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Nikolay

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Hello guys, so I have a hard to solve problem with my ex in front of me. We broke up about three monts ago. She dumped me for a colleague from her work. After that I started seeing other girls, I've dated three girls in the past two months but it was not the same. And we never stop seeing with her in the time after we break up. We were seeing about two times a month and the spark never faded away. So recently she told that she admits that everything was a mistake and the thing with him was not more than a sexual desire and she stil continues to love. But she is afraid to dump him and comeback to me because she does not want to make the same mistake again after she let me go so easily before. So I am asking how to win her back in this situation? It is not because I cannot find another woman it is just because I want her.
 

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Hello guys, so I have a hard to solve problem with my ex in front of me. We broke up about three monts ago. She dumped me for a colleague from her work. After that I started seeing other girls, I've dated three girls in the past two months but it was not the same. And we never stop seeing with her in the time after we break up. We were seeing about two times a month and the spark never faded away. So recently she told that she admits that everything was a mistake and the thing with him was not more than a sexual desire and she stil continues to love. But she is afraid to dump him and comeback to me because she does not want to make the same mistake again after she let me go so easily before. So I am asking how to win her back in this situation? It is not because I cannot find another woman it is just because I want her.

Bro I’ll say the painful truth you don’t want to hear. Her ditching you for a colleague is a red card offence and you shouldn’t be seeing her.

Go through the upfront pain of replacing her and your future self will thank you. Read oneitus posts on girlschase to help with this.

At the very least you should keep the relationship open so you can both play on the side but reading your post I don’t think you want/ are ready to pull that off.

Good luck!
 
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