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Going to make this my last post here for a while because dare I say it, I see the light at the end of the tunnel.
I've reached a stage where I'll get more benefits from executing instead of reflecting.
Based on data of the last 3 months, I think this is how I reach my absolute abundance goal:
1. 20 to 30 daygame cold approaches a week, gets me 1-2 lays a month
2. Go to events I genuinely like irrespective of girls being there or not, if I see a girl I like - talk to her
3. Quality control points 1 & 2 so the majority of girls I'm meeting - excite me physically and "vibe" wise.
4. Optional: Add girls I meet on Instagram, share stories/occasional posts. DM the orbiters (who're liking my stuff) AND inbounds
^^^ That's the 80/20 of it and honestly was overthinking it in my original post.
Don't think much will change in the winter, just have to be more disciplined with approaching during the shorter light window and perhaps incorporate a few shopping centre, clothing stores and gallery entrance approaches... Also noticing the girls I'm meeting from daygame are way more sticky retention wise so that easily rides the winter wave.
Finally, sharing my numbers unlike 99% of guys here, to give readers a "realistic" benchmark:
Good luck to anyone reading this, hope this helps you in some way
Onwards & Upwards x
I've reached a stage where I'll get more benefits from executing instead of reflecting.
Based on data of the last 3 months, I think this is how I reach my absolute abundance goal:
1. 20 to 30 daygame cold approaches a week, gets me 1-2 lays a month
2. Go to events I genuinely like irrespective of girls being there or not, if I see a girl I like - talk to her
3. Quality control points 1 & 2 so the majority of girls I'm meeting - excite me physically and "vibe" wise.
4. Optional: Add girls I meet on Instagram, share stories/occasional posts. DM the orbiters (who're liking my stuff) AND inbounds
^^^ That's the 80/20 of it and honestly was overthinking it in my original post.
Don't think much will change in the winter, just have to be more disciplined with approaching during the shorter light window and perhaps incorporate a few shopping centre, clothing stores and gallery entrance approaches... Also noticing the girls I'm meeting from daygame are way more sticky retention wise so that easily rides the winter wave.
Finally, sharing my numbers unlike 99% of guys here, to give readers a "realistic" benchmark:
- 169 approaches
- 37 numbers or instagrams: 1 in 5 on average (On my best sessions I can get up to 1 in 3)
- 8 dates: 1 in 5 on average (Skills text method would increase conversions, I get lazy lol)
- 2 lays: 1 in 4 on average (at my best I can get 1 in 2 or 3 out of 4. This and this shows how.)
- When approaching be "disarming" don't use canned lines, say something personalized to why you said Hi
- Get her attention assertively, wave hand, get in front of her THEN give her space. Body language half turned her away to sub-communicate this conversation is optional AND add a false time constraint to ease even more pressure I.E on the way to see a friend
- Mini-deep dive and find 2 things you genuinely find interesting about her besides her looks and use that to qualify and seed meeting up later which makes the contact a natural next step
This and this. At the time of writing, what works on many girls has shifted. Displaying yourself as sexually competent doesn't influence girls as much as coming across: SHOWING EVERYTHING IS OPT-IN AND YOU WILL NEVER FORCE ANYTHING, high EQ, good at building comfort, Understanding & accepting of girls for who they are and their lived experience without being bitter, someone who can lead without being domineering,
Good luck to anyone reading this, hope this helps you in some way
Onwards & Upwards x
