AI girlfriends increasingly become a topic.. how will this affect dating?

[DarkKnight]

Maybe my imagination is too wild. Time to write a book about romance in an AI powered world.

Bro those AI developing guys are rarely master seducers. Also most people do not want to bother with learning seduction.

 

[orkie123]

Bro those AI developing guys are rarely master seducers. Also most people do not want to bother with learning seduction.

I dunno, wasn't the pickup community started by nerds? Whose to say that the next gen of machine learning nerds won't develop something like that. I've seen some videos of facial recognition software that can detect different facial expressions and emotions. Combine that with a powerful AI engine, camera lenses, a microphone, feed it data off seduction sites like GC and you have a powerful seduction machine.

Imagine the potential for how much money something like that would generate too. I think its inevitable. Will it be perfect? No, but when you consider how clueless most guys are and hard it is to spot certain signs, having an AI do it for you would really boost a lot of people's game.

 

[ulrich]

What I do wonder is whether it will be a good or a bad thing when AI can help anyone become very good at seduction:

Imagine having an ear piece and lenses connected to a smart watch which can see and hear interactions and can advise you things like:

- "She has been giving you strong eye contact and been very touchy recently, it's time to escalate - she probably likes you"
- "You've been talking a lot and her facial expression is telling of getting bored, you need to engage her with some questions etc"
- "Her face light up when you asked her about her experience travelling in Asia - find out more about her stories there"
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Or going even more weird
- "Her breathing rate increased at that speed but then she started faking it once you become too rough - go a little more gentle"

And then girls walking around with an AI detector of their own

- "He seems to be following the advice of an AI V3.2 - a cheap device that anyone can buy from Aliexpress for $9.99"


Maybe my imagination is too wild. Time to write a book about romance in an AI powered world.

Maybe it is possible, but if technology has showed something is that there will be dozen of akward versions before we reach that point.

- “Rate of blinking increased - Initiate sexual topic”

- “Target looking up and to the right - Here’s some useful negs”

 

[DarkKnight]

I dunno, wasn't the pickup community started by nerds? Whose to say that the next gen of machine learning nerds won't develop something like that. I've seen some videos of facial recognition software that can detect different facial expressions and emotions. Combine that with a powerful AI engine, camera lenses, a microphone, feed it data off seduction sites like GC and you have a powerful seduction machine.

why would they? the first nerds were more masculine then the guys you see right now. They learned game in order to get hot women. But when you get hot android women, that need is already satiated. I believe you are confusing men who are in love with game, with men who just want women. When we get too deep into this rabbit hole we get our priorities warped and we start to love the game, but this is not how it started out, at least not for me.

Yes a subset of men will have their priorities straight but when I look at these new generatios I am not that hopeful about them

 

[Warped Mindless]

AI partners are the least of societies worries.

Here is something fun to do: Go research all the big names in the AI industry and then to google those names with “(name) + prepper + survival bunker” and see just how many have publicly admitted to becoming prepper a recently.

The people who are building next gen AI are terrified of it.

 

[gameboy]

And then girls walking around with an AI detector of their own

- "He seems to be following the advice of an AI V3.2 - a cheap device that anyone can buy from Aliexpress for $9.99"


Maybe my imagination is too wild. Time to write a book about romance in an AI powered world.

At that point, high value seducers will want to invest in Lamborghini's high-end Seduction Advice AI for $9777.77. Girls get horny instantly when their AI detector tells them you're using a Lambo AI instead of the cheap Aliexpress one.

 

[Regal Tiger]

Some funny stuff here, but I've been joking about android girlfriends for years. If I could, I'd fund it and a social wave of acceptance talking about how men harass women and blablabla. Then propose the ultimate solution! Android girlfriends so women can walk safely at night lmao

In this perfect utopia, all of the simps fluffing up these broads egos would instead flock to their new android girlfriends. Then who will the actual women need to turn to for validation and attention?

But yeah, I think this is a great thing, for me of course. It will also seriously hurt women's expectations and inflated egos, which increases my buying power as a man

As far as society goes, well, simps still gotta eat and pay rent. So they'll probably keep their dead end jobs. The high driven guys will want real women and still want to achieve so they'll probably remain the same

So ultimately, I see this as a great rebalancing of overall power. I'd even hazard to guess that feminism will die out completely along with our new AI girlfriends

 

[Tony D]

If you want a long take on this, I wrote a whole article about AI and the future of dating. Basically, it's going to be a huuuuge deal, for better and worse. It really depends on your point of view. Funny but this article I posted on r/technology and it hit #1 for a few hours and I was getting tens of thousands of views, then someone said "WTF is this blog!?" And I was banned for life from r/technology.

 

[TomInHo]

If you want a long take on this, I wrote a whole article about AI and the future of dating. Basically, it's going to be a huuuuge deal, for better and worse. It really depends on your point of view. Funny but this article I posted on r/technology and it hit #1 for a few hours and I was getting tens of thousands of views, then someone said "WTF is this blog!?" And I was banned for life from r/technology.

Your article made me start making plans to create a bunker to prepare for the new world order

But can’t lie… I’ll definitely bang sex robots too

Can you just imagine. She looks and acts exactly like your dream girl and knows how to drain your balls like a pro

Also if you’re a man that like variety but doesn’t want the headache of managing relationships then sex dolls and AI are great

Can have a main that’s a real woman and a harem of AI sexbots

The possibilities are endless and I’m both excited and scared

 

[Tony D]

Your article made me start making plans to create a bunker to prepare for the new world order

But can’t lie… I’ll definitely bang sex robots too

Can you just imagine. She looks and acts exactly like your dream girl and knows how to drain your balls like a pro

Also if you’re a man that like variety but doesn’t want the headache of managing relationships then sex dolls and AI are great

Can have a main that’s a real woman and a harem of AI sexbots

The possibilities are endless and I’m both excited and scared

It's crazy I only wrote that a year ago, before ChatGPT was even released. Now Dalle3 is so much better. All that art looks super Janky.

 

[Conquistador]

AI partners are the least of societies worries.

Here is something fun to do: Go research all the big names in the AI industry and then to google those names with “(name) + prepper + survival bunker” and see just how many have publicly admitted to becoming prepper a recently.

The people who are building next gen AI are terrified of it.

Can you provide some examples? Apart from Elon Musk and Sam Altman who are famous for it

 

[SteelbookCollector]

It is not as farfetched as you think, dating dynamics change a lot. Favorable ratio of women against men do change behavior but a lot of you guys have never consciously experienced this.

i will never forget this statement, here it is:

"C'mon...women will never, ever, ever, ever and ever approach a guy! Period! It's not her role to do that
despite
the
progression
women have made in society at large; i.e., salary, jobs, positions, women in military, etc...Gentlemen, regardless if a woman is a CEO of company, a government official, 5 star General, department head in a company, women are still women. You can't change that. It's your inner strength, your character, your personality. It's demonstrating you have high value, are self-amused, your value doesn't come from women but from your own life!"

 

[ulrich]

"C'mon...women will never, ever, ever, ever and ever approach a guy! Period!

I have had women approach me in the past. This one is BS.

It doesn’t happen often and she rarely is a catch but it does happen.

 

[TomInHo]

I have had women approach me in the past. This one is BS.

It doesn’t happen often and she rarely is a catch but it does happen.

You can put him on your ignore list. That poster is not worth the emotional investment

 

[DarkKnight]

It doesn’t happen often and she rarely is a catch but it does happen.

Memorable ones where I have it happen is these tomboyish but very sexy confident girls.

It always happened when I had already telegraphed being sexy/sensual. Basically these girls became very excited and became very forward. But as you put it, it is rare (but also one of my most memorable girlfriends, that girl was smoking hot).

Recently another did the same again a very hot bombshell girl. She saw me get along with "lesser" girls and got angry because I suspect she deserved the attenriom because she is much hotter. Became very straightforward as well (still using girl game)

A lot of times these girls are more "tough" badass girls or rebellious streak

Coincidentially they tend to be bottle blonde in my examples

 

[Alpha13SC]

I wondering if this AI girlfriends can bypass biology as well.

I mean, yeah, men are very visual creature and having a personal 10 at your choice, compliant and so on might sound actually very plausible. But hormones, the lack of the "human behaviour" (implying subtle social cues, and so on), things that our body picks indirectly and also surpassing the barrier that you might have knowing that what you see is not a real person can have a word.

I mean, extrapolating, AI girlfriends might be just very advanced sex dolls. Would I fuck a sex doll? Hell, I would fuck a pillow if I m crazy horny, you all know how strong urges can get, esp if somebody s doing NoFap or something related. All those memes with porn food and so on are there for a reason.

But I doubt you can develop real emotions for it(or at least I hope). And men get feelings sometimes real fast, esp when young.

Imo the desire for a real connection will always be there, something that technology can t approach.

In the end, if we make it to that phase, I hope you ll share some good products.

Alpha13SC

 

[Regal Tiger]

I wondering if this AI girlfriends can bypass biology as well.

I mean, yeah, men are very visual creature and having a personal 10 at your choice, compliant and so on might sound actually very plausible. But hormones, the lack of the "human behaviour" (implying subtle social cues, and so on), things that our body picks indirectly and also surpassing the barrier that you might have knowing that what you see is not a real person can have a word.

I mean, extrapolating, AI girlfriends might be just very advanced sex dolls. Would I fuck a sex doll? Hell, I would fuck a pillow if I m crazy horny, you all know how strong urges can get, esp if somebody s doing NoFap or something related. All those memes with porn food and so on are there for a reason.

But I doubt you can develop real emotions for it(or at least I hope). And men get feelings sometimes real fast, esp when young.

Imo the desire for a real connection will always be there, something that technology can t approach.

In the end, if we make it to that phase, I hope you ll share some good products.

Alpha13SC

I remember watching a documentary when I was in high school about men marrying their sex dolls

Those desires and emotions need to go somewhere and "men" out there will indeed marry their robots. You're right that the desire for real connections will be strong, however it'll just get re-routed if not gained in other ways

However the good news is that I believe it'll be mostly >3's of the world doing this. Plus the divorce raped guys and a few outliers here and there


What I think/hope will happen is that the 4-6 guys will become less nervous/clingy/desparate for women because he's got Sofia Vergara at home and doesn't have to put up with allowing himself to be disrespected like he always has

Guys will become lazier with women, but in a good way. Which means the women will have to outcompete a literal made-just-for-him "woman"

 

[orkie123]

I think another danger lies in people recreating their exes as an AI bot, either because they passed away or they broke up. There was a black mirror episode on this and that would more or less make it incredibly hard to move on.

The technology to create a virtual copy by feeding it text msgs, voice notes and videos is already feasible. Add a similar looking android to the mix and things will get nasty.

 

[Alpha13SC]

What I think/hope will happen is that the 4-6 guys will become less nervous/clingy/desparate for women because he's got Sofia Vergara at home and doesn't have to put up with allowing himself to be disrespected like he always has

Guys will become lazier with women, but in a good way. Which means the women will have to outcompete a literal made-just-for-him "woman"

Tbh, I doubt that because that dynamic already exist.

Porn, the fact that you can get that girlfriend experience through OF and so did only bad to guys, not better. By bad I mean their skill is now even worse than before and girls now have to compete even more for guys that don t put with that shit. I doubt that they ll be attracted to guys who have that experience home. What did women do to combat that? Almost nothing, more so, the adapt so much that a lot of them become OF girls. So they might find a way to ride the wave. How? I don t know yet. But hell, they re adaptable af.

Another side effect imo will be the "red pill anti AI" who will attack every man who have that thing home. Mgtow and rp already criticise men who use any digital form of women beauty for their own pleasure. I think with AI, this will be even greater. Years ago you were shamed for masturbating, being called a wanker. Now, you re called a simp for following a lot of girls on Instagram. For sure, there will be a term for people who use AI GFS as well.

What I think it will be, and as always have been imo is that it will be an even greater divide of the ones who put greater emphasis on real connections, like us and guys who ll be super Saiyan incel. And with time and new generations, this technology will mold in human life more and more. But biology will still have a word.

Another aspect is the financial one. Till you ll have a physical AI gf, in your own home, a long time will pass. Because it might be unaffordable for majority of guys. It can be for the rich one an option, but they always will have girls(assuming that they re smh smart) and the girls might compete with robotics for top tier guys, not actually majority.

 

[Regal Tiger]

Tbh, I doubt that because that dynamic already exist.

Porn, the fact that you can get that girlfriend experience through OF and so did only bad to guys, not better. By bad I mean their skill is now even worse than before and girls now have to compete even more for guys that don t put with that shit. I doubt that they ll be attracted to guys who have that experience home. What did women do to combat that? Almost nothing, more so, the adapt so much that a lot of them become OF girls. So they might find a way to ride the wave. How? I don t know yet. But hell, they re adaptable af.

Another side effect imo will be the "red pill anti AI" who will attack every man who have that thing home. Mgtow and rp already criticise men who use any digital form of women beauty for their own pleasure. I think with AI, this will be even greater. Years ago you were shamed for masturbating, being called a wanker. Now, you re called a simp for following a lot of girls on Instagram. For sure, there will be a term for people who use AI GFS as well.

What I think it will be, and as always have been imo is that it will be an even greater divide of the ones who put greater emphasis on real connections, like us and guys who ll be super Saiyan incel. And with time and new generations, this technology will mold in human life more and more. But biology will still have a word.

Another aspect is the financial one. Till you ll have a physical AI gf, in your own home, a long time will pass. Because it might be unaffordable for majority of guys. It can be for the rich one an option, but they always will have girls(assuming that they re smh smart) and the girls might compete with robotics for top tier guys, not actually majority.

Here's the argument I have for the OF thing: women benefit and guys aren't getting what they need from it. They get a fake connection but they're not getting sex. They'll get both from a sex bot

Though I mostly agree about affordability. Most people will lag behind like 5 years

As for the social stigmas: yeah probably agree there too. Anything good for men gets shit on lol. Which is why I want to create a movement that spins it as good for women first and foremost