ASD/Buyer's Remorse Fights Back HEAVY

[PaulieFlyn10]

Hey guys so this is an issue i encountered while trying to test out things in venue... of course, as things unfolded... i already knew i was dealing with ASD but now wondering how to turn things around

Met a girl at a venue and after vibing, comfort etc... we escalated into intense foreplay... but no orals. My goal was to get her to another logistic spot so i could close.

Now this spot isn't convenient because it's a place people she knows MIGHT see her. Now at that time, it was impossible but according to her "anything could happen"

Tried to convince her because she was super horny but she resited. Bad because of negative compliance. Anyways we agreed to see the next day at a much convenient spot

Of course, as expected... i called her twice and got no replies. Then i sent her an auto rejection text. Having in mind that if she didn't reply... I'll give her space and re ping her and rebuild comfort and emotional connection

Well, it wasnt up to 5 hrs after the text... she sends this:

"I'm so sorry Paulie
I shouldn't have allowed us get that far last night
What you did to me was something I've Never experienced before tho and I wouldn't say I didn't enjoy it ..how my body melted in a second with just spoken words It's crazy but you're the craziest

It's obvious the magic in your tongue got me ...but I'm sorry
I just realized and ...I want this over"

Now, not sure how best to handle this... so I'm wondering what you would do in this situation to turn things around ? (Like kind of reply to her text)

@topcat @TomInHo @Skills @Will_V @Karea Ricardus D. @Chase @POB

 

[Karea Ricardus D.]

Hard to recover from this. Don't escalate before you're in a place with a girl where you can go all the way. No more than light kissing. I don't even do that.

 

[PaulieFlyn10]

Hard to recover from this. Don't escalate before you're in a place with a girl where you can go all the way. No more than light kissing. I don't even do that.

Yeah sure ... i get that

I just did that to test out a few things and risk it.

Im thinking what a good reply to her text would be.

I'd leave it at that. Then reseduce her in person. I def can bump into her later next week in person

 

[Karea Ricardus D.]

oh cool if you can bump into her again -

"I'm so sorry Paulie
I shouldn't have allowed us get that far last night
What you did to me was something I've Never experienced before tho and I wouldn't say I didn't enjoy it ..how my body melted in a second with just spoken words It's crazy but you're the craziest

It's obvious the magic in your tongue got me ...but I'm sorry
I just realized and ...I want this over"

"You're right, I feel the same way... omg I got totally carried away. I never do this! You just made me go crazy... what did you do to me?? yes let's just calm down. i agree"

 

[PaulieFlyn10]

oh cool if you can bump into her again -

"You're right, I feel the same way... omg I got totally carried away. I never do this! You just made me go crazy... what did you do to me?? yes let's just calm down. i agree"

Thanks a lot bro... this is good

State crashes are a bitch sometimes. And i actually never do this. Normally, i just kiss a bit then escalate at the closing venue.

This time i was trying to see if i could overcome this lmr with more arousal even tho the logistics were not convenient (having in mind I'd see her again if it fails)

Didn't work out as planned lol