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2 years ago on fourth of july weekend this girl drove over an hour to meet me from orange county. we hung out at the santa monica pier, got ice cream. i took her home and fucked her and never saw her again, unsurprisingly. i actually felt bad. she must have felt really desperate driving over an hour to get laid. whatever, i've driven an hour to get laid and i didn't feel desperate. i guess it's all how we react to things.
anyway i was 35 at the time. this chick was 19. i put zero moves on her and just acted chill and when we got in my bed to watch a movie she kissed me. i pulled away and she was like "oh you're a tease." she then turned her back on me. i grabbed her and kissed her passionately. within ten seconds of having sex she had put my hand on her throat. i was thinking "i was about to do that." i've never seen someone be dominant in being submissive like that, and she was 19.
the funny part is she's a baker. that's her passion and what she wants to do for life. she is the sweetest most innocent seeming girl you could ever meet. we had really just an amazing day. and then she just became crazy sexual.
the moral of the story is beautiful, sweet, innocent young girls will drive an hour to be seduced by an exciting lover. she knew what she was getting into. i seduced her heavily over texts. i would pull her in and push her away. i insulted her at times and praised her during others. she knew that she was going to get with me what other guys wouldn't give her. after we kissed goodbye and she left never to be seen again. it was only seven pm. i put on a movie, grabbed a glass of wine and smoked a joint and called it a day.
you have to be something special that other guys aren't. if you can do that you can get girls to drive a long way.
one more story to illustrate my point. i'll post our tinder conversation as i still have it saved.
this girl was about 45 minutes away with no traffic, and there's always traffic. she first came over on a sunday evening in october of 2017.
at this time i must've been 35. yeah, it was a few months after the fourth of july hookup.
she shows up, after driving probably an hour, and she is early. she texts me when she gets to the bar. i had just moved to the area and only knew of one bar that i'd always go to. and she went to the other one, called the otheroom. she had ordered a ipa by the time i got there. my first impression of her was that she was a lot cooler than me. i guess it didn't show because she would say and do things to try to impress me beginning quite early. it was awkward at first actually. probably because i'm an extremely awkward person, but am totally okay with it which freaks people out a bit. anyway we venue changed to my favorite local bar the brig.
at the brig we get on the pool table and the gods were in our favor. i'm okay and she was decent for a girl. we started winning for like the perfect amount of times. like four in a row. we were on the same team and winning. that's great on a first date. by the time the excitement wore off we lost. during the game i would high five her trying to get any compliance at all. the first time i tried to get a high five she looked at me like a total weirdo.
there was absolutely no sexual chemistry on this date. it was kinda frustrating. we were at a bar, it seemed like she was having fun, but i was feeling no warmth or connection. but she intrigued me and she was very good looking. eventually she said "i think i'm gonna go home i have to fly to hawaii at 5 am." and this is like at 11 pm. i'm like "great." but she'd paid for all her own drinks and i'd had fun so i didn't really give a shit.
she's driving me home and when i get to the block my house was on at the time i told her i live right up here if you wanna come in. she was like "no, i've gotta be up early." i didn't say a word. when we got in front of my house i pointed at it and said "that's my house if you wanna come in." my house was a shithole on the outside. it's in a weird part of venice beach that used to be super hood. this was one of the old hood houses, but it had been remodeled on the inside. but the outside was bad. anyway i wasn't using a cool house to lure her in. surprisingly she said "yeah but i can't stay long."
i put on wonder woman which led to sex quite often during that time. something about female empowerment or something just made women horny. i got laid so many times to that movie. anyway she asked me to rub her back, we hooked up, and she left at three to drive an hour away and get her shit and then drive to airport which ironically is like 15 minutes from my house. she shoulda packed a bag and brought it with her.
i told her that there were a lot of car breakins in my neighborhood so to bring in valuables. i was talking about like a computer or something. she starts bringing bags full of designer clothes and shoes. like thousands of dollars in clothing every time she came over. she went to all the world series games, was constantly traveling, and was clearly spending a lot of money on clothes. i was casually dating a high end escort. i had no money at the time either. i could tell she would get very frustrated by this. to make matters worse i don't think after that compliment on tinder i ever complimented her again. and she chased me so hard. she'd hit me up at like 10pm most nights wanting to come over. then she ghosted me for a week. i didn't respond and then she just came back like nothing happened. i was just like "i guess this is what it's like dating an escort."
the thing that really disappointed me about it all was the sex sucked. she was so desensitized from selling her body that it just wasn't very good. i don't really initiate sex and neither did she. so we would usually only sleep together once per time we'd hang out. just not exciting. i did like hanging out with her though. i had just moved to venice and having my main chick be this smoking hot tall latina that looked like she shouldve been in a rap video was pretty cool. i know people looked at us like look at these two they don't look like they match. she had so many tattoos and was seriously a lot cooler than me.
anyway on her birthday she went out and had a table at nightclub. she had been texting me since nine to come like a needy little child. i got there at 11 and she was wasted. she ended up being on some other guy so i left. the next day she called me and apologized. i thought it was disrespectful so i told her i had fucked my neighbor the night before. not that it really mattered, she was an escort and it was all so petty. but she freaked out. i remember on her birthday she had this really sexy dress on that would've looked great. but she was wasted and her tags were hanging out and she looked so trashy. i told her that on the phone and then she really flipped. she hung up the phone and i never heard from her again. great girl though. just very damaged.
honestly as long as i would've played it cool i don't think i could mess it up. for some reason my opener caught her attention and her response was actually really funny. we kinda started off teasing each other. it's a short convo which actually has her go silent twice for 5 days or more. the first time she finally responds a week later. the second time after 5 days i put ....? how many other guys are patient enough to play it cool for 12 days of radio silence with a beautiful woman. that's what i love about beautiful women. every guy is trying so hard and they just wanna be seduced.