I think the largest issue with the Light System is being missed here and it’s one of the most under-rated issues that no-one discusses in seduction:
‘The Light System’ assumes that the onlooker can accurately PREDICT the true amount of interest a woman has in a man.
I’ve seen this repeatedly with guys I know, students and people in the forums:
men have a TERRIBLY INACCURATE predictive ability to know and understand women who are interested in them (or not interested in them).
The amount of times a guy has said: Yeah, I ejected from that interaction because she wasn’t interested (a red)”
or
“She did (this) and (this thing 2) and then did (this thing 3) - so she wasn’t interested and I gave up/left”
There are so many experienced, moderately experienced or completely inexperienced guys alike who are CERTAIN they know:
•when and how a woman is interested them
•how much she’s interested in them and is showing clear signs
•What her signals means & don’t mean
Then I see the interactions of these same guys or they tell me the details and it turns out they are DELUSIONAL about their ability to read women’s signals/behaviour.
Every man and his dog in seduction (and many normies) think they are experts on reading women’s signals and body language - but are delusionally clueless (when you look closely).
The Light System of Interest needs to be thrown out completely and never spoken of again because of men’s general inability to accurately assess women’s interest.
The measure for women being interested or not is:
Is this woman giving me compliance (to my escalation)? (How much/How little? How can I get more compliance?)
Did the compliance/escalation lead to sex or a relationship?