Girl I’m seeing is 21 (i'm 28), sexy, and loads of fun. She’s super sweet, super invested, and super kinky. Been seeing her for about 2 months, once a week. She comes over always with something in hand, spends the night, and we have sex like 5-7 rounds in a 24 hour period- with fun activities in between like drinks, pool, shopping, movies, etc. Sex is phenomenal. Never had a girl tire me out as i have a high sex drive but damn this ones a first. She cant get enough of my dick. shes submissive but gives just enough a challenge to me. The dynamic is good and fun, but the list of red flags keep getting bigger:
Red Flags:
1) Still friends and investing in a high school ex-boyfriend from 2 years ago whom she was with for 4 months. He’s part of her main social circle so they’re around each other all the time
2) One of her bestfriends is a massive drug dealer who moves weight across 3 states- sometimes she even helps him transport weed here and there for money. She parties alot with him and his friends
3) 7 guy body count (maybe even +1 or 2) at 21 years old - Theres a few things about her that tells me this is a fairly accurate
4) Mega impulsive. I’m a pretty impulsive guy myself, but she’s even more impulsive than i
5) She seems like a pretty flirty girl with the few friends of mine she’s met by happenstance. She's pretty sweet in general, but easily complies with every one of my friends/ does things for them (roommates and friends that we ran into while getting coffee/ being out)
6) 8 different tattoos on her body
7) Her longest relationship of 3 years was with a guy who is apparently a gangster and had people spying on her while he was out of town
8) She cheated on said gangster ex with her guy best friend who was mr. nice guy and consoled her while gangster ex made her cry. She claims he took advantage of her and she was raped (which I still don't believe)
Now unfortunately, ive caught feelings lol. I already know she’s trouble. My biggest priority right now is my business, growing it, along with the launch of my 2nd business.
This girl has a high possibility of being a headache if we become committed. Plus, i know for certain it won’t be a long term thing, I leave the country in October for atleast half a year. She’s also definitely not a woman that I would want as the mother of my children lmao
So, to me the most logical choice is to play it through as much as I can, but when the question of commitment comes up, use that to exit stage. Because if she left right now, it would hurt for a week or three sure, But i’d be able to find another girl in the next month or two quite easily that would be just as hot. However, if I commit to this girl, she could fuck my shit up.
Any men out there ever date/ commit monogamously to a girl with massive red flags? How’d it go / how’d it end?
Red Flags:
1) Still friends and investing in a high school ex-boyfriend from 2 years ago whom she was with for 4 months. He’s part of her main social circle so they’re around each other all the time
2) One of her bestfriends is a massive drug dealer who moves weight across 3 states- sometimes she even helps him transport weed here and there for money. She parties alot with him and his friends
3) 7 guy body count (maybe even +1 or 2) at 21 years old - Theres a few things about her that tells me this is a fairly accurate
4) Mega impulsive. I’m a pretty impulsive guy myself, but she’s even more impulsive than i
5) She seems like a pretty flirty girl with the few friends of mine she’s met by happenstance. She's pretty sweet in general, but easily complies with every one of my friends/ does things for them (roommates and friends that we ran into while getting coffee/ being out)
6) 8 different tattoos on her body
7) Her longest relationship of 3 years was with a guy who is apparently a gangster and had people spying on her while he was out of town
8) She cheated on said gangster ex with her guy best friend who was mr. nice guy and consoled her while gangster ex made her cry. She claims he took advantage of her and she was raped (which I still don't believe)
Now unfortunately, ive caught feelings lol. I already know she’s trouble. My biggest priority right now is my business, growing it, along with the launch of my 2nd business.
This girl has a high possibility of being a headache if we become committed. Plus, i know for certain it won’t be a long term thing, I leave the country in October for atleast half a year. She’s also definitely not a woman that I would want as the mother of my children lmao
So, to me the most logical choice is to play it through as much as I can, but when the question of commitment comes up, use that to exit stage. Because if she left right now, it would hurt for a week or three sure, But i’d be able to find another girl in the next month or two quite easily that would be just as hot. However, if I commit to this girl, she could fuck my shit up.
Any men out there ever date/ commit monogamously to a girl with massive red flags? How’d it go / how’d it end?
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