Between Flights and Flirts

[Hazel]

Hazel’s Journal week 1: New Horizons, Same Challenges

Hey everyone,
I’m Hazel, 28, mixed and a digital nomad.
I’ve been traveling for a few years now, built my own business and I love the freedom of changing countries, cultures and social codes.
I got into seduction mainly to challenge myself socially.
I used to be introverted (much less now) but a part of me still is.
Seduction helps me step out of my comfort zone, gain confidence and open up to the world.

Arrival

I arrived in a new big city last Monday, late afternoon.
That’s always my favorite moment when you land somewhere new, don’t understand anything yet, and everything feels different.
Cultural shock, new smells, new energy.

I had lost the habit of approaching so I started slowly using Tinder.
First match, first meet-up the same evening: rooftop, laughter, amazing view, light chemistry.
She was pretty, very touchy and it felt natural.
We ended the night together: massage, FK.
No follow-up afterwards.

Tuesday Flow & Connection

Next day, new match.
A stunning girl, half Spanish with chestnut curls and deep eyes.
We met in the gardens of my residence chill vibe, very natural connection.
Holding hands, laughing, Ferris wheel, kisses.
Beautiful evening, strong energy.
We went back to my place and FK.
I’ll call her V.

Wednesday Chill & New Encounters

Quiet day but still a few matches.
A girl from my residence a Korean, tattooed, very sexy O.
We hung out talked got close but nothing more that night.
She planned to come over next Tuesday.

Later that night, I matched with H, a lawyer full of energy (maybe a bit too much ).
We met for cocktails and pool, great vibe, she was fun and spontaneous.
We went back to my place and FK, no pressure.

Thursday Reality Test

I decided to stop using Tinder that day.
Too easy.
I wanted to challenge myself in real life: approaching in bars or clubs.
But that night... total failure.
I went out alone, had drinks in a club, moved around but didn’t approach anyone group of girls.
Pure frustration.
Later that night, I saw H again it was nice we FK but deep down I wasn’t satisfied.
I felt like I had avoided the real challenge.

Weekend Comfort & Clarity

I saw V again.
I was honest told her I wasn’t looking for anything serious and that I was just passing through.
She took it well and despite that, we have a genuine connection.
It’s nice to share something real without pressure.

Monday

Date with a model. Gorgeous but… empty.
Bad choice of place (too loud) wrong energy, boring conversation.
I tried too hard to make it work.
Instead of being myself, I was trying to impress.
Result: dull date.
I told her honestly it was boring, she said the same
At least it was straightforward.

Weekly Reflection

This first week reminded me of a few things:

Seduction isn’t a race for quantity, it’s about authenticity.

Apps are comfortable but not really educational.

My real challenge is approaching in real life.

The setting, the place, the energy all that matters for the vibe of a date.

And above all: better an honest “no” than a lukewarm “yes.”


Next step?
Halloween.
Goal: approach at least 3 groups of women during the night, alone without hesitation.
Not to “score” but to reclaim power over my fear.

Hazel

 

[Hazel]

Tuesday Flow & Energy

Texted the model again today.
Told her the conditions last time weren’t great it was late, we were both tired and that if she’s up for it, we could meet again during the day in better conditions.
If not, it was still nice meeting her

She replied later saying she agreed and that we could see each other again during the day.
I’m leaving it aside for now, will see later.

In the evening I saw O.
She wanted to come over, we talked for a while.
She’s leaving soon on a trip and wanted to spend some time together.
We talked, got closer, kissed.
She’s got Japanese tattoos, one just above her lower back.
She wanted to show it to me, then asked me to look at it from a different angle
She’s unstoppable.
We’re seeing each other again tomorrow.

 

[Hazel]

I’ve been sick damn flu. I’ll try to get everything back on track in a big draft and start catching up from today since quite a few things happened.

 

[Hazel]

I caught up with everyone, first O it was cool she lived just next door. I liked her personality but she moved… that’s life.

I’m still seeing V I really like here we went on a little 3 days trip to the mountains after my crazy week and Halloween with a 40°C flu… damn flu!

I stopped seeing H because she loves partying way too much it became too much for me.

Now I’m seeing Violette (let’s call her that to mix it up). She’s petite. She have 24, black hair, Latina, super sweet and kind, really pretty with an amazing I met her on a dating app. We saw each other 4 days ago: seaside funfair, then back at my place early evening… and we spent the night together.

The next day I met Madam Geek in a pretty upscale neighborhood. She’s 33, very slim, chestnut hair, she is Asian maybe Singapore) really pretty. We had a coffee then she had a work event some kind of dinner. I suggested meeting afterward, we went for a drink in the evening, I had a White Russian (I’m addicted). She invited me to her place… and it was pretty intense too.

The following day, I saw another neighbor I’d talked to in the elevator, probably 38. She’s still pretty for her age, great figure… intense too but kind of annoying afterward. Once at my place, after some drinks and doing what we had to do, I told her I needed to stop and get some sleep.

The next day I met another girl from a dating app: 23, big boobs, lots of tattoos, super soft skin, very sexy, long black hair with a braid. We had cocktails, went for a walk, then I invited her to my place… intense again.

The day after I had a date with a girl I’ve known for a few months but never met. I was really hooked super beautiful, 30. We walked around a mall had a coffee on the rooftop. I told her to come over tomorrow to watch a movie… she said yes.

To be continued tonight.

 

[Hazel]

The update with a bit of delay…
So I saw her again on Monday night, we went to a cocktail bar I’m starting to know way too well, I’ve been bringing everyone there for a week now but the bartender and the waitress are super cool and the vibe is chill. The goal was just to have a good evening, no objective, just enjoy and have fun.

We drink a few cocktails, build some complicity a lot of body contact.
We start getting a bit warm so I suggest we go for a walk. We walk a bit, laugh and she grabs my arm and goes “Should we go to your place and watch a movie?”
Obviously I said let's go hahaha

We grab a taxi and once we get to my place, I turn on the TV, make some popcorn and we sit on the sofa. I put my arm behind her head and she rests her head on my shoulder. I put on a little horror movie but honestly we couldn’t care less about the movie

I kiss her forehead, then her cheek, her neck and her lips, slide my hands down along her body until her thighs… then straight to the bed. It was cool She went back to her Airbnb after.

Today I woke up late, super tired, went for a coffee, worked a bit then I got a message from Madam Geek asking if I wanted to grab a coffee at the end of the day. I went, but I couldn’t stay too long because I had to meet the girl from yesterday it’s her last day here.

We have a nice date with Madam Geek she even asks me if I want to go to Japan with her at the beginning of January and that she’s inviting me I said yes. She asked me to spend the evening together but I already had other plans
So I told her it wasn’t possible tonight.

I got back home texted the girl from yesterday, she came over, we kissed, then spent the whole evening in bed, then went for a walk and I literally just got back home.

I got a message from a girl on snapchat that I’ve known for a long time too. We never did anything together because I can’t figure her out she works on TV and honestly she’s a total headache to understand but she’s absolutely gorgeous.
I kind of want to try again. We talked a bit we know each other really well, she wants to come over to my place but actually hooking up with her is definitely not guaranteed yet but I will try... welcome miss TV

 

[Hazel]

It’s been a little while since I’ve been here. I was going through a rough patch and didn’t really feel like summing up a few things but I’m starting to calm down now. A while ago I was with a girl, we’d had a bit to drink and we stopped talking the following day. Later on I got a message the kind you really don’t want to receive: “Urgent, we need to talk and if I’m texting you again, you can guess it’s not for nothing!

I asked her what was going on and she sent me a positive test. It hit me hard. I didn’t even remember that we hadn’t used protection. I felt guilty and asked her to do more tests. The next day I rushed to a pharmacy and bought every kind I could find. We met up, she took them and everything came back negative. I asked her to check again a bit later same result. I’d had the scare of my life.

A few days after that I met another girl in the mountains. It was nice but nothing special.

I came back to France shortly after for an appointment and had a layover in Shanghai. The airport wifi wasn’t working and I needed it for work because I had a 6hours wait before my next flight to Paris. I went to the wifi kiosk and saw a girl stressed out asking if I could explain how it worked. I tried but nothing helped. I went back to sit nearby.

Then I saw her again, coming toward me with another girl who also couldn’t connect. And this second girl was stunning. I’m not someone who believes in love at first sight, but it was close I was frozen. She wasn’t talking to me directly more to the first girl and I tried to focus on solving my wifi issue. The first girl eventually said she had to leave for her flight and thanked me.

I went back to what I was doing and then I heard: “What country are you flying to?” I turned around and saw the beautiful girl standing right next to me. I told her Paris and she said she was going to Tokyo. She was half English, Chinese and Taiwanese. We started talking, opening up about everything, laughing about the situation, sharing family stories, plans, relationships. I got a bit tactile without overdoing it and she didn’t mind at all. I suggested grabbing a coffee, we kept smiling at each other, laughing, she played with her hair for long minutes. We exchanged photos of our travels, families, and more.

We stayed there talking for 6 hours straight, completely absorbed in each other. When her flight time came, I told her I wanted to stay in touch. She asked for my Instagram I told her to take my WhatsApp instead. She gave me hers and asked for mine. I hugged her before she leave. She walked toward her gate, turned around to give me a little wave and a smile, and disappeared toward another country. She really left a mark on me.

Since I’ve been back in France, we’ve been texting. It’s great and I really like it. I’m not overthinking it if it ends up being just a momentary encounter, it won’t take away from how magical it was.