Fundamentals - an observation

[moom]

Something I’ve noticed:

You can definitely tell when your fundamentals are on point when you start getting compliments out of the blue.

These days on any one night out, I’ll get anywhere from 1 to 10 random compliments from people coming up to me and complimenting my fashion, how im “classy”, things like you look “cool” or complimenting my personality after talking only for a few minutes.

This didnt happen to me when I was younger (and in fact 20-30 pounds lighter and fitter as well when i was younger). Right now, all my fundamentals are at a 7 or above except my body. I do hide it well though and still look like I have muscle (think after a dirty bulk).

Has anyone else had a similar experience?

 

[ulrich]

Yes!!
I find people complimenting something about me on repeated occasions the most confirming way of knowing a fundamental is handled.

That’s specially true if you get complimented for something that you notice other guys never get compliments for (in my case voice and clothes).

 

[trashKENNUT]

People looking for fights, will start getting common too

Haha.

p.s: i mean other men will be adversarial

z@c+

 

[DonGately]

Yes, this started happening to me like 8+ years ago. It was a big sign I had leveled up from beginner to low intermediate.

 

[Rakehell]

I rarely get direct compliments. I’ll get stares from both sexes, clear nervousness when interacting with people, girls going that extra mile to get noticed, (I call them indirect compliments), but never directly complimented until i'm already sleeping with a girl. Sometimes i’ll hear girls fawn in the distance but it’s never said to me.

When I do it’s from older women, gay guys, or online. Might be the age gap.

 

[Warped Mindless]

I rarely get compliments. I always wondered what was up with that until I made friends with a few legit male models (one of which was in several issues of GQ) and they told me that they NEVER get compliments from women when they go out even though they both had great bodies, looks, and style.

 

[ulrich]

Good point.
I do get compliments but they are few and far between.

However, you can tell the difference from getting no compliments.
Getting a few repeated compliments from different people is like a definitive proof in my opinion.

 

[Skills]

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[DarkKnight]

People looking for fights, will start getting common too

Haha.

p.s: i mean other men will be adversarial

z@c+

This is so true. Especially when they see you engage women or get engaged. They get really fazed.

The ones who are more logically disqualified from your dating pool like old women tend to be quite direct with compliments.

When my fundamentals are on point I also feel more sensual and women pick up on this so hard! It is not puffing your chest, it is sensually acting demure as it is expected that you are the prize.

 

[moom]

People looking for fights, will start getting common too

Haha.

p.s: i mean other men will be adversarial

z@c+

Ive had people mean mug me or try to get in the middle of me talking to a girl in their group but I find my charisma disarms them quite easily

 

[moom]

I rarely get compliments. I always wondered what was up with that until I made friends with a few legit male models (one of which was in several issues of GQ) and they told me that they NEVER get compliments from women when they go out even though they both had great bodies, looks, and style.

For me its always from men hahaha, 1/20 people is a woman

 

[DarkKnight]

I wanted to get back to this thread. I think it is better to look for indirect compliments. Such as girls out of the blue trying to prolong interactions, orbiting you and touching you a lot (happens when I am flying high).

Chase had this schematic somewhere about how girls act when you are on a certain fundemantal level and counterintuitive things tend to happen.

When you reach the second best tier of fundamental a lot of girls are intimidated.. I am in this level sometimes too, might be due to my current state, might be due to different social frames. But it is really annoying to be in, when girls AVOID proximity and act DISTANT because they are intimidated.. a lot of false signals there.

Then you have the top tier fundamental and occasionally I seem to slip in this as well. Either due to my current fundamentals or that I am more fit to the current social frame of the girl/group. In this scenario girls seem to think "ah screw it what the hell, I am going for him". Things tend to get more overt here (IN BEHAVIOUR, not in words)

What I am trying to get across is this whole compliments deal from women is, as with every thing with women, much more nuanced and complicated.

Hell Teevster has written a fantastic paradigm changing article called the "attraction paradox" and how high attraction doesn't necessarily translate into more lays.

 

[RedNeck]

Indirect compliments: checking you out and staring at you .
I take those as the most honest signals of being physically attractive. Those two signals are usually at subconscious level : ( I can’t help myself but to check this guy out )

 

[ulrich]

Chase had this schematic somewhere about how girls act when you are on a certain fundemantal level and counterintuitive

I would love to see that schematic

 

[DarkKnight]

@uriel

She’s Not So Socially Savvy – You Must Be It for Her

This one is not so much for beginners as it is for guys who are intermediate+. If you score “Journeyman” or higher on the diagnostic quiz, read on – otherwise, you can still read this one if you like to get a taste of what lies ahead, but after that you’ll probably want to file it away for...

www.girlschase.com

Excerpt:

• Poor fundamentals: she’s uninterested
• Okay fundamentals: she’s conversational
• Good fundamentals: she’s interested
• Great fundamentals: she’s intimidated
• Incredible fundamentals: she’s nervous but screw it, she’s going for it

 

[trashKENNUT]

Handling Fundamentals Discovery

Handling Fundamentals and Move Fast, Auto Rejection. I have been watching over myself and the body language i have been portraying unconsciously. Been able to remove some not so good habits. Apparently I been able to get attention when i am in state control, relax and walking like a sexy man...

www.skilledseducer.com

Social Power & The Law of Effort (2010)

Originally posted in the first Girls Chase Forum on Saturday, 4 September 2010 Hey all, Brief excerpt from the Fundamentals chapter of my upcoming book, in response to Miguel's request that I post something on the Law of Effort. Hope you find it useful. Chase PS, like your name suggestion...

www.skilledseducer.com

Observations - Observations from "The Sound of Music"

I just finished watching The Sound of Music, the 1965 Julie Andrews musical. It's not my normal movie-watching fare, so was a bit different for me. I noticed a couple of things that were eye-opening: one was a technique that I've seen before in older movies and never tried, and the other was...

www.skilledseducer.com

Observations - Become a Scene Superhero

A few years ago, I was an introvert guy whose social circle consisted of a bunch of other geek guys. I was intimidated by “cool people” and had no idea how to negotiate a social scene, especially a skilled-based one that can seem so cruel and backstabbing like Salsa. However, armed with strong...

www.skilledseducer.com

I hope this helps!

z@c+

 

[moom]

Handling Fundamentals Discovery

Handling Fundamentals and Move Fast, Auto Rejection. I have been watching over myself and the body language i have been portraying unconsciously. Been able to remove some not so good habits. Apparently I been able to get attention when i am in state control, relax and walking like a sexy man...

www.skilledseducer.com

Social Power & The Law of Effort (2010)

Originally posted in the first Girls Chase Forum on Saturday, 4 September 2010 Hey all, Brief excerpt from the Fundamentals chapter of my upcoming book, in response to Miguel's request that I post something on the Law of Effort. Hope you find it useful. Chase PS, like your name suggestion...

www.skilledseducer.com

Observations - Observations from "The Sound of Music"

I just finished watching The Sound of Music, the 1965 Julie Andrews musical. It's not my normal movie-watching fare, so was a bit different for me. I noticed a couple of things that were eye-opening: one was a technique that I've seen before in older movies and never tried, and the other was...

www.skilledseducer.com

Observations - Become a Scene Superhero

A few years ago, I was an introvert guy whose social circle consisted of a bunch of other geek guys. I was intimidated by “cool people” and had no idea how to negotiate a social scene, especially a skilled-based one that can seem so cruel and backstabbing like Salsa. However, armed with strong...

www.skilledseducer.com

I hope this helps!

z@c+

Thanks for this!

 

[moom]

@uriel

She’s Not So Socially Savvy – You Must Be It for Her

This one is not so much for beginners as it is for guys who are intermediate+. If you score “Journeyman” or higher on the diagnostic quiz, read on – otherwise, you can still read this one if you like to get a taste of what lies ahead, but after that you’ll probably want to file it away for...

www.girlschase.com

Excerpt:

• Poor fundamentals: she’s uninterested
• Okay fundamentals: she’s conversational
• Good fundamentals: she’s interested
• Great fundamentals: she’s intimidated
• Incredible fundamentals: she’s nervous but screw it, she’s going for it

Thank you Dark Knight!

 

[Tim Iron]

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how players become and act like a hot woman.

www.theskillsmethod.com

I just read that article. From what country did you come to the United States?