)
What I need work on
-exchange numbers after qualifying her
-need to expand on the Us vs Them frame with '
'its like when you come early for once.. and everyone else decides to come late''
Analysis:
really shook off the rust with this one. I Continued the interaction unlike the sets before , however I really should of considered closed sooner or persisted further. It felt like she wanted to stay but was obligated to go meet this cockblock, her objection could have easily been dealt with. I wasn't thinking straight lol.
there is potential with the Us vs Them frame very early on in the interaction with ''its like when you come early for once.. and everyone else decides to come late''. I could reframe it as ''its like when both of us.. for once come early.. everyone else decides to comes late, its as if they do it intentionally -> follow up with immersion/reality pacing when she agrees. ''when this happens.. it makes you terribly bored.. you just wish something exciting would happen.. like out of a movie''
gonna need to field test this. o(*￣▽￣*)o
A unique A.I it seems, I hovered closer and sure enough she started to glance at me. Bingo
she wasn't facing towards me, she was shy and turned her body away from me as I got closer to her when I hovered.
I tap her on the elbow to pre-open
It felt as if someone finally noticed her signals when she excitedly turned her body to see who it was haha!
Me: '' Hey..Have I met you before?'' I smiled
Her: *giggles* No,
Me: oh we didn't? anyway I said hi
her: *giggles*
Me: whats your name
we introduce each other, I lean onto the fence that was beside her,
Me: lets talk her, its much more comfortable
Me: I notice your accent.. where are you from?
Her: what do you think*giggles*
me: i actually don't know
Her: im actually french
Me:I couldn't have guessed, you seem more Greek
Her:*giggles*
Me: Let me guess your also waiting for a friend?
Her: *giggles* yeah
Me: yeah.. its as if for once you come early.. everyone else decides to come late. *something along the line*
Her: *laughs* yeah I know!
Me: who are you waiting for?
Her: Oh I was actually waiting for my mum, she gone to the toilet *giggles*
Me: your not crazy are you? it sounds like she just abandoned you
Her: *giggles*
Me: are you always this crazy? ( she was really bubbly lol)
Her: im always like this!
Me: What kind of crazy are you? the good kind or bad kind?
Her: I think the bad one, idk! *giggles
She gets a sudden call,
her: gimme a sec
I lean on the rail, looking immensely bored, wasn't much things to look at beside a cute group of girls in front of me while I was distracted she took a few sneaky glances at me I took it with good will. Took her a bout a minute or two.
Me: is everthing ok?
girl: yeah it was just my mum, she said she is coming back
Me: come a bit closer, ( i walked up to her, and now im on the rail looking relaxed as much as possible while she is standing, to seem she is engaging me)
Me: oh ok, tell me what do you love to do? (my brain is ticking away when to to exchange the numbers smoothly)
girl: I like cosplaying!
Me: really? what kind
girl: Like loki *giggles*
Me: like Marvel, thor, loki!? ( that shit is cool when girls cosplay )
girl: yeah! ill show you! follow me on ig *she giggles*
Me: we'll see first, let me be the judge.
I get a closer to her, and she hands me the phone, I was kinda lost with her ig page, it was just pictures of her self in regular clothes lol
Me: uhh.. where exactly
girl: here ill show you *giggles* (shows me a random cosplay of her, I don't quite remember it)
me: wow thats really cool
girl: thank you!
me: what's your favorite cosplay
girl: its the loki one, ill show you
I was actually kinda impressed. It was pretty slick with all the effort she put into it.
Me: wow how much effort you put into it?
girl: ALOT, that wand took me 2 weeks to make
me: im actually impressed
girl: *giggles*
me: what got you into cosplaying?
*she gets another call just as I say that*
I lean back on the rails, and browse through my phone lmao, its so annoying.
me: all goods?
her: yeah its just my friend is coming
me: oh is it a guy?
her: yeah
me: its a date isn't it
her:*giggles* no its not!
me: I don't believe you
her: its not I swear
me: pinky promise
her: ok i'll pinky promise
me: so where were we again?
her: uhh I think it was about cosplays and stuff
me: oh yeah, what got you into it?
her: it was xyz ( i can't remember)
me: oh I see, ( i wasn't honestly paying attention)
Somewhere along here she gets a text, and she is texting back #cockblock friend.
her: I'll have to go soon... *she crosses her arms*
me: yeah, ill have to get going as well
me: you know what, you sound like an interesting person we should meet again
her: yeah but.. I have to go in two weeks.
me: where too?
her: The united states. Im actually american.
Me: oh I see, well it was nice meeting you!
her: you too!
What I did well:
-approached
-decent approach
-calibrated opener( still needs more tweaking)
What I need work on
-exchange numbers after qualifying her
-need to expand on the Us vs Them frame with '
'its like when you come early for once.. and everyone else decides to come late''
Analysis:
really shook off the rust with this one. I Continued the interaction unlike the sets before , however I really should of considered closed sooner or persisted further. It felt like she wanted to stay but was obligated to go meet this cockblock, her objection could have easily been dealt with. I wasn't thinking straight lol.
there is potential with the Us vs Them frame very early on in the interaction with ''its like when you come early for once.. and everyone else decides to come late''. I could reframe it as ''its like when both of us.. for once come early.. everyone else decides to comes late, its as if they do it intentionally -> follow up with immersion/reality pacing when she agrees. ''when this happens.. it makes you terribly bored.. you just wish something exciting would happen.. like out of a movie''
gonna need to field test this. o(*￣▽￣*)o
I walked around after this. was resisting a few approaches at my usual hunting ground I decided to approach in the city's park to take a break. While waiting for the Tram to arrive, I notice 2 separate sets. i picked the most receptive one to approach. She kept turning her back away when I would hover my eyes towards her lol
I walk over towards her and pre-open by tapping her on the shoulder. She had her body towards me
she turns around and smiles.
opener: "hey you look familiar.. have we met before?
Girl: oh no we haven't *she giggles*
Me: oh ok, thought we had met before
Girl: oh no worries.
I dipped after that. I could just feel the energy that she wanted me to continue interacting with her again, idk why I left her hanging like that tbh.
What I did well:
-approached:
What I need work on
-continue the interaction:
isn't much to analyze in this quick interaction
she turns around and smiles.
opener: "hey you look familiar.. have we met before?
Girl: oh no we haven't *she giggles*
Me: oh ok, thought we had met before
Girl: oh no worries.
I dipped after that. I could just feel the energy that she wanted me to continue interacting with her again, idk why I left her hanging like that tbh.
What I did well:
-approached:
What I need work on
-continue the interaction:
isn't much to analyze in this quick interaction
Now I arrive at the park, walking through it and enjoying the breeze. I catch an asian girl by her self sitting by a bench with a plastic pharmaceutical bag on the bench as well. I kept a mental note to approach her later once I have uncovered the entirety of the park. Nothing approachable, couples with their dogs and thats about it.
I headed back and she was still there chilling on her phone.
I posed in front of her, to get at least a glance from her to set the frames.
Looks like she gave me nothing to work with so I tested the water.
‘’Hey excuse, can you move over’’ gesturing with my hand to move over
Girl: *girl looks at me, sees my hand. she moved her bag over*
I sit down in a relaxed position, distracted on my phone.
my eyes peer over towards her. to catch her glancing and she does.
She receives a call and she starts speaking mandarin. lol nope she is not hot enough for me to try and game her.
A few minutes later she hastily leaves. I left as well.
What I did well:
-approached, somewhat
What I need work on:
-follow up with the opener.
Looks like she gave me nothing to work with so I tested the water.
‘’Hey excuse, can you move over’’ gesturing with my hand to move over
Girl: *girl looks at me, sees my hand. she moved her bag over*
I sit down in a relaxed position, distracted on my phone.
my eyes peer over towards her. to catch her glancing and she does.
She receives a call and she starts speaking mandarin. lol nope she is not hot enough for me to try and game her.
A few minutes later she hastily leaves. I left as well.
What I did well:
-approached, somewhat
What I need work on:
-follow up with the opener.
These were the main sets. It was around 5pm when I decided to catch a train back to my local mall to continue the hunt with 15% life span left on my phone. Didn't want my phone to die during the city lol
approached 1 set on the train, indirect and came off needy. killed the attraction lol, luckily my stop was there already
approached another set, at the bus stop that would take me to the mall, she wasn't all that good looking, kinda chubby so its not worth mentioning
1 walking set in the mall, blew me out and got the out of there immediately. Didn't stay there too long as the sets were mainly couples and mixed sets. Almost 0 lone wolves beside bored workers on their breaks at 6:30pm ish
My opener: Hey you seem familiar have we met before?
Poorly excecuted with body completely facing her and needy feels.
she gave me a disinterested no and continued walking lol
Approached another set at the bus home. Should of continued the interaction after the opener smh. That was it for Saturday, separate post would be Sunday
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