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*Along with having 2 friends with benefits who usually are down whenever I contact them.
*A few other prospects that can end up in something cool.
*A lay or two a month if I continue to push myself hard (although I've been slacking a little lately).
*More solid numbers, improved sexual vibe and so on.
This is the part where I finally feel like I have a little choice. Having access to sex and women is truly a choice now, as long as I continue approaching and working on my skills.
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On feeling incompetent after reaching success
I haven't had that rock star-vibe lately. I still get girls checking me out as much as ever, but I feel a little empty inside. There's more fear in my game than it used to be and I think it has something to do with my increased value. I believe it has something to do with this:
*As I reach a certain level of success (like having a number each time I go out, or getting friends with benefits or receiving more signals from girls) I feel like the king of the world. I feel like I've made it and the new level of success give me date momentum.
*Then the weeks go by and I get used to all those things. My brain starts searching for new levels of success. "Now I can get a date a week and more solid numbers", but I want consistent lays and numbers from more attractive girls. How do I get there?
*I use that momentum to get to "this next level" but realize that I lack in skill and fundamentals to get there. My mind gets fixated on this, forgetting the past success I had at my last level.
An easy way to put it; Once you get used to making 100k your mind starts searching for the next goal and 100k doesn't seem that satisfying anymore.
So when I feel incompetent again, that's when I know I internalized the lessons so far. Now my mind start searching for new lessons and holes in the game and that's where I am at right now.
Sending women a check in-text
So I basically sent 20 girls I haven't talked to in ages (cold approach the last 6 weeks) the following text:
And it works pretty well. I got two responses right away since I did this 2 hours ago and one date already scheduled. The message above is from Chase, you can read about it here: https://boards.girlschase.com/viewtopic.php?f=26&t=65
I think I can get more responses through the night.
Screening out crazy women
That has been a big thing lately.
Does she change her mind too often? Does she mention abusive boyfriends from the past?
Is she very interested in you one moment only to go cold the next? There are many signs to look out for and I am trying to find them all.
But I also meet some sane and cute girls and those are more often career-oriented with higher education. Those girls are also women of word; they can tell you they "let you know tomorrow" and do this. To my surprise.
I need more skills and experience with this but I believe I am uncovering something here.
Let's see if some more girls respond to my check in-text... To be continued...
*Along with having 2 friends with benefits who usually are down whenever I contact them.
*A few other prospects that can end up in something cool.
*A lay or two a month if I continue to push myself hard (although I've been slacking a little lately).
*More solid numbers, improved sexual vibe and so on.
This is the part where I finally feel like I have a little choice. Having access to sex and women is truly a choice now, as long as I continue approaching and working on my skills.
----------
On feeling incompetent after reaching success
I haven't had that rock star-vibe lately. I still get girls checking me out as much as ever, but I feel a little empty inside. There's more fear in my game than it used to be and I think it has something to do with my increased value. I believe it has something to do with this:
*As I reach a certain level of success (like having a number each time I go out, or getting friends with benefits or receiving more signals from girls) I feel like the king of the world. I feel like I've made it and the new level of success give me date momentum.
*Then the weeks go by and I get used to all those things. My brain starts searching for new levels of success. "Now I can get a date a week and more solid numbers", but I want consistent lays and numbers from more attractive girls. How do I get there?
*I use that momentum to get to "this next level" but realize that I lack in skill and fundamentals to get there. My mind gets fixated on this, forgetting the past success I had at my last level.
An easy way to put it; Once you get used to making 100k your mind starts searching for the next goal and 100k doesn't seem that satisfying anymore.
So when I feel incompetent again, that's when I know I internalized the lessons so far. Now my mind start searching for new lessons and holes in the game and that's where I am at right now.
Sending women a check in-text
So I basically sent 20 girls I haven't talked to in ages (cold approach the last 6 weeks) the following text:
Hey Gina! Sorry, I've been radio silent these past 6 weeks; I wasn't ignoring you, I just got so slammed with my projects that everything outside of work got pigeonholed until life returned to sanity again. Anyway, things've cleared up a bit; how've you been? Let me know your schedule over the next week or two and let's plan to meet up and catch up on things.
And it works pretty well. I got two responses right away since I did this 2 hours ago and one date already scheduled. The message above is from Chase, you can read about it here: https://boards.girlschase.com/viewtopic.php?f=26&t=65
I think I can get more responses through the night.
Screening out crazy women
That has been a big thing lately.
Does she change her mind too often? Does she mention abusive boyfriends from the past?
Is she very interested in you one moment only to go cold the next? There are many signs to look out for and I am trying to find them all.
But I also meet some sane and cute girls and those are more often career-oriented with higher education. Those girls are also women of word; they can tell you they "let you know tomorrow" and do this. To my surprise.
I need more skills and experience with this but I believe I am uncovering something here.
Let's see if some more girls respond to my check in-text... To be continued...