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Started at movies. Bounced to a formal event I was required to go to and then to her place.
My appearance:
6’0, Muscular darkskin
All black cotton v neck longsleeve. slightly form fitting.
Silver chain with golden cross pendant
Black jeans and shoes.
Her appearance:
5’6, petite brownskin. very cute babyface.
Nice plump booty. Sexy lordotic posture.
Pink floral croptop jacket - (unzipped to show cleavage)
Black bra under jacket
Short black high waisted tights
Black boots
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MOVIE
First thing I noticed when I saw her was how sexy she was dressed. Had her makeup done and everything. This boosted my confidence because I could tell she wanted something to happen. She also bought a lyft there - initial compliance.
I bought both of our tickets nonchalantly and we both entered. Talked in the the theater for about an hour before the movie. My main focus was building tension, using pauses, and leading the conversation. I built lots of compliance, lots of physicality. Set discretion frames, nonjudgemental frames. Acted bored at times when she was talking irrelevant stuff. Didn’t build much connection though - didn’t seem like she needed it.
I kept trying to make the vibe more seductive by slowing my speech and speaking softer. She kept keeping the vibe “up” with high speech and fast talking. Almost seemed intentional. I also made a few semi-major mistakes that she didnt react much too. (I tried taking her to the bathroom and she just looked at me weird so I dropped it quickly) She was compliant otherwise though.
Once the movie started we cuddled and watched it. My hand on her ass and her head in my chest. At one point I gave her a small peck in the lips just to get past the kiss barrier.
Everything felt like it was going well. Then my parents called me about something that seemed like it would mess everything up:
My parents were bugging me to attend this formal-ish event that was starting soon, so we had to leave the movies early. But this girl was incredibly cute (and took 3+ attempts to get out!) so I didn’t want to end it:
So I suggested she joined me to the event. She agreed happily and I drove her there.
EVENT
To my suprise, she waited at the boring event with me for over an hour without complaining, which I take as a sign of interest. Towards the end she started to get quite worried tho:
So, after the formal event I took her home. I needed an excuse to come in. Fortunately a good one presented itself:
Got in. Her house was a one story with her bedroom literally right next to her parents. I had to literally hold my breath as I walked by.
But as soon as I got in, it was on.
ESCALATION
My first time ever dealing with LMR. The other time I’ve had sex that gitl didn’t put up any resistance.
As soon as I started escalating her insecurities were coming out and I had to calm them.
I go in for a kiss again and she submits fully this time, although her kissing was stiff.
After a few seconds I broke it off and said “See? I love your kissing” and resumed. That worked and she relaxed.
After a bit I told her to take off her jacket. She complied.
She was still stiff, so I started grinding on her while making out. The grinding made her make these cute involuntary moans that really just made me more impatient. But I knew I had to be methodical.
After taking off her bra she would hold her hand over her tits at first. But after I made it more clear I wanted her by complimenting her body and just repeating how sexy she was, she took her hand away slowly and let me lick her nipples.
Mind you I’m hard as shit. Like a rock.
But I needed to stay focused and not rush this. She needed more comfort.
All I could think about was “pussy-centric escalation” and the clit-ladder @Chase made a post about. I was already grinding my clothed dick against her clothes clit.
I was trying to think of a way to get my hand down there smoothly so there was no time gap between her stimulation.
I kept asking her “is this okay?” intermittently after every few minutes of making out, gradually moving to the next step after every yes. She sometimes would shake her head no but eventually they became small yeses
But even touching the pussy was a no-go. She kept moving my hand every time it got there, even if I kept it smooth. After a while I could feel time going so I checked my phone.
9:40pm. Wayy too late.
Parents are gonna start trippin soon.
I was trying a bunch of different things at this point. I even tried to PYCO by putting her hands on my waistband and using her hands to pull my pants down. She hesitantly gave me a small handjob for a few seconds, but it didn’t seem to aid the escalation. So I went back to making out.
One step back, two steps forward.
After a while of experimenting, I stopped escalation entirely and had a mini conversation with her while laying on top of her.
But by the time I was rubbing her pussy outside the pants my Dad was blowing up my phone asking where I was. It was 10:23 and the event ended 8:30!!! Plus it was a 30 minute drive so I had to bail ASAP.
We both slowly walked out as to not disturb her parents. I framed it as if it was fine either way and I enjoyed myself. Didnt give no sign I “failed”.
I told her I enjoyed her and gave her a kiss goodbye we both smiled at each other before leaving.
This is the text I sent after
The “babe” might have been too much but whatever
Can I still fuck later? Or is it dead because I didnt get it the first time. I’m almost 100% sure I would have gotten it if I just had more time man
Still a major W in my book - since I’m a big beginner - but dang. I read around a bit and apparently I just made my chances to fuck her incredibly low now due to backward rationalization. What do you guys think?
Started at movies. Bounced to a formal event I was required to go to and then to her place.
My appearance:
6’0, Muscular darkskin
All black cotton v neck longsleeve. slightly form fitting.
Silver chain with golden cross pendant
Black jeans and shoes.
Her appearance:
5’6, petite brownskin. very cute babyface.
Nice plump booty. Sexy lordotic posture.
Pink floral croptop jacket - (unzipped to show cleavage)
Black bra under jacket
Short black high waisted tights
Black boots
-----------------------------------------------------------
MOVIE
First thing I noticed when I saw her was how sexy she was dressed. Had her makeup done and everything. This boosted my confidence because I could tell she wanted something to happen. She also bought a lyft there - initial compliance.
I bought both of our tickets nonchalantly and we both entered. Talked in the the theater for about an hour before the movie. My main focus was building tension, using pauses, and leading the conversation. I built lots of compliance, lots of physicality. Set discretion frames, nonjudgemental frames. Acted bored at times when she was talking irrelevant stuff. Didn’t build much connection though - didn’t seem like she needed it.
I kept trying to make the vibe more seductive by slowing my speech and speaking softer. She kept keeping the vibe “up” with high speech and fast talking. Almost seemed intentional. I also made a few semi-major mistakes that she didnt react much too. (I tried taking her to the bathroom and she just looked at me weird so I dropped it quickly) She was compliant otherwise though.
Once the movie started we cuddled and watched it. My hand on her ass and her head in my chest. At one point I gave her a small peck in the lips just to get past the kiss barrier.
Everything felt like it was going well. Then my parents called me about something that seemed like it would mess everything up:
Me: (Looking at texts) Wow. My Dad is saying I have to be at this formal event at 7:30. He’s being strict about it too.
Her: What time is it now?
Me: 7:07.
Her: Wow we can’t finish the movie?
Me: Looks like we cant.
Her: What time is it now?
Me: 7:07.
Her: Wow we can’t finish the movie?
Me: Looks like we cant.
My parents were bugging me to attend this formal-ish event that was starting soon, so we had to leave the movies early. But this girl was incredibly cute (and took 3+ attempts to get out!) so I didn’t want to end it:
Me: How about you come with me?
Her: Isn’t it formal? I’ll be embarrassed with what I’m wearing.
Me: It’s fine. We’ll sit upstairs so nobody can see. Come on
Her: Okay
Her: Isn’t it formal? I’ll be embarrassed with what I’m wearing.
Me: It’s fine. We’ll sit upstairs so nobody can see. Come on
Her: Okay
So I suggested she joined me to the event. She agreed happily and I drove her there.
EVENT
To my suprise, she waited at the boring event with me for over an hour without complaining, which I take as a sign of interest. Towards the end she started to get quite worried tho:
Her: My phone is at 5%!! Do you have a charger?
Me: No I don’t. Why do you need it?
Her: I need to call a lyft to get back
Me: Your phone may die in the lyft, and I’m not going to leave you like that. Here, I’ll take you home
Her: Okay
Me: No I don’t. Why do you need it?
Her: I need to call a lyft to get back
Me: Your phone may die in the lyft, and I’m not going to leave you like that. Here, I’ll take you home
Her: Okay
So, after the formal event I took her home. I needed an excuse to come in. Fortunately a good one presented itself:
Me: My phone is at 8% now (Truth) Dang. I need the GPS too because my house is 30 mins away.
Her: Okay, wait out here & let me charge it inside
Me: But waiting out here for that long is crazy. Your parents are going to trip if they see me?
Her: Of course they will lol
Me: How about I come in from the back?
Her: Uhhh You sure. You know I have cameras right. I’ve never done that before. What if they hear you?
Me: Girl, look at me. I’m literally a ninja. Don’t you see the black I’m wearing?
Her: (Laughs) Okayyyy. Ummm okay come with me
Her: Okay, wait out here & let me charge it inside
Me: But waiting out here for that long is crazy. Your parents are going to trip if they see me?
Her: Of course they will lol
Me: How about I come in from the back?
Her: Uhhh You sure. You know I have cameras right. I’ve never done that before. What if they hear you?
Me: Girl, look at me. I’m literally a ninja. Don’t you see the black I’m wearing?
Her: (Laughs) Okayyyy. Ummm okay come with me
Got in. Her house was a one story with her bedroom literally right next to her parents. I had to literally hold my breath as I walked by.
But as soon as I got in, it was on.
ESCALATION
My first time ever dealing with LMR. The other time I’ve had sex that gitl didn’t put up any resistance.
As soon as I started escalating her insecurities were coming out and I had to calm them.
Slow, Seductive Vibe
Me: (Goes in for kiss)
Her: (Submits for a little bit, and then shyly stops)
Me: You good?
Her: I’m a bad kisser
Me: Why do you think that
Her: I just am
Me: No you’re not
Me: (Goes in for kiss)
Her: (Submits for a little bit, and then shyly stops)
Me: You good?
Her: I’m a bad kisser
Me: Why do you think that
Her: I just am
Me: No you’re not
I go in for a kiss again and she submits fully this time, although her kissing was stiff.
After a few seconds I broke it off and said “See? I love your kissing” and resumed. That worked and she relaxed.
After a bit I told her to take off her jacket. She complied.
She was still stiff, so I started grinding on her while making out. The grinding made her make these cute involuntary moans that really just made me more impatient. But I knew I had to be methodical.
Every time I put my hand or anything near her pussy she would take it away. So I knew I had to make her more comfortable
At this point she was doing minimal communication. Only doing head shakes and head nods. And speaking in a low shy tone.
It’s like she entered this submissive state where I could do whatever I wanted to her, just not touch her pussy or see her tits.
Me: I’m enjoying myself right now. We’re not going to do anything we both don’t want to do.
Her: *Nods*
Me: Is this okay? *Taking off her bra*
Her: *Shy Head Shake*
Me: *Backs Off*
Me: *Continues kissing*
Me: *Stops Slowly* You’re so sexy
Her: No I’m not
Me: I think you’re sexy
Her: No you don’t
Me: Why would I be here if I didn’t think so?
Her: *Silence*
Me: *Continues kissing and grinding*
Me: Is this okay? *Holding her bra again*
Her: *Nods yes*
At this point she was doing minimal communication. Only doing head shakes and head nods. And speaking in a low shy tone.
It’s like she entered this submissive state where I could do whatever I wanted to her, just not touch her pussy or see her tits.
Me: I’m enjoying myself right now. We’re not going to do anything we both don’t want to do.
Her: *Nods*
Me: Is this okay? *Taking off her bra*
Her: *Shy Head Shake*
Me: *Backs Off*
Me: *Continues kissing*
Me: *Stops Slowly* You’re so sexy
Her: No I’m not
Me: I think you’re sexy
Her: No you don’t
Me: Why would I be here if I didn’t think so?
Her: *Silence*
Me: *Continues kissing and grinding*
Me: Is this okay? *Holding her bra again*
Her: *Nods yes*
After taking off her bra she would hold her hand over her tits at first. But after I made it more clear I wanted her by complimenting her body and just repeating how sexy she was, she took her hand away slowly and let me lick her nipples.
Mind you I’m hard as shit. Like a rock.
But I needed to stay focused and not rush this. She needed more comfort.
All I could think about was “pussy-centric escalation” and the clit-ladder @Chase made a post about. I was already grinding my clothed dick against her clothes clit.
I was trying to think of a way to get my hand down there smoothly so there was no time gap between her stimulation.
I kept asking her “is this okay?” intermittently after every few minutes of making out, gradually moving to the next step after every yes. She sometimes would shake her head no but eventually they became small yeses
But even touching the pussy was a no-go. She kept moving my hand every time it got there, even if I kept it smooth. After a while I could feel time going so I checked my phone.
9:40pm. Wayy too late.
Parents are gonna start trippin soon.
I was trying a bunch of different things at this point. I even tried to PYCO by putting her hands on my waistband and using her hands to pull my pants down. She hesitantly gave me a small handjob for a few seconds, but it didn’t seem to aid the escalation. So I went back to making out.
One step back, two steps forward.
After a while of experimenting, I stopped escalation entirely and had a mini conversation with her while laying on top of her.
Me: We don’t have to do anything you know.
Her: *Nods*
Me: Do you want me to leave?
Her: ….
Her: *Shakes head*
Me: Okay. Me neither.
Her: I havent done this before.
Me: Thats fine. I’m enjoying this. We don’t have to do anything else okay?
Her: Okay
Me: Is this okay? *Holding her pants*
Her: *Shakes head*
Me: How about this? *Touching pussy outside pants*
Her: …
Me: *Slowly starts rubbing*
Her: *Moaning with no resistance*
BINGO
Her: *Nods*
Me: Do you want me to leave?
Her: ….
Her: *Shakes head*
Me: Okay. Me neither.
Her: I havent done this before.
Me: Thats fine. I’m enjoying this. We don’t have to do anything else okay?
Her: Okay
Me: Is this okay? *Holding her pants*
Her: *Shakes head*
Me: How about this? *Touching pussy outside pants*
Her: …
Me: *Slowly starts rubbing*
Her: *Moaning with no resistance*
BINGO
But by the time I was rubbing her pussy outside the pants my Dad was blowing up my phone asking where I was. It was 10:23 and the event ended 8:30!!! Plus it was a 30 minute drive so I had to bail ASAP.
We both slowly walked out as to not disturb her parents. I framed it as if it was fine either way and I enjoyed myself. Didnt give no sign I “failed”.
I told her I enjoyed her and gave her a kiss goodbye we both smiled at each other before leaving.
This is the text I sent after
The “babe” might have been too much but whatever
Can I still fuck later? Or is it dead because I didnt get it the first time. I’m almost 100% sure I would have gotten it if I just had more time man
Still a major W in my book - since I’m a big beginner - but dang. I read around a bit and apparently I just made my chances to fuck her incredibly low now due to backward rationalization. What do you guys think?
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)lol.He'll get over it .